Hey everyone.
I'm an MS1. Worked really hard to get accepted to multiple MD schools and matriculated at my dream school.... Just to realize very quickly that medicine isn't for me.
Long story short I find myself working on a software business I started in college substantially more often than school. I feel more fulfillment in building something that can make a scalable impact, creating, and innovating. I do really enjoy patient interaction, but I'm starting to question if 4 more years of medical school + 3 more years of residency (for EM bc thats what I wanted to do) is worth it for me if it is not truly what I want to do. Additionally, it has been extremely difficult to manage both medical school and my business and I'm starting to feel the burnout. At first I was just trying to stick it out but I'm not sure if this is sustainable as I hear year 2 & 3 gets much more difficult. Also, being away from my family who I am close with has been really difficult. By just doing business I could be close with them again.
I am looking for some advice and I would greatly appreciate it as this is a really scary decision I'm about to make:
I really feel stuck and I would appreciate any guidance. I also feel sick to my stomach about all of the time and energy wasted trying to get into medical school and also how I took another applicants seat who would have stayed in medicine and helped patients in the future.
I'm an MS1. Worked really hard to get accepted to multiple MD schools and matriculated at my dream school.... Just to realize very quickly that medicine isn't for me.
Long story short I find myself working on a software business I started in college substantially more often than school. I feel more fulfillment in building something that can make a scalable impact, creating, and innovating. I do really enjoy patient interaction, but I'm starting to question if 4 more years of medical school + 3 more years of residency (for EM bc thats what I wanted to do) is worth it for me if it is not truly what I want to do. Additionally, it has been extremely difficult to manage both medical school and my business and I'm starting to feel the burnout. At first I was just trying to stick it out but I'm not sure if this is sustainable as I hear year 2 & 3 gets much more difficult. Also, being away from my family who I am close with has been really difficult. By just doing business I could be close with them again.
I am looking for some advice and I would greatly appreciate it as this is a really scary decision I'm about to make:
- Do you know anyone that has dropped out and regretted the decision?
- Is it common to feel this way in my first-year? I feel that I am the only one in my class who feels this way.
- I grew up in a typical Asian immigrant household and I'm really worried about disappointing my family. They keep telling me to finish the MD and then I can focus on my business after. Do they have a point? Is it worth it to just finish the MD knowing I may not practice? This is a question I have been pondering on for awhile now.
- On one hand, I am worried about regret and also the idea that staying in medicine could open more doors for me down the road in terms of innovation in Healthcare. On the other hand, I am worried about opportunity costs from not being able to focus on business and growing as an entrepreneur and innovator. Anyone have thoughts on this dilemma?
I really feel stuck and I would appreciate any guidance. I also feel sick to my stomach about all of the time and energy wasted trying to get into medical school and also how I took another applicants seat who would have stayed in medicine and helped patients in the future.
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