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[IndianVercetti]

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so true....thats what i really want but i settled knowing it wasnt going to happen haha.

I've dated 2 girls that I think would've made amazing wives. Both of them were caucasian. It just depends on how the girl was brought up and the way her mom was.

I guess you have a good point there. I know very traditional christian girls, for example, they tend to be raised like that.

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

not at all.

I just trying to drop some knowledge on you playboy.

I never said you can't get a hot chick and have the woman of your dreams, you obviously can.

I'm just saying your attitude should be about what you're going to put in, what you will give. Become excellent and you will have an excellent woman.

But excellence is about contribution, not about self satisfaction.

i agree

 

[oaklandguy]

you "bigger" guys should P90x it

i'm a pretty big guy, but from the way you guys are talking it sounds like you're bigger than me.

Been there done that and I love P90X and insanity, although I like P90X way more. Insanity is just nice cardio. But yeah, I just can't workout everyday and even when I did P90X I went running instead of doing the kickboxing saturday videos and I would go running before the yoga days and just skip the warm-up.

 

[oaklandguy]

I guess you have a good point there. I know very traditional christian girls, for example, they tend to be raised like that.

Well like my thing is I didn't have a checklist, but there's certain deal breakers.

And yes, both those girls were traditional christian girls. That's what I'm into as well, so it tends to work out.

I actually fked things up big time with my ex because I got pissed at her for going to a small christian college instead of going to school with me.

 

[Appless]

I guess you have a good point there. I know very traditional christian girls, for example, they tend to be raised like that.

guess you better apply to loma linda?

 

[rHinO1]

so you're the resident buzzkill?

I guess he just doesn't have any standards like us msb 😛

Really I didn't list anything ridiculous, nothing about a 6 figure salary, nothing about being from a royal family, nothing about enjoying threesomes... just some basic qualifications that I think are important 😀

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

i agree with that too

 

[rHinO1]

not at all.

I just trying to drop some knowledge on you playboy.

I never said you can't get a hot chick and have the woman of your dreams, you obviously can.

I'm just saying your attitude should be about what you're going to put in, what you will give. Become excellent and you will have an excellent woman.

But excellence is about contribution, not about self satisfaction.

RED FLAGS.... ALARM IS GOING OFF... MORE RED FLAGS

never trust anyone who pretends to know something about women... or uses the term "playboy" in a conversation 😛

 

[rHinO1]

i mean a checklist is a bad way to approach a relationship, but everyone has expectations of what they want in a significant other.

agreed

 

[oaklandguy]

guess you better apply to loma linda?

I'll just wear my lab coat to church.

Not a huge loma linda fan myself.

 

[IndianVercetti]

How, calm down buddy

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

RED FLAGS.... ALARM IS GOING OFF... MORE RED FLAGS

never trust anyone who pretends to know something about women... or uses the term "playboy" in a conversation 😛

hahaha also, valid points.

 

[Appless]

I'll just wear my lab coat to church.

Not a huge loma linda fan myself.

i skipped applying there, besides the fact that the area is kinda , the rules they have there are just insane. Im surprised they find enough people to enroll there sometimes and that their averages are at least somewhat normal

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

I didn't say that your list was bad, just that the idea of approaching with a list is in and of itself bad.

It is hard to be happy when you are focused on pleasing yourself.

huh?

 

[oaklandguy]

I guess he just doesn't have any standards like us msn 😛

Really I didn't list anything ridiculous, nothing about a 6 figure salary, nothing about being from a royal family, nothing about enjoying threesomes... just some basic qualifications that I think are important 😀

What's awesome is that I currently know a girl that enjoys threesomes, but she's currently in a relationship. Such a lucky guy.

 

[IndianVercetti]

btw, don't those traditional christian girls have family-infused standards of their own?

i'm guessing they wouldn't want a surgeon husband at work 80 hrs/week

 

[Appless]

btw, don't those traditional christian girls have family-infused standards of their own?

i'm guessing they wouldn't want a surgeon husband at work 80 hrs/week

wouldnt they want a husband like that? Someone who follows god, works in a good profession and one that brings home good money? Idk lol w/e

 

[oaklandguy]

i skipped applying there, besides the fact that the area is kinda , the rules they have there are just insane. Im surprised they find enough people to enroll there sometimes and that their averages are at least somewhat normal

I don't think I want to go to another Christian school after my high school. One of the reasons why me and my ex split basically.

I've learned my lesson with small Christian schools. It was a good experience, but I don't want it for med school.

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

your SO beats you, don't they?

 

[IndianVercetti]

wouldnt they want a husband like that? Someone who follows god, works in a good profession and one that brings home good money? Idk lol w/e

i know residents with families, and they don't exactly always make it home for 5PM family dinner on a daily basis lol

 

[rHinO1]

I didn't say that your list was bad, just that the idea of approaching with a list is in and of itself bad.

It is hard to be happy when you are focused on pleasing yourself.

As you have more and more serious relationships you hopefully learn as you go what works for you and what does not. You begin to realize what kinds of things are important to you in a woman. You should always have standard so you only spend your time with quality people. No point in just dating anything off the street... unless that's what you want.

