I would make sure your dean of students knows about this. It may not raise any red flags with each individual instructor because they may not realize she's doing this in every other class. If the administration sees a student is having to make up exams in multiple classes, they'll figure out what's going on ... unless they're totally clueless.
Well, you will be shocked and appalled to read this:
I did go to the dean's office, before I even made that first post on here. I told her everything I told y'all, didn't reveal my friend's name, and asked what the possible consequences were.
She was completely baffled by me bringing this to the dean's office. She asked me "Why do you feel you need to get involved in this?" I replied, because this is my friend and I'm not sure she understands the repercussions of her actions, and I wanted to warn her of the consequences before she got caught because I do honestly care.
She said: "Well, it'll be your word against hers. You will have to come up with proof of all the times she has missed a major exam without being actually sick, present the evidence to each individual teacher, and then me, the cheater, and all the professors would have to go before the honor committee to decide what action would be taken. It could be possible that she receives an F per course, or most likely just have to retake each exam, but its up to the professor to decide. She would not get expelled."
She then asked me again why I was bringing this to her. She cautioned me that if I really felt like pursuing this, "it would ruin it for everyone" because then the school policy would have to be changed to require a doctor's note for missing an exam, "and we all know you don't always need to go to the doctors when you're too sick to take an exam."
I was absolutely amazed. The Dean's office discouraged me from reporting her for cheating. Said it would be me against her, and even then I'd be ruining it for everyone if I did.
Honestly I can't believe they hadnt figured it out yet, before I even brought it to their attention. Clueless is an understatement.
In response to runnerDC "How are you able to remain close friends with someone who repeatedly engages in behavior that you define as cheating and find to be of questionable morality?"
I'm sure my postings on this topic make me come off as a goody two shoes, highly moral, straight laced person whose never done anything wrong in my life...but I'm not. How am I able to remain friends? Because I have empathy for her, sincerely. I wish she'd get some freaking counseling, but she refuses - saying "Why should I? I've got you instead. Besides I'm passing all my courses." Which drives me up the wall, but I remember freaking out over exams...just because I've never skipped an exam because I felt unprepared doesn't mean I don't relate to test anxiety. So I feel for her...but not enough to not call her out on her b.s.
But, at times you're right. It does wear on me and get old super fast.
If I can resolve this between me and her, without bringing in the Feds then I will, because I feel that's professional.
I suppose the next step is to threaten her with the termination of our friendship. No one else is friends with her because of this...and I don't know if she realizes this is why.
Its one of those things where you put 140 girls in a room together from 9-5. Everybody knows the vitriole pertaining to the girl, except the girl herself.