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so you would perform the procedures involved in this, but not the abortion itself?
Yes, sir.
so you would perform the procedures involved in this, but not the abortion itself?
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I look for the greater good. The dead child is in Heaven which is a much better place than being raped by their mom's new boyfriend and committing suicide at age 15. (Yes, I'm talking about an actual case.) I've spent the majority of volunteer time since high school working with unwanted children. It's not pretty...
Does it make murder right? No. Does it make it understandable? Yes
This topic has great potential, especially for an interview question. "Hypothetically, if a patient (15 y/o) came to you requesting an abortion, would you perform the procedure and honor her request to not tell her parents?"
To me, abortion is case dependent.
I will give you the fact that fertilization is not universally applicable to life on a definition scale. But on a human scale it is, and the morals applied to humans are not the same applied to parthenogenic whiptail lizards. Also a zygote which is fertilized can develop in a dangerous way. You could say spina bifida or down syndrome are dangerous developmental disorders. Should these children have less of a shot at life? And a parasite, while I am sure some women during a pregnancy think this haha, Im not going there.
I would just like to add that this is a fuitfull discussion, and good practice for interview season
Anecdotes don't make it right. Who's to say what will happen in that childs life. I'm also a christian but that doesn't make me want to kill babies just so they can go to heaven faster, thats Heaven's Gate-esque type behavior. And what if the baby is an atheist, does it still go to heaven? Ok that was a joke but think about.
But it's so important to keep in mind why that is true. It's not because humans are special in some fundamental way; it's because humans are the ones who came up with morals. It's also good to keep in mind that that is why God is imagined to look like a homo sapien.Your right that the morals applied to humans are different then the rest of the natural world.
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I believe it is alive, wholeheartedly. My opinions and my beliefs are not mutually exclusive...nor does my religion indicate that I should have codes of behavior that are not flexible or inconsistent with SOME values of the secular world's. Render unto Caesar the things which are Caesars, and unto God the things that are Gods. (Matthew 22:21)
MsKrispyKreme said:Let me tell you a story. One day this mentally ill kid was recklessly throwing darts everywhere, and my 2-year old nephew and I were walking by his house when one came at his face. I threw myself over him, and the dart got stuck in my arm. This left a scar. My religion forbids body mutiliation, but do you think God cared in that situation?What if it had hit my jugular instead, and I died? Technically that's suicide, right? Do you think I would've gone to hell?
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MsKrispyKreme said:I look for the greater good. The dead child is in Heaven which is a much better place than being raped by their mom's new boyfriend and committing suicide at age 15. (Yes, I'm talking about an actual case.) I've spent the majority of volunteer time since high school working with unwanted children. It's not pretty...
Does it make murder right? No. Does it make it understandable? Yes
But it's so important to keep in mind why that is true. It's not because humans are special in some fundamental way; it's because humans are the ones who came up with morals. It's also good to keep in mind that that is why God is imagined to look like a homo sapien.
I'm sorry, but I can't take your response seriously. 🙄 This is such an emotional issue that people aren't even READING each other's responses holistically (just picking out certain portions). I stated from the beginning that I would not perform an abortion unless there were extenuating circumstances (ectopic pregnancy, rape victim, underage incest victim) AND there was no other physician available to do it.
The "anecdotes" that I listed were explaining why I do support the legislation (Roe vs. Wade) despite my personal/religious beliefs (thus my quote from Matthew).
Understand or do I need to repeat myself again?
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So if you make abortion illegal - what's the penalty. How much time does the women get in prison?
Render unto Caesar the things which are Caesars, and unto God the things that are Gods. (Matthew 22:21)
Sorry, this is an absolutely horrific way to look at life. Hey, no worries, they'll just end up in heaven anyway! Why bother with social workers, then. Abused children should just be put down quickly, for their own good. 🙄
It is either murder or it is not. That is the bottom line. If you believe it is murder, then you can never morally justify it. Period.
Can this poll be changed to "pro-choice" vs. "anti-choice"? There are a lot of ways that the current one can be interpreted (or misinterpreted), such as "do you believe in abortion as a choice for yourself?" "do you believe that abortion should be legal?" "do you believe that abortion is a good idea most of the time?" "do you believe that abortion is ever the right choice?" "do you believe that women have the right to choose?"
Pro-choice vs. anti-choice is more accurate, IMO. "I feel that women have the right to choose an abortion, and should continue to have that right" vs. "I do not feel that abortions should be available, and that women do not have the right to choose to have abortions"
I'm sorry, but this is a rather narrow-minded way to view this. There is absolutely no grey area between murder or not?
