I'm so over passive aggressiveness and the pettiness in the back rooms of veterinary clinics. I've noticed that it exists in practically all work places where more than 5 people are working together at the same time. Here's my story:
I started working at a new clinic 4 months ago. The owner has a dog that is dog aggressive and poorly behaved, but he brings the dog to work with him every day and has assistants take the dog to work with them when he is away and they are dog-sitting for him. In any case, he goes out of town for 2 weeks and comes back this past Wednesday. While he was away the assistants and receptionists were especially catty, using their cellphones more, talking more unprofessionally, and generally "acting up" more around myself and the other associate. Sometimes they would talk back to me about doing something for a case and one time an assistant refused to get something I asked of her because "there was no time left and she had to leave work" right when we are scheduled to close despite us not having finished the last appointment. I tried my best to get them to keep their voices down, use their cellphones less, and stay focused on work. I believe they are used to getting away with a lot of bad behavior because overall they get the job done well and we're always busy so business is good.
So, today I get a text message from the owner because he is upset that I put his dog in a cage (he is working today; I am off). This happened over a month ago that I put the dog in a cage while dealing with another aggressive dog during an appointment. The assistants had told me that his dog was worse in cages and would urinate/defecate out of anxiety, so we took him out and I never put him in a cage again. My suspicion is that someone told him this out of retaliation for me being stricter with them while he was away. Out of all the places I have worked, this clinic is my favorite due to the clients, staff and supportive environment, but it is also the least professional work place I have ever experienced.
Phew, I feel much better venting this out!