With pleasure. This is from the attachment parenting board, where moms that wear their kids 24/7 and nurse until the kid is 3 like to hang out. They are incredibly sanctimonious. Why she doesn't have a lot of mommy friends isn't really much of a mystery, IMO.
I was at the mall today and saw something that made me a little sad. Well, I think maybe it just caught me off guard 'cause it was so foreign to me (as I don't have a lot of mommy friends IRL & the few I do have parent the way I do).
Anywho, I walked past a lady in the mall as she reclined her baby's stroller, arranged a blanket on the baby's chest, propped a bottle on the blanket to feed the baby, then sat down to do something else.
I know that what she did is not uncommon for people to do, nor is it neglectful. In fact, it may not be something that the lady frequently does. Maybe she
really had to multi-task. (I certainly nurse and surf the net.) I just have to admit that I was shocked and a little sad when I saw it. Considering that I've never even SEEN my DD drink from a bottle, I guess the idea of me propping up a bottle and not actively feeding DD is naturally a foreign concept for me. I just thought about whether people actually "bottle nurse," about the possibility of overfeeding and about how mom & babe were missing out on some cuddles. I hope that's not judgy.