Greetings!
I'm sure hundreds of people have already asked this question, but I am still hoping to get some of your opinions on this issue.
I am 28 and just got accepted to med school for January 2011, and I am terribly scared to commit to this decision. My big concern:
- My age. Especially considering the fact that I am a girl, and will need to start a family and make many cute babies soon. If everything goes smoothly, I will be able to start practicing when I am 35-36 (don't know what exactly I would be practicing thought). If so, then when am I supposed to start procreating?... Besides, after reading how grueling med school and especially residency are (working 85 hrs/week, no time for the family etc.) I get discouraged more and more. I definitely don't want my family to be attention-deprived. How does one strike a good balance, and is it possible?
- Just came back from my family doctor. I was asking him all these questions, and really felt that his was trying to dissuade me from going to med school all together, or if I do decide to go, to choose a specialization that would allow me to have a lighter work load. What are those specializations? Anybody knows?
- My other concern is that med school might suck all life out of me, leaving me absolutely passionless, tired and with no ambitions. Will put me in the box so to speak and will make me work according to the protocol all my life, leaving no room for creativity. Should I just do an MBA? But where is the guarantee that after finishing it I will come with a revolutionary business idea and start making millions right away?... Being a physician seems to be more appropriate for a lady, who also wants to have a family, than being a business woman, it seems...
Are there lady physicians, who can share their life experience and their perspective on a situation like this? Or any opinion is highly welcomed!
Thanks!!
I'm sure hundreds of people have already asked this question, but I am still hoping to get some of your opinions on this issue.
I am 28 and just got accepted to med school for January 2011, and I am terribly scared to commit to this decision. My big concern:
- My age. Especially considering the fact that I am a girl, and will need to start a family and make many cute babies soon. If everything goes smoothly, I will be able to start practicing when I am 35-36 (don't know what exactly I would be practicing thought). If so, then when am I supposed to start procreating?... Besides, after reading how grueling med school and especially residency are (working 85 hrs/week, no time for the family etc.) I get discouraged more and more. I definitely don't want my family to be attention-deprived. How does one strike a good balance, and is it possible?
- Just came back from my family doctor. I was asking him all these questions, and really felt that his was trying to dissuade me from going to med school all together, or if I do decide to go, to choose a specialization that would allow me to have a lighter work load. What are those specializations? Anybody knows?
- My other concern is that med school might suck all life out of me, leaving me absolutely passionless, tired and with no ambitions. Will put me in the box so to speak and will make me work according to the protocol all my life, leaving no room for creativity. Should I just do an MBA? But where is the guarantee that after finishing it I will come with a revolutionary business idea and start making millions right away?... Being a physician seems to be more appropriate for a lady, who also wants to have a family, than being a business woman, it seems...
Are there lady physicians, who can share their life experience and their perspective on a situation like this? Or any opinion is highly welcomed!
Thanks!!