Just trying to prove that females talk more than males--I honestly am
not long-winded & gabby IRL. Really. I swear.
I read about this last week I think and thought about posting, but I actually managed to *sit* on it because I just kneeew someone would bring a few of us female SDNers up.
Well, this new study says nothing about the quality of speech or how persuasive one can be but in terms of quantity women do not, according to the study, talk more than men.
Of course, it may be that if one were to ask who writes more, the answer might have to be women. After all, look at the SDN posts in terms of number and length from (RayneeDeigh, Paramour just to name two - I hope I got their sex right) compared to those who have admitted to being men.
Yes, I am indeed female. Although I have noticed that some of
your posts are quite lengthy, sooooo . . . . there something you need to tell us?
How fast do you all type? I have always had a computer and am constantly on mine so I average a little over 100 WPM, but I have a feeling that that is not uncommon nowadays as people have become addicted to their computers.
Or it could also be that you are simply surrounding yourself more with an area of the population that knows how to type? And do so well? I average 107+ most days--I actually slow down for typing tests that "count" (i.e., y'know for jobs & schtuff) to verify I'm accurate. This should, of course, be taken into account when calculating your WPM but I know a number of people who claim to type 'x' but it's littered with mistakes. Silly cumquats.
That being said, I am surrounded by individuals who type significantly beneath me. I know a few people who type approx. 60-62WPM average, but otherwise I have people amazed at my typing speed. Which I just don't get. 'Tis just the way I learned. I didn't have a fancy ghost game when I was younger like RayneeDeigh though. :cry:
That being said, I think most guys going into this field have to inherently be a bit more "feminine" - at least stereotypically speaking. I mean, real men don't talk about emotions and feelings, right?
(hope no one is offended by that, I'm talking about myself too!).
Y'know, now that I think of it, all the guys I know who were seriously into psych were a bit effeminate.
I do have a big tough retired Air Force dude in my summer session currently who's pursuing a psych major, so perhaps it's just the ones I've been exposed to at this point? Not so sure about macho guys in Politics/Business/Finance though as RD suggested. Sounds like I need to get out more.
I do think you are spot on regarding the importance of collaborative work though. How many people do you see in all kinds of fields that just plain suck at working with people? I've got the collaboration aspect down, working on the leadership skills. I was shy for most of my life, so it is against my nature, but it really can hold you back professionally so I started to break that habit once I got to college. Being both a leader, and a collaborator is an extremely rare trait and valuable beyond belief.
I can work with people. I
reeeeeaaally dislike it, however. I, too, tend to be shy. Surprise, surprise! I honestly am not nearly so long-winded in person. I hate talking. Unless I'm out of it (e.g., not slept in a few days, or more recently, finally had adult contact after a month of staying home with a 6-y/o) and then I can ramble incoherently for awhile. Like RD, I talk a lot online, otherwise, I'm fairly quiet and keep to myself. I have to force myself to talk at times. I absolutely hated interviews where I was expected to be social. "Be yourself." Yeah, right, if I was truly being myself then you probably would have heard even less from me!
But, back to group work! I hate it, for similar reasons expressed by Ollie. I probably wouldn't mind it so much if I wasn't the only one doing the work, or at least putting some real effort into it, but this is unfortunately rarely the case. I thought it would get better in grad school. Alas, poor me, it wasn't. The few collaborative group projects we had sucked big time.
One project that I remember in particular required that we submit the group project as a whole for a portion of our grade, and then submit our individual efforts into the project to verify we all did something. There were 2-3 of us who did any work. Heck, one of those was an undergrad. Anyway, the other grad students contributed zilch, but one of those students decided that she was going to put all the info together for us for her part. Sounded good . . . except she did not follow through with any of it. So, the undergrad and I took it upon ourselves to do it and we sent it to her. She then turned around and submitted it as her own work, at the same time complaining that the other group members were lax in their contributions to the project. :| Thankfully, I had documented absolutely everything--emails and all--regarding contribution & lack thereof and submitted it all at the end to "prove" my own individual work. I had no desire of my grade being decreased due to someone else's incompetence and evil, conniving . . .
well, I'm sure you get the point!
I dislike group work. Perhaps this will change, but I am skeptical. We shall see!
I keep up with paramour's blog quite regularly and I have to say, she manages to come up with more to write about in one day than I can in 1 year.
Who? Me? Yeah, I will admit that I write entirely too much. Hmm, you'd be amazed at how much crap I cut out of some of those posts. I make a half-hearted effort to actually trim the word count. I am still amazed at the number of people I know who actually read through my oh, so lengthy ramblings. Keep in mind, I don't converse with a lot of people though, so 'tis a way for me to get it out, so to speak, and forget about it. For the most part. It also keeps me mildly entertained & gives me something semi-productive to do at odd hours of the day.
And, on that note, I will cease & desist! Woo hoo!