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Every time I complained my first specialty (obgyn), I would be told by a layperson, "why don't you go into dermatology?" As if you can just walk into the hospital and declare yourself ready to become a dermatologist. Or, I am reminded by this guy whose sister is a dermatologist that she has the best life (implying that I am a fool going into obygn-sad but kind of true!)
Least prestige among laypeople and physicians: psychiatry-most people think I am going to become a psychologist. I don't really care though.
At the end of the day, you've gotta do what works for you. I'm a guy who probably best fits the "ortho" stereotype (tall, jock, blah blah), and I think a lot of my family members and my fiancee's family members think it an odd fit that I chose dermatology. They are largely unaware of the difficulty to obtain a spot in a derm residency despite what I tell them (they think "surgery" in a generic sense is by far the most difficult "specialty" to get into).
But you know what? Their perceptions aren't what are going to dictate the rest of your life. When the phone rings at 3am and there's a ruptured AAA you have to rush to, it's not your father in law's problem.
All that said, my family very much respects what I've chosen, they just don't appreciate the hard work that's been required to get there. And that's ok with me.