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Making money is important. Anyone who says otherwise is just fooling themselves.
latinfridley said:Making money is important. Anyone who says otherwise is just fooling themselves.
YouDontKnowJack said:the worst specialty is one that overworks you and doesn't pay enough for what you do.
KentW said:Your post wasn't simply about money. It was about making money in order to impress one's spouse/significant other.
Good luck with that.
KentW said:Your post wasn't simply about money. It was about making money in order to impress one's spouse/significant other.
Good luck with that.
DoctorFunk said:Are you married?
only a fool would walk away from a specialty that pays better and would be just as interesting and rewarding because of some sense of guilt over being well-paid.
But not everyone has these goals, expectations, and responsibilities in life, so not everyone is going to feel this same pressure that you feel, Panda. Callogician may never even get married, let alone have children. If he doesn't, will he give a flying rip about the cost of private schools or the quality of public ones? Will he worry about the nonexistent sacrifices of his imaginary wife? Of course not. Having children takes a huge bite out of one's disposable income, and those who choose not to have them are going to be in very different financial straits compared to those who do have them, even at the same income level. Even if Cal does get married, his wife may not be a stay-at-home mom. Their combined incomes are likely to exceed a six figure salary if she is also some type of professional.Panda Bear said:Dude. You are so going to change your tune as you get a little older. I guarantee it. Save this post. Print it out. Put it in a safe place and read it five years from now. You are going to cringe in shame the same way your AMCAS essay will make you wince if you read it when you graduate medical school.
When your wife is worrying herself sick over sending your four children to some crappy local public school and the only option is home schooling or shelling out 40,000 bucks to send them to private school she's not going to be impressed by your desire to go for a late night walk with an old friend.
My wife has put up with a lot in the last five years and we are barely half way through with making an income which pretty much limits our discretionary spending to on-line scrabble or reading. To call her a gold-digger (although she is a very, very easy on the eyes) is to not understand what motivates women. They do not want their mates to be the low neandrathal in the clan who submissively cowers to the the other males or forages for beetles and rodents while the mighty hunters are bagging the mammoth.
Can you trust yer' Uncle Panda on this?
KentW said:Nice straw man.
To borrow a phrase from our friends in the legal biz, your post assumes facts not in evidence.
DoctorFunk said:That may be, but our capitalist economy would likely fall apart if every employee were like you, Q, and Call-awhozits and failed to demand that they be paid their maximum possible renumeration.
DoctorFunk said:our capitalist economy would likely fall apart if every employee were like you...and failed to demand that they be paid their maximum possible renumeration.
I never said I would not demand the maximum possible renumeration for my work, and I don't think you could have missed my point any more thoroughly had you purposely tried to do so. I am trying to say that I am not choosing my JOB based on how much it pays, not that I wouldn't want to be paid as much as my employer were willing to pay me.DoctorFunk said:That may be, but our capitalist economy would likely fall apart if every employee were like you, Q, and Call-awhozits and failed to demand that they be paid their maximum possible renumeration. But hey, that's cool, I hope that I am able to find midlevel clinicians to hire in my future practice that enjoy walks on the beach and their rewarding career choice more than their paycheck.
KentW said:And where, exactly, did I say or imply anything like that? (Hint: I didn't.)
I have no interest in defending comments that I haven't made. Have a nice day.
Rafa said:Our "capitalist economy" is already falling apart, with very little help from the non-greedy.
QofQuimica said:I never said I would not demand the maximum possible renumeration for my work, and I don't think you could have missed my point any more thoroughly had you purposely tried to do so. I am trying to say that I am not choosing my JOB based on how much it pays, not that I wouldn't want to be paid as much as my employer were willing to pay me.
QofQuimica said:But not everyone has these goals, expectations, and responsibilities in life, so not everyone is going to feel this same pressure that you feel, Panda. Callogician may never even get married, let alone have children. If he doesn't, will he give a flying rip about the cost of private schools or the quality of public ones? Will he worry about the nonexistent sacrifices of his imaginary wife? Of course not. Having children takes a huge bite out of one's disposable income, and those who choose not to have them are going to be in very different financial straits compared to those who do have them, even at the same income level. Even if Cal does get married, his wife may not be a stay-at-home mom. Their combined incomes are likely to exceed a six figure salary if she is also some type of professional.
