The suggestion was that the strong feelings on this topic were isolated and therefore, shaming is allowable in this isolated topic because one side is so clearly correct. I am suggesting that the shaming is not isolated to one topic and there is a long history of it. If someone were to revive that old "fired over the covid vaccine?" thread, it would show complete intolerance of differing points of view to the point that some wished for loss of livelihood and celebrated loss of life for those who had differing opinions or who were skeptical.
Many here believe that 100% of others must agree with them on each topic AND have the same ferocity of strong feelings. For example, one cannot simply dislike Trump. Conforming to the idea that he is the devil himself is the only path to avoid being called unethical and unprincipled, even deluded or idiotic. The same thing happened during COVID. "Trust the science" was the battle cry when the reality was that the science was sparse, cloudy, and very rushed. The basic tenet of the scientific process is
questioning everything in order to get to the real truth. Once COVID came on the scene, "trust the science" became "don't question anything" and forget what you knew before (mask effectiveness, viral particle size, natural immunity, what populations are at risk), because "I am science." I was not an anti-covid vax person and my initial feelings were of contempt for those who were, but I watched people who were skeptical get trashed in real life and on this forum. I got thrashed for suggesting a modicum of decency and patience should be extended to those who did not share the exact same point of view.
pgg admits he was a single issue voter related to gun right laws. He has now changed his stance and, it seems to me, he is adamant that all others arrive at the exact same conclusion as him, at the exact same moment as he did. He was adamant about gun rights as the most important issue, until he wasn't, and he expects that all others should arrive at the same conclusion exactly when he did. Is that reasonable or rational? I respect that he has changed his stance and has strong opinions, but it does not mean that I abandon all of my ideas in order to comply with his demands.
It reminds me of what a marriage expert said many years ago regarding fights with your spouse. Often, one spouse will decide to apologize during a fight and then get angry if there is not immediate acceptance of the apology and a complete forgiveness. The counselor stated, "what are the odds that you will arrive at the decision to apologize at
precisely the same moment that your spouse will arrive at the decision to forgive you?" The point is, people arrive at different points at different times. Just because one person has an epiphany that "Trump's evil outweighs my rights to own a gun" does not mean that everyone else arrives at that point at the same time, or ever will arrive at that point. I believe we have to meet people where they are and that everyone has different life experiences that impact their opinions on a multitude of topics. We may adamantly disagree, but everyone has a right to their opinions. Someone who was vaccine skeptical or feels that Trump is a better choice than Biden will not be swayed by being told they're stupid and immoral anymore than your spouse will be swayed by you telling them "I said I'm sorry...you need to forgive me and get over it." I don't get the impression that people here are trying to change people's minds. It feels more like they just want to shout down other opinions in hopes that the person will be so shamed that they will never dare to speak of the topic again.
@emergentmd has now been "invited to leave" the forum by a couple of people for going against the lockstep ideas of this forum. I am simply pointing out that the Trump issue is not an isolated issue where this behavior occurs.