Yea. I get that too and as much as I hate to admit it-I am seriously questioning the Trauma surgeon path because I want to actually be a part of my future family. Men do this as well, my friend just told me the other day that her brother switched from surgery residency to pathology (yuck) because it was way too difficult for him to maintain his new marriage as a surgeon. There are other really important considerations for everyone too.
My point is-our society is rather inexperienced with female surgeons and it is hard to be supportive of something you do not know enough about. Less support/acceptance for women in the field, in my opinion is what makes many think that it would be nearly impossible to have a balanced existence.