I definitely agree with Cal for these reasons. Seeing as I'm never going to have a wife (I'm not into girls, and it's not legal in my state anyway), nor kids, that gives me more freedom to adopt a career that pays me less if I choose to do so. BTW, you (and your wife, assuming she agrees with you) neither speak for nor understand the motivations of all women. There's a reason why Neanderthals and mammoths both went extinct several millenia ago.
Panda Bear said:I want KentW who claims on the Family Medicine forum to make a good income to take a pay cut before he, or anybody, seeks the moral high ground.
DoctorFunk said:Where I draw the line (and I don't think you made this point, but it has been hinted at in posts here by others) is when one makes the financial concerns of those of us interested in private practice in potentially mid to high-level paying specialties seem superfluous and ridiculous.
Panda Bear said:Let me throw out a challenge which, of course, will be impossible to resolve. Based on lifestyle, possesions, and hobbies I bet I am the least materialistic person here. I don't even own an iPod.
Hmm, I guess I didn't interpret Cal's post as harshly as you did, but I can see your point. For the record, if it was unclear whether I was mocking people for taking economics into consideration, I'm not. Hell, I am doing the same thing myself. Since I know that I will earn a smaller income during my career, the cost of each medical school has been a major factor for me; I can't afford to have a quarter of a million dollar debt load, because I won't be able to pay it back. So you better believe that I am going to minimize my educational debt, even if it means giving up my top choice school to go to another school that is my second choice but significantly cheaper. I've argued this point in pre-allo a zillion times with people, but most of them still want to take out as many loans as are necessary to go to the biggest name school they can.DoctorFunk said:Don't get me wrong Q, I find nothing wrong with your choosing your field of medicine based on what interests you rather than economic pressures. Where I draw the line (and I don't think you made this point, but it has been hinted at in posts here by others) is when one makes the financial concerns of those of us interested in private practice in potentially mid to high-level paying specialties seem superfluous and ridiculous. For example, Callogician painted the black and white picture that you can either be a romantic, intellectual uninterested in wordly pursuits of luxury, or you can be the small-penised, sports-car driving man interested only in wealth and extravagance.
As with most subjects on messageboards, real life is nowhere near this simple. People choose specialties (as with career choices in any other field) due to their personal preferences. I prefer not to worry about my retirement, whether I will have choices in how my children are educated, whether my wife can afford to pursue the career she would enjoy (or even be a stay-at-home mother), or whether I can afford to pay my student loans AND eat out with my friends this weekend. I do not find these concerns to be outrageous, and I fully intend to make career choices with them (and my hefty debt load) in mind.
Sorry, but I'm going to have to disappoint you, dude. I don't even own a TELEVISION, let alone an ipod, although I did listen to a friend's ipod once. No VCR, no TIVO, no stereo system, no home telephone. I do have a $20 CD player from Wal-Mart, a cell phone, and a computer, which I need for school/work. Let's see, I have an old microwave that I got as a gift when I first started college in 1993. Oh, and a six-year-old car that I plan to keep at least until I make it out of med school. I concede that I do have running water, indoor toilets, and electricity, but the weather here in FL is pretty similar to what y'all have in LA, so I hope you'll pardon my extravagence.Panda Bear said:The only real difference between me and many of you "idealists" is that you will pay a lot of lip service to the notion of the simple life but still take the money.
Let me throw out a challenge which, of course, will be impossible to resolve. Based on lifestyle, possesions, and hobbies I bet I am the least materialistic person here. I don't even own an iPod.
