Oh my god, I have totally been there.
For those activity questions, I would essentially recap: 1) why I chose it, 2) what I learned from it, and 3) why it motivated me to choose medicine. Like, the interviewer would go: "Ah, Nutella. So I see you worked as a Christmas elf for several years. Tell me about it." And I would go: "Well, growing up, I was determined to become a toymaker and was obsessed with Will Ferrell. Naturally, moving to the North Pole and becoming Santa's helper was the obvious choice. As a Christmas elf I became a more diligent worker and learned how to accomplish things on a tight deadline... I mean you can't deliver toys on December 26th amirite? However, while in the North Pole, I came to realize that it was extremely hard for elves to access quality, reliable healthcare. After witnessing several elves perish due to untreated gingerbread poisoning, I decided that medicine was my calling."
Don't boast. Don't brag. Talk about
growth. I loved to rehash how I was a total noob in the lab/talking to patients and how I gained such and such skills over time to accomplish such and such things.
Ugh, I don't want to relive application writing. Writing/talking about myself in a positive light is hard because I love self-depreciating humour.
Another thing that also really bothered me about applications was providing specific experiences. I had no qualms talking about problems in the lab and whatnot, but I hated talking about patients' stories. Honestly, I felt like they weren't my stories to tell... I'd become privy to some very raw, very private things in patients' lives through my work/volunteering, and recounting their experiences for someone else (and sort of for personal gain) just felt wrong. I'm all for narrative medicine and learning from patients' medical experiences, but stories about others shouldn't be told to glorify yourself.
🙁 [And don't get me started about people who go to developing nations and take pictures of children for their Facebook cover page. If I ever find any of your guys' Facebooks and see pictures like those up I will judge you so hard.]
@sunflower18 amen, sista. Not to mention his whole unrequited love thing with Lily is extremely unhealthy and nothing to romanticize. If someone doesn't reciprocate your affections, please
stop pursuing them.
EDIT:
@ridethecliche very excellent and relevant point about the current abuse of power seen in US police force. I'm stupidly privileged enough to have never encountered such things, but the thought of such things been keeping me up at night. I can't imagine the sort of persistent, visceral fear marginalized populations must go through.
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