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LetItSnow said:
I'll sell you one. Or two, and give you a break on the price of the second.
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Lol, luckily LIS, my brain and not my ovaries/uterus calls the shots :p
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Posted this in the lounge and you guys should know my shame too.

I'm wearing Christmas socks today because I'm so behind on laundry...
 
Jamming out to the new Taylor Swift CD... I want so much to dislike her. And the Weeee are never ever getting back together song is atrocious. But other than that... THE CD IS AWESOME!
 
Philliab said:
Totally just started watching that...can you believe the girl with no teeth?! :eek: That freaked me out for days.
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O-M-G ... I accidentally watched the first episode of that show and I am totally hooked :whistle:
 
Philliab said:
Totally just started watching that...can you believe the girl with no teeth?! :eek: That freaked me out for days.
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I KNOW!!!!!! OMG :laugh::laugh::laugh:

I have only watched the most recent episode and am desperately trying to avoid the show.
 
I'm listening to Christmas music. :oops: Sorry EC, I couldn't stop myself. :laugh:
 
Finnsheep said:
I always listen to Christmas music, year-round.
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I sing it year round for recordings so by the time Christmas comes around I feel like I'm vomiting them out instead of singing them. :rolleyes:
 
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Finnsheep said:
I always listen to Christmas music, year-round.
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Heh, I may not listen to it but I'll occasionally catch myself singing/humming/whistling it. I'll start doing it absentmindedly sometimes so I'll be cooking or cleaning or doing some other mundane task and it's like the middle of summer and I'll suddenly stop and think to myself, "Was I really just humming White Christmas...in June...?" :laugh:
 
Frozenshades said:
Heh, I may not listen to it but I'll occasionally catch myself singing/humming/whistling it. I'll start doing it absentmindedly sometimes so I'll be cooking or cleaning or doing some other mundane task and it's like the middle of summer and I'll suddenly stop and think to myself, "Was I really just humming White Christmas...in June...?" :laugh:
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That's what I do! :laugh:
 
I ate mushrooms earlier today and I thought I saw Gozer again. It totes freaked me out.:scared:
 
equineconstant said:
I completely agree, but I'm enjoying fall too much right now. :D Christmas can happen after Thanksgiving. ;)
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I love hanging Christmas lights and getting a Christmas tree the weekend of Thanksgiving! :love:
 
EngrSC said:
I love hanging Christmas lights and getting a Christmas tree the weekend of Thanksgiving! :love:
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My boyfriend won't let me bring Christmas things out until Thanksgiving but I love decking out my apartment. Is it sad that I worry if I get in a international vet school that I am concerned that I can't bring my pretty decorations??
 
EngrSC said:
I love hanging Christmas lights and getting a Christmas tree the weekend of Thanksgiving! :love:
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Same! Except it's more like the week before Christmas now, since that's when I get home.
 
MonkeyResrcher said:
My boyfriend won't let me bring Christmas things out until Thanksgiving but I love decking out my apartment. Is it sad that I worry if I get in a international vet school that I am concerned that I can't bring my pretty decorations??
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Who says you can't pack a tiny box of Christmas decorations?? OR maybe someone can send them to you as a care package? :idea: ... Christmas without the music and decorations sounds dreadful!
 
EngrSC said:
Who says you can't pack a tiny box of Christmas decorations?? OR maybe someone can send them to you as a care package? :idea: ... Christmas without the music and decorations sounds dreadful!
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You can buy Christmas decorations in the UK too. There are quite a few cheap shops around here where you could find things without having to spend a bunch of money. :)

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EngrSC said:
Who says you can't pack a tiny box of Christmas decorations?? OR maybe someone can send them to you as a care package? :idea: ... Christmas without the music and decorations sounds dreadful!
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Well lucky for me most music can be put on my laptop or jump drive. My mom sent me a care package when I lived in Sri Lanka and it cost her almost $200. I don't know how much it'd cost for UK or Grenada but I feel bad about the shipping costs. So much to bring, so little space! I guess I will have to wait a couple months to even see if I need to worry about this...

