I won't disagree with your other two paragraphs, but this is the misconception about medical school that people have... particularly the first two years. Medical school keeps coming at you, but to say you never get a break is flat out wrong. It's also destructive. The issue is that YOU have to be the one to step back and create those breaks and barriers between school/work and your life.
Fair enough...I suppose I see that as a
part of being constantly under pressure. The work and the schedule don't stop, but you find ways to be happy within that. Just a difference in semantics.
plan on sacrificing their personal and social lives for college, then med school. Then what? Do they think it gets easier in residency? Their plan is to go to over a decade sacrificing their personal lives? When does it end? Even going straight through without gaps, the median physician is in their 30s when they finish training. Do they think the'll suddenly be fulfilled when they put on a white coat at the end?
I'm 100% on board with that...as I said, you've got to enjoy the journey! I don't see the next several years as an obstacle to grit my teeth and survive. I know it's not going to be all fun and rainbows, but I plan to make the most of it.
Pressure creates diamonds far less than it causes solid substances to crumble.
@Goro isn't the only one who has seen med school break previously healthy students. Substance abuse, anxiety, depression, poor physical health, and worse. If you constantly work under pressure, with enough time you will crack unless you develop and maintain a release valve.
I actually have
more of a social life when I have less time for it. It's easy to hand wave and go "oh, we'll hang out sometime, we can do it whenever", but when there's only one day you're free in a month, you are more proactive about making solid plans...or at least I am!
I get what you're trying to say, but that's what I
mean when I say I 'thrive under pressure.' I take better care of myself, feel better, am less depressed, etc. You can object to my phrasing in the first part, but I would argue that just because you're never
given a break doesn't mean you can't
take one!
Obviously that isn't true for all people, and I don't deny that for some, being constantly overloaded is worse than being constantly underloaded. But why is it so surprising that some people, like me, would prefer the reverse as well?