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StudentX
To the younger pre-meds, here's some advice I posted on the Allopathic site in response to a thread about dropping out of med school. I think this would be very helpful for you as well:
Consider the medical profession as an all-or-none venture (much like an action potential for you students of physiology). In my opinion, surviving and succeeding as a physician requires 1) genuine passion for the PROFESSION in spite of the enormous stresses you face, and 2) superb personal resources to help you manage those stresses. Those who lack both will inevitably drop out. Most will experience intense depression, and some, suicidal ideations. I know pre-meds, fellow med students, interns, and physicians who are on their way out or have already dropped specifically for these reasons. My 40-something UCSF-trained preceptor is already burnt out and about to check out.
So from my experience, one cannot hope to merely "stick it out" as a pre-med, physician in training, or practitioner, as no such "medium" level of dedication and survival capacity viable in the medical career exists. Those who think they can "just do the job they don't really like and come home and live life", as is truly the case with many other jobs, are very mistaken. For medicine is no mere job. It indeed lives up to its cliches as a "calling", "way of life" and "career demanding passion and dedication of its practitioner."
For the sake of those who are having serious doubts, spoken or unspoken, about their ability to survive the brutality of this profession, consider the following as cardinal signs of trouble for you:
That you are pushing yourself to stay in PRIMARILY because of one or more of the following reasons:
1) you don't want to waste the time/energy/money you've spent to get this far
2) you hope this will all pay off somehow in the end
3) you fear disappointing someone, and this might be yourself
4) you think you have no choice but to shoot for medicine.
Any of the above will indicate that you are not passionate enough for medicine, aka not in it for the right motivation, and/or you are not fit to survive its intense demands....all of which will lead inevitably to a spiral of depression, burnout, and dropping out.
So, for you younger (AND older premeds), think very carefully if this is right for you.
-X
Consider the medical profession as an all-or-none venture (much like an action potential for you students of physiology). In my opinion, surviving and succeeding as a physician requires 1) genuine passion for the PROFESSION in spite of the enormous stresses you face, and 2) superb personal resources to help you manage those stresses. Those who lack both will inevitably drop out. Most will experience intense depression, and some, suicidal ideations. I know pre-meds, fellow med students, interns, and physicians who are on their way out or have already dropped specifically for these reasons. My 40-something UCSF-trained preceptor is already burnt out and about to check out.
So from my experience, one cannot hope to merely "stick it out" as a pre-med, physician in training, or practitioner, as no such "medium" level of dedication and survival capacity viable in the medical career exists. Those who think they can "just do the job they don't really like and come home and live life", as is truly the case with many other jobs, are very mistaken. For medicine is no mere job. It indeed lives up to its cliches as a "calling", "way of life" and "career demanding passion and dedication of its practitioner."
For the sake of those who are having serious doubts, spoken or unspoken, about their ability to survive the brutality of this profession, consider the following as cardinal signs of trouble for you:
That you are pushing yourself to stay in PRIMARILY because of one or more of the following reasons:
1) you don't want to waste the time/energy/money you've spent to get this far
2) you hope this will all pay off somehow in the end
3) you fear disappointing someone, and this might be yourself
4) you think you have no choice but to shoot for medicine.
Any of the above will indicate that you are not passionate enough for medicine, aka not in it for the right motivation, and/or you are not fit to survive its intense demands....all of which will lead inevitably to a spiral of depression, burnout, and dropping out.
So, for you younger (AND older premeds), think very carefully if this is right for you.
-X