Causing anxiety? I chose not to engage in these conversations for a specific reason. I owe no one anything. As harsh as that sounds, I can chose who I tell things to, and who I don't', how much or how little information to share. "Causing" is fresh...from my understanding within CBT, no one causes another person to be angry, anxious, etc., rather, it's the percepotions that person holds of the situation. Something can be anxiety-provoking, such as a post I made, but whether or not you elect to perceive it and think about it in such a way will be the culprit behind you getting anxious. So no, I won't bear the weight of the entire world on my shoulders. People make provocative and controversial comments all of the time on here. People will agree and disagree with others. That's fine too. There have been several posters on here that may not click with me, but I sure won't go out of my way to publically shame them, etc. The post I made regarding keeping my internship interviews on the DL was sparked not because of a personal vendetta. I literally have a message in my PM box where the person admitted that they knew who I was personally because they saw my "writing style" on this forum, and somehow remembered this writing style in a listserv email they received a long time ago (I don't normally post on a listserve, so I know it was a while back). This person would have needed to dig through those emails and magically find the email they felt my writing style matched to make that connection to confirm their theory. That is creepy as hell. So, yes, I decided to be more cautious with my internship posts because I dont know their intentions (they could be nefarious for all I know).