DVMDream said:
You can buy Christmas decorations in the UK too. There are quite a few cheap shops around here where you could find things without having to spend a bunch of money. :)

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Christmas shopping in the UK, how I dream.... and there are actual snow-covered castles! Although if it snows like Buffalo, the weather will get old quick but that's besides the point. Sounds like fun!
 
MonkeyResrcher said:
How so? I'm a procrastinator and great self-doubter if it makes you feel better :cool:
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Some stuff is bothering me and I'm hesitant to talk about it to the person I should talk to because I'm so nervous it'll make it even worse. It's been bothering me for weeks. :(
 
PetPony said:
Some stuff is bothering me and I'm hesitant to talk about it to the person I should talk to because I'm so nervous it'll make it even worse. It's been bothering me for weeks. :(
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Aww I am the same way. I have horrible anxiety disorder. Do they realize that something is wrong? Sometimes the other half doesn't even know or understnad why someone is upset. Nothing can change if you both stay silent. (and yes, I realize you already know this)

This weekend I had to confront someone for being inconsiderate and selfish and made me so anxious I had to pop a clonazepam (prescribed) but by the end we were like a Dr. Phil episode making up and she thanked me for pointing out her fault instead of letting it build up and ruin the friendship.

Hard part is that it will continue to give you anxiety until something happens. Now or later, some kind of interaction will occur.

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I ended up saying something tonight, but nothing is being changed. Apparently it's easier for everyone to keep everything as is for now. :(
 
Charlie Brown Christmas station on Pandora :whoa:
 
A best friend of mine(boy) recently started dating another good friend of mine (girl) about 8 months ago.

A few weekends ago, girl drunkenly admitted to me that she cheated on boy with a random guy when she was drunk on a girls night out (I was not there due to school).

But she stated it was "nothing serious" because she only made out with another boy.



HUIDEOJDNHBRJUDEI!!! I cannot forget it. I wish she had never told me. I have lost all respect for her and have no idea what to do...other then keep trying to forget it.
 
MommaFox said:
A best friend of mine(boy) recently started dating another good friend of mine (girl) about 8 months ago.

A few weekends ago, girl drunkenly admitted to me that she cheated on boy with a random guy when she was drunk on a girls night out (I was not there due to school).

But she stated it was "nothing serious" because she only made out with another boy.



HUIDEOJDNHBRJUDEI!!! I cannot forget it. I wish she had never told me. I have lost all respect for her and have no idea what to do...other then keep trying to forget it.
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Jeepers. That's a tough situation.
 
Ugh, that is a horrible situation. Personally, I would tell him. And hopefully he'll handle it without letting it slip that you were the one who told him.

Cheating makes my blood boil. :mad:
 
My boyfriend in high school cheated on me. Bad. There was a video played at Saturday morning football practice. The girl was our chemistry teacher's daughter. The principal got a hold of it. My BF and the girl were eventually charged with child pornography kind of bad. But I was dumb and didn't believe what people (including teachers who saw it) told me. Eventually I figured it out. But my best friend (still to this day) who was a mutual friend of us both, decided he wouldn't tell me bc he didn't think I would believe him. I still get angry with him at times for it (rational or not) and really truly wish he would have said something. Since then I never hold back when someone cheats. Even if I barely know you. If you want to suck as an SO, it's not my problem. As someone who's been there, I want the innocent party to at least have the facts to make their own decisions with. Nothing worse than looking like a fool and finding out later your friend knew and never told you.
I'm not saying it should be that easy of a decision for you, just throwing my two cents out there. Maybe try and convince her that it's best he finds out from her and that he will be much more willing to forgive her that way (not saying he should).
I personally would be disappointed in my friend for doing it. Which would make me feel that the guy is much more deserving to hear the info, than my friend is to cry on my shoulder about something I completely disagree with.
 