Also, nobody is saying that abused children should be killed, or babies killed indiscriminately (as someone suggested earlier). I think we can agree that unwanted children have very difficult lives, and the imprisonment/suicide/criminal/etc records are far greater for children who have been abused, right? Unless I'm insane I think this has been established pretty well.
The mother, regardless of all other circumstances, is considering an abortion. I think this signifies that she is NOT READY to have a baby. I personally don't think having children in the world who are not wanted by the parents is a great idea. Also, given that underaged children and young adults in general will not be able to provide a stable, comfortable environment for the child, why would it be better for the child to be born into this kind of setting? I realize that there are holes in this logic - please don't bring outlandish statements like poor people shouldnt be allowed to reproduce, there are plenty of single mothers who raised great children, etc. The first is ridiculous, the second is the exception, not the rule.
I don't think the vast majority of this board understand what it means to grow up in a single parent, low-income home. It is a difficult life at best. You live in a low-income area - there is higher crime, worse education, etc. Blanket, overgeneralized statements like those strewn all over this thread I think indicate that many people have lived a nice, comfortable life that allows them to make condescending, ignorant remarks like abortion = murder without any consideration of the effects on the child or parents. There are many things worse than death in this world.
Just my rambling, sometimes incoherent 2 cents.
JOF
lol. "Anti-choice"?? That's putting a little spin on things, don't ya think? How 'bout we go with Pro-choice and Pro-life. Or, if you'd rather, pro-life and "anti-life."
The problem with most people in this debate is that it tends to get to the point of "WHY DON'T YOU VALUE LIFE? ABORTION IS MURDER" vs. "WHY DON'T YOU RESPECT WOMEN?" when, in fact, those are not the issues. The issue should be "should women be legally allowed to make decisions about their bodies?"
The problem with most people in this debate is that it tends to get to the point of "WHY DON'T YOU VALUE LIFE? ABORTION IS MURDER" vs. "WHY DON'T YOU RESPECT WOMEN?" when, in fact, those are not the issues. The issue should be "should women be legally allowed to make decisions about their bodies?"
Actually I think the issue is a conflict of rights.....who has more of a right?, does the fetus' right to life outweigh the mother's right to choose? that's the real question.....we all obvious value life (I hope)....some of you think a mother's rights outweigh's a fetus' rights....and other people see it the other way around.......basically I think a pro-abortion person should say why they dont think a fetus has a right to life....I am sincerely intersested in some responses.
Adoption, anyone?
The problem with most people in this debate is that it tends to get to the point of "WHY DON'T YOU VALUE LIFE? ABORTION IS MURDER" vs. "WHY DON'T YOU RESPECT WOMEN?" when, in fact, those are not the issues. The issue should be "should women be legally allowed to make decisions about their bodies?"
Actually I think the issue is a conflict of rights.....who has more of a right?, does the fetus' right to life outweigh the mother's right to choose? that's the real question.....we all obvious value life (I hope)....some of you think a mother's rights outweigh's a fetus' rights....and other people see it the other way around.......basically I think a pro-abortion person should say why they dont think a fetus has a right to life....I am sincerely intersested in some responses.
I am not "pro-abortion" I am Pro-Choice. There is a huge difference.
Additionally, I feel that a fetus does not have a right to life until that fetus is capable of personally exercising that right. If it cannot survive outside of the uterus, it does not, in my opinion, have autonomy/agency/a right to life.
Also, I'm wondering: how many anti-abortion people out there are carnivores? How 'bout that life?
Also: consider this: a significant portion of children living in foster care are abused or mistreated.
A more significant portion of aborted babies die.
I'm sorry, but this is a rather narrow-minded way to view this. There is absolutely no grey area between murder or not?
JOF said:Also, nobody is saying that abused children should be killed, or babies killed indiscriminately (as someone suggested earlier). I think we can agree that unwanted children have very difficult lives, and the imprisonment/suicide/criminal/etc records are far greater for children who have been abused, right? Unless I'm insane I think this has been established pretty well.
JOF said:The mother, regardless of all other circumstances, is considering an abortion. I think this signifies that she is NOT READY to have a baby. I personally don't think having children in the world who are not wanted by the parents is a great idea. Also, given that underaged children and young adults in general will not be able to provide a stable, comfortable environment for the child, why would it be better for the child to be born into this kind of setting? I realize that there are holes in this logic - please don't bring outlandish statements like poor people shouldnt be allowed to reproduce, there are plenty of single mothers who raised great children, etc. The first is ridiculous, the second is the exception, not the rule.
