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The overwhelming majority of spouses (including non-married ones regardless of orientation) want their partners career to be successful because they love them and want them to be happy. They are even willing to give up a lot for that career success. In exchange they ask for consideration, communication and a shared vision of the long-term future. Those unwilling to do that are correct in that getting married (or any form of permanent committed relationship) is not optimal. Some people who make great partners are also those who are somewhat "homebodies" who would be lonely/sad far from home. This is part of the equation and everyone has to assess this for themselves.