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I feel your pain. When I was applying, I felt like I needed to become a doctor. I felt like I wouldn't be happy unless I was a doctor. It's a huge hit to your self-esteem if you are rejected. You start asking yourself "am I not good enough? Are other people really that much better than me?" It can destroy your life. After starting medical school, I realized that medicine is not as glorious as it seems to be.
What are you looking for in medicine?
1. Job satisfaction? Doctors have extremely high rates of burn out. Try being satisfied as a doctor when you're a 50 year old family doc writing 50 notes a day or a 50 yo surgeon getting called in the middle of night for an urgent surgery. Every job gets boring.
2. Money? You only start making money once you're in your 30s. Most of your professional friends will have made more than $1 million in cumulative salary by the time you get your first "real" paycheck.
3. Prestige? I used to think that being a doctor is the pinnacle of the career prestige scale. It turns out that most people don't care about what you do for a living. Sure, your parents, relatives, friends, significant other, etc. will be proud of you. However, does pride really matter when you slave away every day doing work that is not appreciated?
4. Intellectual rigor? Once you learn the basic sciences, medicine becomes very tedious. Clinical medicine can be depressingly boring. It is very algorithmic in most specialties (i.e. guidelines; it's called evidence-based medicine).
5. Happiness? Doctors have very high rates of suicide and depression. These rates are higher than the general population.
6. You like helping patients? Lots of patients will not appreciate your work. Helping people isn't as fulfilling when your work is not appreciated. You will have patients that abuse you verbally and even physically.
I know that you are feeling depressed about not getting admitted to medical school. You need to look at the bigger picture. There are dozens of careers out there that are just as good as medicine. I'm not telling you to not go into medicine; I'm telling you to consider your other options. You may be depressed today, but 20 years from now you may look back and say "phew, I dodged a bullet." Sometimes I wish I never got my acceptance letter...
What are you looking for in medicine?
1. Job satisfaction? Doctors have extremely high rates of burn out. Try being satisfied as a doctor when you're a 50 year old family doc writing 50 notes a day or a 50 yo surgeon getting called in the middle of night for an urgent surgery. Every job gets boring.
2. Money? You only start making money once you're in your 30s. Most of your professional friends will have made more than $1 million in cumulative salary by the time you get your first "real" paycheck.
3. Prestige? I used to think that being a doctor is the pinnacle of the career prestige scale. It turns out that most people don't care about what you do for a living. Sure, your parents, relatives, friends, significant other, etc. will be proud of you. However, does pride really matter when you slave away every day doing work that is not appreciated?
4. Intellectual rigor? Once you learn the basic sciences, medicine becomes very tedious. Clinical medicine can be depressingly boring. It is very algorithmic in most specialties (i.e. guidelines; it's called evidence-based medicine).
5. Happiness? Doctors have very high rates of suicide and depression. These rates are higher than the general population.
6. You like helping patients? Lots of patients will not appreciate your work. Helping people isn't as fulfilling when your work is not appreciated. You will have patients that abuse you verbally and even physically.
I know that you are feeling depressed about not getting admitted to medical school. You need to look at the bigger picture. There are dozens of careers out there that are just as good as medicine. I'm not telling you to not go into medicine; I'm telling you to consider your other options. You may be depressed today, but 20 years from now you may look back and say "phew, I dodged a bullet." Sometimes I wish I never got my acceptance letter...