3 years out - officially a millionaire and one step closer to saying goodbye to EM

[WhatJobDoIPick]

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It's incredible. I was oblivious to that type of advantage until I was in residency. I literally had hot women 10+ yrs younger than I that were making advances; they got disappointed when I let them know that I am happily married.

Bro I thought being divorced with kids would be game over but turns out it was like shooting fish in a barrel.

 

[WhatJobDoIPick]

There's was a comment above about your money working harder than you do. That struck me, because even at my paltry 1M of stocks compared to you richie rich dads, a +0.25% day in SPY results in more money for me than a shift. Especially after taxes!

Really speaks to how savings rate is key.

Saving at least 20% of gross / yr of EM salary WILL buy you freedom eventually.

 

[cyanide12345678]

Bro I thought being divorced with kids would be game over but turns out it was like shooting fish in a barrel.

if you have money, it’s definitely not game over. There’s a surprisingly high demand for older men in their 30s and 40s by very young women who just want to be treated well (restaurants, vacations, shopping etc).

 

[emergentmd]

Women like $$$, Power, Prestige. Have any one of those and you are better than 99% of men in this world. If you are a doc, you have $$$ and prestige and better than 99.5%. If you are single, then you now are better than 99.9% in most women's eyes.

Docs who own businesses have now added the power into their portfolio. They literally can have most single women.

 

[Splenda88]

Women like $$$, Power, Prestige. Have any one of those and you are better than 99% of men in this world. If you are a doc, you have $$$ and prestige and better than 99.5%. If you are single, then you now are better than 99.9% in most women's eyes.

Docs who own businesses have now added the power into their portfolio. They literally can have most single women.

I must say it's very tempting as a married man when you have beautiful women 15+ years younger than you that would not have given the time of the day in the past but now suddenly are happy to talk to you.

There is an ED guy at my shop that left his wife for a younger hot nurse. They are married and have kids. I know the nurse (now an NP) but I don't know his ex wife but that is the story in our hospital. The guy is probably in his late 40s, and the RN/NP is probably in her early to mid 30s.

 

[xaelia]

I must say it's very tempting as a married man when you have beautiful women 15+ years younger than you that would not have given the time of the day in the past but now suddenly are happy to talk to you.

🚩 xaelia was marked SAFE from beautiful women 15+ years younger talking to him.

 

[Porfirio]

I can’t even imagine having my wife as an ex-wife. F… that would be a nightmare. Better to just stay married to her.

 

[Apollyon]

I can’t even imagine having my wife as an ex-wife. F… that would be a nightmare. Better to just stay married to her.

"Cheaper to keep her!"

 

[HoosierdaddyO]

My best financial advice… avoid Coldplay concerts 🤷‍♂️!!

 

[Splenda88]

My best financial advice… avoid Coldplay concerts 🤷‍♂️!!

My wife wants to go to one in London (Wembley) in September, should I say "no"?

 

[AlmostAnMD]

My wife wants to go one in London (Wembley) in September, should I say "no"?

work wife no

home wife yes

 

[Splenda88]

work wife no

home wife yes

I don't have a work wife........... yet.