Except that
LizzyM herself admitted implicitly that the process is unfair. Take geographic distribution for example. Why did her school suddenly decide that the 37th applicant from a region is too much? They just accepted 36 students from one area and screwed over one because they decided to stop taking from that area. How is that not arbitrary, even though they had the intention of taking someone from a different geographic area?
I'm not asking for a definition of random. I'm not equating fairness with randomness. And I don't think my full understanding of each school's requirements and application weights would make me change my opinion. Even if LizzyM disclosed her school's selection procedure, you don't think there is at least ONE applicant who was left out simply because they didn't have a seat? If a school gets 5000 applicants and takes 150, their selection criteria would have to be EXTREMELY deep in terms of priorities in order to narrow down 150 students without turning away someone they feel fits their school.
At the end of the day,
arguing semantics doesn't change what I thought the essence of this post was about: the seeming variability in the medical school application process. No matter what you call it (fair/unfair, random/planned, variable/invariable), there is a general feeling of "Why me?" when you don't get in somewhere and someone with lower stats does.
I'm not saying this is wrong, unavoidable or unwarranted, but it's a dread that infects many pre-meds and I don't think this thread allays their fears, considering it has been pretty much said that ALL variables and intangibles can't be accounted for.
Call this what it is then.
This is not semantics, this is clarity. Claiming that something is random and saying that something is confusing or unfair are different things. Racial segregation was unfair, but it was hardly random. One can argue that affirmative action is unfair, but it is hardly random. Perhaps choosing someone from a rare geographic region is unfair, but again, as you say, it's not random. That is a huge point, so be clear on that when you are responding to others.
You aren't saying that it's wrong, that it's unfair, or even unpredictable--so what
are you saying? Getting rejected sucks, I know. I've been rejected from things that made me want to cry it hurt so bad to keep getting told "no". No one is denying that. But I think it's time to realize this is the real world. Don't start feeling sorry for yourself or wronged because you didn't do what others were willing to do. So you can't be born from Montana or some small village in Tanzania. You can control literally every other aspect of your application, and with a few
small exceptions, your effort, your interests, your intellect, and your personality will determine your success in this process. Why did 36 people from your same region get accepted over you in the first place? What did they do differently, and could you have done something better that would have put you in front of them? Most likely, the answer will be yes.
I think too many people here have no idea the caliber of applicants out there. You say "why me" if you get rejected,
I say "why me" if I get accepted! So what if there are more than 150 qualified fits? No one deserves a spot. No one is entitled to a spot. Medical schools want the 150
best fits. There are thousands of people with better stats than you and I, with more charming personalities, with better research experiences, with deeper commitments to service, with better leadership talent, the list goes on. You want to know why you didn't get in, pick something someone else did better than you and there's your answer. Whatever you do, don't complain because you had a better MCAT and GPA than someone else, because that's simply not how the selection process works and there's no mystery about that.
So if you hate the process, and you hate the rules of the game, that's your choice. You can also choose to come back and change it, as I one day hope to. But you controlled your destiny when you went to class everyday, when you studied for the MCAT alone in your room, when you chose what things mattered to you and what things didn't, and when you showed up to the interview and sold your story. Don't blame the school because others did it better.