JOF said:I don't think the vast majority of this board understand what it means to grow up in a single parent, low-income home. It is a difficult life at best. You live in a low-income area - there is higher crime, worse education, etc. Blanket, overgeneralized statements like those strewn all over this thread I think indicate that many people have lived a nice, comfortable life that allows them to make condescending, ignorant remarks like abortion = murder without any consideration of the effects on the child or parents. There are many things worse than death in this world.
This is semantics -
Babies vs. embryos.
Also, a VERY significant portion of fertilized eggs are miscarried. Does this make menstruation a crime?
A more significant portion of aborted babies die.
Additionally, I feel that a fetus does not have a right to life until that fetus is capable of personally exercising that right. If it cannot survive outside of the uterus, it does not, in my opinion, have autonomy/agency/a right to life.
Also, I'm wondering: how many anti-abortion people out there are carnivores? How 'bout that life?
Wow, does not have the right to life? What would exercizing that right mean exactly? A baby cannot survive without the mother or care taker, thus it does not have autonomy, and in your opinion a right to life. When would a person gain that right, 5!?
And there is absolutely no connection between eating meat and abortion. These are two completely different topics, one dealing with an unborn human fetus and the other with where you decide to get your daily protein
I am not "pro-abortion" I am Pro-Choice. There is a huge difference.
Additionally, I feel that a fetus does not have a right to life until that fetus is capable of personally exercising that right. If it cannot survive outside of the uterus, it does not, in my opinion, have autonomy/agency/a right to life.
Also, I'm wondering: how many anti-abortion people out there are carnivores? How 'bout that life?
Wow, does not have the right to life? What would exercizing that right mean exactly? A baby cannot survive without the mother or care taker, thus it does not have autonomy, and in your opinion a right to life. When would a person gain that right, 5!?
And there is absolutely no connection between eating meat and abortion. These are two completely different topics, one dealing with an unborn human fetus and the other with where you decide to get your daily protein
4) We're all getting emotional about this for no reason, because when someone is emotional they do not become convinced of the opposing viewpoint.
Begaster -
What about accidental killings? Mercy killings? Those are all equivalent, as well?
JOF said:I completely agree with your logic that rape is completely irrelevant if abortion is murder, and there can be no exceptions for rape or incest. I was only addressing the part about all killings of humans being murder regardless of circumstances.
JOF said:Andabout white babies. I don't know if that's true, but if so I'm not quite sure what to think. I'm sure someone will infer that only minorities should be allowed to have abortions 🙄
regarding exercising that right: if the fetus is in a state of development in which it can die within minutes or hours of being separated from the placenta/uterus/maternal system, I do not think that it can exercise its "right" to be alive. A newborn, however, is an organism whose basic survival - breathing, moving, etc - is not limited by the placenta or mother. It is being taken care of by its mother, and will likely die within days or weeks if it is not fed or cared for, but can survive outside of the womb. It is dependent upon a mother, but the mother is not necessary for its Basic Survival (though a caretaker, be it a mother or not, is).
ummm......how did I get mis-quoted....I didnt say that....did you accidentally put my username in quotes??
ummm......how did I get mis-quoted....I didnt say that....did you accidentally put my username in quotes??
I know many people probably hate hearing a fetus referred to as a parasite living off the mother's body, but this is in fact the case. While I will agree that a fetus is potential life (as is sperm or an egg) I don't think you can argue that it is human life since it still depends on the mothers' body in order to survive. Here, you are in essences saying the fetus' life is more important than the mothers and the mother must do whatever she can to allow that life to become a human even if it goes against her own wants or wishes. I believe that a woman should have a right to determine what she wants in her own body. Through this context, I believe the mother is not necessarily choosing to kill the fetus; she is simply deciding that she does not want the fetus to live off of her body. The fetus dying is only a consequence of removing it from the mother's uterus. If it was capable of survival outside the uterus then I believe abortion would be immoral, but not at any point before this since it could not survive on its own. Someone mentioned that newborns would not be able to survive without human interaction either…this is true but for a different reason. If you provide the newborn and an aborted fetus with the same level of care the newborn would survive but the fetus would not. A newborn is not dependent on the mothers' body necessarily, only on someone else's assistance.
I find it curious that many people say a woman may have an abortion if they were raped because they did not choose to be raped or because the mother's life is put in jeopardy but they may not have an abortion for any other reason because that would be wrong. If the morality of abortion is based on the killing of a human life then why is abortion ever okay? The unborn fetus did not have a say in the mother's rape why should it be morally permissible to end its life? This argument is based on feeling not on logic.
One thing on adoption, for a white baby, it is basically a seller's market. They are in demand. Minority babies are not.