It sucks that you feel that way. It's clear that this is a fairly emotional time at the moment and an objective discussion may not be possible at this moment. Once things calm down, if you have any questions about the process, feel free to ask.
I actually am giving feedback and questions on the process. You and I don't have a professional relationship and we aren't in a therapy session. I'm sorry if my raw emotion is too much for you to handle but I'm not going to be a Freudian blank slate in every interaction I have with people. Furthermore, there is no such thing as a true objective discussion because we are all coming to it from our own subjective viewpoints.
You believe that training directors owe applicants nothing.
I believe that applicants deserve to be treated respectfully as human beings instead of just names on page.