I am on the verge of telling my boyfriend he needs to re-evaluate his priorities. He graduated last summer with his degree for mechanical engineering with a lowerish GPA, around a 3.0 exactly I think, and still hasn't gotten a job. I'm not talking engineering jobs. I understand those are difficult to find and be competitive for. I'm talking a job at all. He stays home pretty much all day every day and plays WOW. He complains he doesn't have money and gets headaches. Well, yes, dear, you will be broke if you don't work and you will get headaches if you stare at a computer screen all day. We both still live with our respective parents, but it has started to really annoy me that he doesn't want to get an "in between job" for even part time because he doesn't want to 1) work for minimum wage (with having absolutely no bills or concerns except our occasional dates) and 2) be (and I quote) "too tired to apply for a real job after work". Really? I got a 9 dollar an hour job at a doggy boarding place for 21 hours a week when my mom lost her business and my dad was laid off. I applied to 20 jobs a day. He is aiming for 3 applications a week. I love him dearly, but the difference in work ethic is our biggest point of contention. His parents are getting annoyed (his mom tried to convince him to come with me to a birthday party in my college town so he would leave the house), my mom has openly been negative about it, and I am getting to the point where I am passive aggressive when he makes a "I'm bored", "I'm broke", "I have a headache comment". I need to have a serious talk with him about it but it is hard to find an amicable opening.