In short, standards = good

expectations = bad

 

[oaklandguy]

btw, don't those traditional christian girls have family-infused standards of their own?

i'm guessing they wouldn't want a surgeon husband at work 80 hrs/week

I mean not every Christian girl is the same lol, I don't think their robots. But every girl is different, some girls want a guy they can trust to put the food on the table and give their kids a nice life with college paid for etc. Some girls want a guy who will always be around and just chill. I know for a fact that my ex had planned out that she would be a lawyer and just take a sabbatical to raise the kids until they are old enough to go to school.

Neither of my parents were ever home and I think I turned out just fine 😀

 

[IndianVercetti]

How, i think you are being extremely idealistic

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

yeah. learning from previous relationships what you do and do not want in a SO is crucial.

 

[oaklandguy]

your SO beats you, don't they?

Ironically I once dated a girl who enjoyed fighting and would always egg me on during fights. It turned her on when I would talk down to her and degrade her.

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

How, i think you are being extremely idealistic

sounds like a high school perspective or lack of experience

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

Ironically I once dated a girl who enjoyed fighting and would always egg me on during fights. It turned her on when I would talk down to her and degrade her.

haha, i wasn't talking about that. but, word. girls that like it rough do exist.

 

[oaklandguy]

Plus there will be exceptions, for instance if she has great bosoms I will probably let it go if she's not the greatest cook. But if she's a smoker she has to quit it or I won't marry her. I don't want my kids growing up with smoke in the house.

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

girls, girls, girls, girls i do adore.

 

[rHinO1]

Plus there will be exceptions, for instance if she has great bosoms I will probably let it go if she's not the greatest cook. But if she's a smoker she has to quit it or I won't marry her. I don't want my kids growing up with smoke in the house.

let me sum up your post for you:

boobies = good
smoker = bad

did I get it right?

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

i feel like if you know those statistics, you're probably not in that 5%

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

let me sum up your post for you:

boobies = good
smoker = bad

did I get it right?

haha

 

[IndianVercetti]

Plus there will be exceptions, for instance if she has great bosoms I will probably let it go if she's not the greatest cook. But if she's a smoker she has to quit it or I won't marry her. I don't want my kids growing up with smoke in the house.

i'd rather have hot food on the table when i come home than great bosoms, when i think about quality of life

 

[oaklandguy]

girls, girls, girls, girls i do adore.

I wish I could post picks of my exes man. I love bragging about girls I've dated lol.

There's some tight traditional Christian girls though, and I don't live in the south, I live in MI.

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

i'd rather have hot food on the table when i come home than great bosoms, when i think about quality of life

i agree. i would sacrifice food for a great bum though. just sayin.

lol, settle down there playboy.

sorry you arent familiar with pop culture.

 

[IndianVercetti]

I am an idealist.

There is a group of 5% or soof people in every venture that are doing things completely different than the majority.

Their results in turn are completely different than the majority.

If you say you have NO standards, you'd honesty be content marrying a girl like ke$ha?

be real here, she's not marriage material

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

haha that would be hilarious if we all posted pics of exes and hook-ups

 

[rHinO1]

I am an idealist.

There is a group of 5% or soof people in every venture that are doing things completely different than the majority.

Their results in turn are completely different than the majority.

delusions of grandeur? magelomania?

 

[oaklandguy]

let me sum up your post for you:

boobies = good
smoker = bad

did I get it right?

That is how I personally feel. I don't know if that is the general consensus, but I can assume there are men who would agree with me.

Steak + cold brew = good
Fruit salad = yuck

Again, just my opinion.

i'd rather have hot food on the table when i come home than great bosoms, when i think about quality of life

It was hypothetical, I couldn't think of a better example lol.

 

[IndianVercetti]

i like this, we gotta have more male-bonding time.

 

[oaklandguy]

If you say you have NO standards, you'd honesty be content marrying a girl like ke$ha?

be real here, she's not marriage material

Ke$ha makes some real cash, but yes her and Lady Gaga are not marriage material.

And I think Taylor Swift is a faker and she's an attention craver which I think takes her out of marriage contention. But she is more-so marriage material than the previous mentioned girls.

 

[rHinO1]

That is how I personally feel. I don't know if that is the general consensus, but I can assume there are men who would agree with me.

Steak + cold brew = good
Fruit salad = yuck

Again, just my opinion.



It was hypothetical, I couldn't think of a better example lol.

I think you would be hard pressed to find a guy who wants a flat chested smoker haha

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

i wouldnt mind finding out if taylor swift is a faker

 

[rHinO1]

i like this, we gotta have more male-bonding time.

that would be an awesome them for a thread! 👍

... although doing it here is good too.

 

[oaklandguy]

i like this, we gotta have more male-bonding time.

👍

I never said you can't marry a woman you find attractive. This is only natural and expected.

I was referring to the prevalent and mediocre attitude of "me me" that a checklist implies compared to a "you you" which leads to success in life and in relationships also.

I am becoming a doctor for my wife and kids. There's certain attributes I have that a woman has on a checklist. Believe me, women have checklists. If you don't think so then you are blind.

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

yeah. it's good, and its good that its in our thread.

 

[IndianVercetti]

you're right, swift is a faker

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_9850zW0RM[/YOUTUBE]

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

👍



I am becoming a doctor for my wife and kids. There's certain attributes I have that a woman has on a checklist. Believe me, women have checklists. If you don't think so then you are blind.

everyone does.

 

[IndianVercetti]

NICE, we finally get How to be honest

good job buddy

 

[cliffhuxtableDO]

NICE, we finally get How to be honest

good job buddy