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quirks said:
By poorly written I don't mean the writing was complete and utter crap, but as much as I'm not an overall fan of the Harry Potter books (don't kill me please!) I have to admit that J. K. Rowling is a "better writer" than Stephanie Meyers. I think a better writer could have made the Twilight books story much less snark-worthy.



Yeah, my boyfriend and I are being extremely cautious. He doesn't even graduate from undergrad until next year! And he's not positive he's staying in the US 🙁 though he seems to be leaning toward it. We've been together for two years so far and I've been optimistic from the start, but every now and then I panic. We're going to be long distance indeterminately.

My mother wants me to get married and start having kids before residency. 😱 She says I should give my boyfriend an ultimatum of I want to be married by the time I'm 25 or that's it (I'm 22). Umm... not the right time for that talk yet.
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👎 Ultimatums are never a good thing.
 
quirks said:
Yeah, my boyfriend and I are being extremely cautious. He doesn't even graduate from undergrad until next year! And he's not positive he's staying in the US 🙁 though he seems to be leaning toward it. We've been together for two years so far and I've been optimistic from the start, but every now and then I panic. We're going to be long distance indeterminately.

My mother wants me to get married and start having kids before residency. 😱 She says I should give my boyfriend an ultimatum of I want to be married by the time I'm 25 or that's it (I'm 22). Umm... not the right time for that talk yet.
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There is no better way to scare the crap out of a man than ultimatums :laugh:

long distance isn't a fun time... but it's not the end of the world. I've done it. I know a few other people on here have done it or will be doing it (BD & his wife will be apart for a year). If you go into it with the right attitude you can survive it... I'd rather be away but know we will be back together, then not have them at all.
 
pianola said:
Yeah.

That's funny that your mom really wants him to marry you.

My mom wants me to be single, preferably forever if she had a say in it!
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5 years ago my mom asked me if she should start reserving churches in NYC because they have really long wait lists... kill me
 
I never really think of my parents as old, except where they're around little kids. They totally go into grandparent mode when they are around little kids.

I think my not wanting kids rhetoric depresses them...
 
Dr Lyss said:
5 years ago my mom asked me if she should start reserving churches in NYC because they have really long wait lists... kill me
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😱

You should have my mom. I mean she *really* does NOT want me to get married. Like, ever.

I swear she'll be sitting there on my wedding day, shaking her head sadly.
 
DrYoda said:
I never really think of my parents as old, except where they're around little kids. They totally go into grandparent mode when they are around little kids.

I think my not wanting kids rhetoric depresses them...
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Heh you should also have my mom. She doesn't want me to have kids, either. Haha.

She says kids are a lot of work...
 
drizzt3117 said:
Remember you can also refinance. You can almost certainly get an interest rate lower than 6.8%. Never mind that when you're in repayment that if you make 36 on time payments, most lenders will lower your interest rate by 2% and electronic payments decrease your interest rate by another 0.25%.

Debt isn't your enemy, and once you pay off your loans you'll realize you'll never have made an investment that good for the rest of your life. Kind of sad.
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Your optimism is inspiring... not.
 
drizzt3117 said:
or you can have nightmares about debt the whole time you're in med school and residency <shrug> it's totally up to you.
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I think I will be choosing this option, regardless. I have nightmares a lot. 😱
 
drizzt3117 said:
You also have to consider that the target audience is teenage girls...
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Teenage girls can appreciate good writing.

I liked the books! I just wish they'd been written better because it's actually a decent story but a lot of people give it crap because of the quality. I would've loved it when I was a young teen.

09medstudent13 said:
👎 Ultimatums are never a good thing.
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pianola said:
Yeah.

That's funny that your mom really wants him to marry you.

My mom wants me to be single, preferably forever if she had a say in it!
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My mother told me, less than two weeks ago, that once she's seen me get married, she can die happy. 😱 She likes my bf (just wants him to lose weight) well enough, but she's also told me that if I meet someone I like while in med school I should just marry him instead.

Dr Lyss said:
There is no better way to scare the crap out of a man than ultimatums :laugh:

long distance isn't a fun time... but it's not the end of the world. I've done it. I know a few other people on here have done it or will be doing it (BD & his wife will be apart for a year). If you go into it with the right attitude you can survive it... I'd rather be away but know we will be back together, then not have them at all.
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Hell yes. There were a few times when I wondered if we should just pre-emptively break it off, but then I remembered what being single was like, and not only that but I'm so happy with him, that the small amount of misery that long distance brings is nothing to throw this all away for.

