No worries. I'm sure this whole process has a lot of us on edge. I can totally understand your anxieties about leaving a spouse.
My comment may have been a little harsh but I'm sitting here with only two interviews out of 15 applications and I'm already having to seriously consider phase 2. So when I hear someone lamenting about how they only have 9 interviews, it's a little hard to be sympathetic to that. I know there are others worse off that me with one or no interviews. Didn't someone post about having done 24 applications and they received 16 rejections and no interviews so far?
I totally get being disappointed, but you do have 9 interviews and there is no way you will not match in this first round.
I may also be a little snarky as well because a fellow student from my practicum has been gloating all week about her 6 interviews while my best friend only has 3 and I'm sitting at 2.