This entire thread is very interesting to me personally because I could choose to not take the MCAT for the umpteenth time and apply MD/PhD. I could easily choose to rest on the hard work of others and chill until death I do part.QofQuimica said:I guess what prompted me to write in the first place is that I had the impression that you and Panda (and really Panda more than you) seem to assume that everyone must share the same ultimate goals in life, such as providing for a family
QofQuimica said:Sorry, but I'm going to have to disappoint you, dude. I don't even own a TELEVISION, let alone an ipod, although I did listen to a friend's ipod once. No VCR, no TIVO, no stereo system, no home telephone. I do have a $20 CD player from Wal-Mart, a cell phone, and a computer, which I need for school/work. Let's see, I have an old microwave that I got as a gift when I first started college in 1993. Oh, and a six-year-old car that I plan to keep at least until I make it out of med school. I concede that I do have running water, indoor toilets, and electricity, but the weather here in FL is pretty similar to what y'all have in LA, so I hope you'll pardon my extravagence.
QofQuimica said:...seem to assume that everyone must share the same ultimate goals in life, such as providing for a family...
And those are the ones whom evolution will select against.MollyMalone said:6.2% of American women of childbearing age choose not to have children (this does not include women who are infertile and unable to have children). (Source:NHCS)
That's almost 4 million women able to control themselves and their reproductive destinies.
So sorry.
(Edited to clarify statistic)
happydays said:And those are the ones whom evolution will select against.
MollyMalone said:6.2% of American women of childbearing age choose not to have children (this does not include women who are infertile and unable to have children). (Source:NHCS)
MollyMalone said:6.2% of American women of childbearing age choose not to have children (this does not include women who are infertile and unable to have children). (Source:NHCS)
That's almost 4 million women able to control themselves and their reproductive destinies.
So sorry.
(Edited to clarify statistic)
MollyMalone said:6.2% of American women of childbearing age choose not to have children (this does not include women who are infertile and unable to have children). (Source:NHCS)
That's almost 4 million women able to control themselves and their reproductive destinies.
So sorry.
(Edited to clarify statistic)
Because when a doctor who picked a specialty primarly based on pay has an "investment" that failed, someone ends up dead or disabled.MarzMD said:Medical school is an investment. I dont get why people look down on doctors that expect to come out far ahead on that investment.
1Path said:Because when a doctor who picked a specialty primarly based on pay has an "investment" that failed, someone ends up dead or disabled.
darrvao777 said:I think people with skin cancer would disagree with that.
LanceArmstrong said:I don't think skin cancer goes to derm per se... usually GS cuts those things out, PATHOLOGY determines what the hell it is (acrochordon vs. infiltrating melanoma), then when the melanoma spreads RADIOLOGY determines the extent of tumor spread, and HEME/ONC treats the patient.
LanceArmstrong said:I don't think skin cancer goes to derm per se... usually GS cuts those things out, PATHOLOGY determines what the hell it is (acrochordon vs. infiltrating melanoma), then when the melanoma spreads RADIOLOGY determines the extent of tumor spread, and HEME/ONC treats the patient.
DoctorFunk said:I'm not sure that statistic does much to support your case at all. 6.2% is only 1.2% away from falling into an accepted p-value of .05 if we were to hypothesize that ALL women would prefer to have children.
MollyMalone said:I'm not sure I understand what you're trying to argue here.
MarzMD said:I dont think anyone in this thread was advocating picking a specialty primarily based on pay. I think most are saying that it can be irresponsible to not consider pay when picking a specialty(especially when one has a family to consider). If this is not what they are saying, then I am saying it.
MollyMalone said:6.2% of American women of childbearing age choose not to have children (this does not include women who are infertile and unable to have children). (Source:NHCS)
That's almost 4 million women able to control themselves and their reproductive destinies.
So sorry.
(Edited to clarify statistic)
Panda Bear said:And yet most people (with apologies to our gay friends) end up with a family just the same.
It's a primal urge. You won't be able to help yourself.
So sorry.
latinfridley said:...#4 To each his own.
In a few more years (I'm already in my early thirties), there won't be much of an issue any more of whether I can "help it" or not. Time is on my side, not yours, on this one.Panda Bear said:And yet most people (with apologies to our gay friends) end up with a family just the same.
It's a primal urge. You won't be able to help yourself.
So sorry.
cdql said:I think FP's would be hard-pressed to just identify a spot on the skin and immediately and confidently diagnose it as a skin cancer.
MN81 said:Second that.