Dr Lyss said:
5 years ago my mom asked me if she should start reserving churches in NYC because they have really long wait lists... kill me
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:laugh: I think your mom's worse than mine!
 
ksmi117 said:
Top!!!
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What are YOU doing in here? 😀

Azadre said:
Sounds like you can have yourself a five finger shopping spree at their expense
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I thought it was called a five-finger discount? I guess it's the same thing.

riceman04 said:
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh young scrub you have much to learn!!!! You will NEVER get top in this thread!
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:laugh:

Dr Lyss said:
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Yay, congrats Lyss!

drizzt3117 said:
this is my favorite new smiley...

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How'd you get past the 10 smiley limit? 😕

09medstudent13 said:
👎 Ultimatums are never a good thing.
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This.

Dr Lyss said:
There is no better way to scare the crap out of a man than ultimatums :laugh:
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And this.
 
Dr Lyss said:
I'm scared to even think of marriage with the way the divorce rate is in this country, physician or no physician. I've been tied down for 5 years & as much as I'd love to make it more "official," I'd like to make sure we survive 3rd year first. You just never know anymore 🙁
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thats pretty much me too. it will be 4.5 yrs come june and while we are definitely committed we both feel that marriage should wait until after graduate school, or at least until 4th yr or so. also getting married will cahnge financial aid too and not necessarily for the better.
 
quirks said:
By poorly written I don't mean the writing was complete and utter crap, but as much as I'm not an overall fan of the Harry Potter books (don't kill me please!) I have to admit that J. K. Rowling is a "better writer" than Stephanie Meyers. I think a better writer could have made the Twilight books story much less snark-worthy.



Yeah, my boyfriend and I are being extremely cautious. He doesn't even graduate from undergrad until next year! And he's not positive he's staying in the US 🙁 though he seems to be leaning toward it. We've been together for two years so far and I've been optimistic from the start, but every now and then I panic. We're going to be long distance indeterminately.

My mother wants me to get married and start having kids before residency. 😱 She says I should give my boyfriend an ultimatum of I want to be married by the time I'm 25 or that's it (I'm 22). Umm... not the right time for that talk yet.
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i think an ultimatum would be bad.... 😱

my mom just wants a grandchild... eek!
 
olemissbabydoc said:
Interesting info about the dual-physician marriage. Proof it works, at least some :laugh:

I've always thought I'd marry a doctor.
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duhhhhhh OMBD...our wedding is in July. Your dad said the invitations were already sent out! and Lyss & Chubbs just confirmed :laugh:
 
Lyss, are you and your SO both going to med school?


...and as for long distance, I'll be in NY and he'll be 7 1/2 hours away in Morgantown, WV. Luckily my family lives at basically the halfway point in MD but loans don't include gas money to go home every couple weeks 🙁
 
**** it's 12:54 wtf??? Last thing I remember was drinking a shake at 9:20, and laying on the bed for a couple of mins until the 9:28 bus comes. ****...
 
ar2388 said:
i think an ultimatum would be bad.... 😱

my mom just wants a grandchild... eek!
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ha yeah...mom my is starting to pressure me as well...and when me and my last gf broke up she was quite distraught....but then I convinced her she would not have wanted the wicked witch of the east as her daughter-in-law or the baby momma of her grandkids.

My brother does not have kids...and he will not be having any any time soon...so the burden is on me!
 
SDN2013 said:
**** it's 12:54 wtf??? Last thing I remember was drinking a shake at 9:20, and laying on the bed for a couple of mins until the 9:28 bus comes. ****...
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SDN do you eat 6 small meals during the day?

Or do you just follow a schedule similar to this:

Wake Up: Shake
Breakfast
Lunch
Post-workout Shake
Dinner
Casein shake
Bed
 
sarahl86 said:
Lyss, are you and your SO both going to med school?


...and as for long distance, I'll be in NY and he'll be 7 1/2 hours away in Morgantown, WV. Luckily my family lives at basically the halfway point in MD but loans don't include gas money to go home every couple weeks 🙁
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No he was premed but he recently got accepted to law school. So we will both be starting in the fall 😱
 
Im back and Im in the buildin!
 
Dr Lyss said:
No he was premed but he recently got accepted to law school. So we will both be starting in the fall 😱
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I was thinking with my great verbal score I'd do well on the LSATs and if I didn't get in this year, make one hell of a malpractice attorney 😀
 
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