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I've got a dilemma, and it's wreaking havoc with my rank list. I applied into something super-competitive and it looks like I will be moving to a remote place with no friends or family if I intend to match. My significant other is unable to relocate for professional reasons and we're facing a long-distance relationship for the next four years. He has said that if I go, it's likely the end of our relationship. I tend to agree. I'm in my 30s, and the mere thought of re-entering the singles scene again makes me sick to my stomach - but I've also had a terrible experience with long-distance relationships.
I guess my main issue is that I simply don't want to move. Do I even have any options at this point? I'm so devastated - it feels like I'm choosing between my career and my relationship.
I guess my main issue is that I simply don't want to move. Do I even have any options at this point? I'm so devastated - it feels like I'm choosing between my career and my relationship.