My boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple years. He is going to start medical school in the fall and I hope to get in the fall of 2014. His medical school is less than two hours away from our home but I'm starting to get worried. Even though we have always gone to different schools and are used to not seeing each other I worry that medical school will change everything.
He has been telling me that we aren't going to talk much while he is in school (30 minutes at night before bed). Since I want to go into medicine myself I realize that medical school is very time consuming but I feel that like he's making it seem even worse than it really is. His school day is from 8-12 which leaves him the whole day to stay on top of his studies. Do you think he's being realistic about the time requirements of medical school or he just doesn't care about our relationship anymore?
Also, for those of you in relationships how were you able to maintain a healthy relationship without talking much?
He has been telling me that we aren't going to talk much while he is in school (30 minutes at night before bed). Since I want to go into medicine myself I realize that medical school is very time consuming but I feel that like he's making it seem even worse than it really is. His school day is from 8-12 which leaves him the whole day to stay on top of his studies. Do you think he's being realistic about the time requirements of medical school or he just doesn't care about our relationship anymore?
Also, for those of you in relationships how were you able to maintain a healthy relationship without talking much?