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fromthebox said:
I'm doing OK in trying to take care of my basic vet courses such as anatomy and phys. I don't yet know if it is really good because I haven't been tested but my study group seems to feel like i am god and going to save them but teaching them it all. Now I feel responsible for their grades like they'll turn on me if the test goes badly tomorrow. And I'm starting to want to extricate myself because they keep asking me about things and I DONT KNOW IT ALL.

Urgh. I am a bad person.
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Oh no no no.
This is YOUR education! You cannot let your people pleasing skills get in the way of your performance. I have a friend in vet school who does it and I want to slap her :slap:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with saying, "I really need to get some personal studying time done bc I'm not feeling confident enough." It is not your responsibility or duty to help anyone else. Don't fall into that trap, it's so hard to get out. I was there once. Glad I'm out!
 
Emiloo4 said:
My boyfriend in high school cheated on me. Bad. There was a video played at Saturday morning football practice. The girl was our chemistry teacher's daughter. The principal got a hold of it. My BF and the girl were eventually charged with child pornography kind of bad. But I was dumb and didn't believe what people (including teachers who saw it) told me. Eventually I figured it out. But my best friend (still to this day) who was a mutual friend of us both, decided he wouldn't tell me bc he didn't think I would believe him. I still get angry with him at times for it (rational or not) and really truly wish he would have said something. Since then I never hold back when someone cheats. Even if I barely know you. If you want to suck as an SO, it's not my problem. As someone who's been there, I want the innocent party to at least have the facts to make their own decisions with. Nothing worse than looking like a fool and finding out later your friend knew and never told you.
I'm not saying it should be that easy of a decision for you, just throwing my two cents out there. Maybe try and convince her that it's best he finds out from her and that he will be much more willing to forgive her that way (not saying he should).
I personally would be disappointed in my friend for doing it. Which would make me feel that the guy is much more deserving to hear the info, than my friend is to cry on my shoulder about something I completely disagree with.
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I agree with you. I was cheated on too and an ex-boyfriend at the time told me about it. I dismissed it because current cheater bf told me the only reason he was saying that is because he was jealous. I found out a bit later and felt SO HORRIBLE that I didn't believe ex bf. We are still friends to this day.


Part of me wants to tell him because I personally would want to know...but the other half just doesn't have the emotional energy to get involved, you know? I just wish she never told me and I do not even know why she did.
 
MommaFox said:
I agree with you. I was cheated on too and an ex-boyfriend at the time told me about it. I dismissed it because current cheater bf told me the only reason he was saying that is because he was jealous. I found out a bit later and felt SO HORRIBLE that I didn't believe ex bf. We are still friends to this day.
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^^^^^^^^ exactly my situation. He was an ex who I'd been best friends with since first grade and we both knew he still had feelings for me. He thought I would assume he was trying to break us up. Weird!!! :laugh:
 
MommaFox said:
I agree with you. I was cheated on too and an ex-boyfriend at the time told me about it. I dismissed it because current cheater bf told me the only reason he was saying that is because he was jealous. I found out a bit later and felt SO HORRIBLE that I didn't believe ex bf. We are still friends to this day.


Part of me wants to tell him because I personally would want to know...but the other half just doesn't have the emotional energy to get involved, you know? I just wish she never told me and I do not even know why she did.
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Could you tell him anonymously or are you the only person who knows?
 
Emiloo4 said:
Could you tell him anonymously or are you the only person who knows?
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Me and the other girl who she was with when it happened. I don't think anyone else. And I don't really know the relationship other girl has with guy friend or how she would even go about telling him if she wanted to...and she is girls roomate so I don't wanna cause friction there.

Its just a bad situation.
 
MommaFox said:
Me and the other girl who she was with when it happened. I don't think anyone else. And I don't really know the relationship other girl has with guy friend or how she would even go about telling him if she wanted to...and she is girls roomate so I don't wanna cause friction there.

Its just a bad situation.
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Yikes I guess so!
Well either way you are in a tough spot and you'll make the best decision you can given the circumstances. Try to act like it never happened :laugh:
 
Coffee. Need I say more? I may need some sort of rehabilitation program.
 
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