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Does anyone have any creative or fun date ideas besides the usual dinner and a movie?
Thanks!
Thanks!
PsychStudent said:Does anyone have any creative or fun date ideas besides the usual dinner and a movie?
Thanks!
Well, is this a first date with someone or a non-first date?PsychStudent said:Does anyone have any creative or fun date ideas besides the usual dinner and a movie?
Thanks!
PsychStudent said:Sohalia, I'm specifically thinking about non-first date activities since I'm already in a relationship. Thanks for all the ideas thus far.
Sohalia said:Well, is this a first date with someone or a non-first date?
For a different kind of first date you could invite them to a dinner party with some of your friends, or basically any kind of small group activity, like playing ultimate frisbee with your friends. This kind of stuff would be good for a first date because on a first date you may not know the person well enough to not be thinking of safety issues related to being alone together, and also, if you two don't hit it off group activities make it easy to turn things into more of a friends vibe.
For a non-first date you could do a picnic, time at the beach, basically anything outdoors. Museums, and if you live near a university, interesting lectures and documentaries, are also options.
Have fun!
dsblaha said:For the love of god please do not take a date to a lecture. I don't know anybody who likes to sit through lectures.
I have to vote for cooking an elaborate dinner together. In my situation (being the husband) I recommend letting the woman be in charge of the cooking, ie telling you what to do and volunteer to do the dishes. My wife and I always have a great time doing this.
dsblaha said:For the love of god please do not take a date to a lecture. I don't know anybody who likes to sit through lectures.
alison_in_oh said:I totally disagree. Buying tickets to the Stephen Hawking lecture a couple years ago was one of the sweetest things my husband has ever done for me. Yeah, it turned out to be the night before an exam and he couldn't go because he was studying, but he hooked me up with another med student who escorted me.
I guess it boils down to know thy date and/or know thyself. If you're still getting to know someone, do stuff that YOU enjoy so you can find out if THEY enjoy that stuff too (like my artist friend who takes his dates to the art museum). Or, if you know them pretty well, show them how well you know them by doing stuff that THEY enjoy -- even if it's not quite up your alley. It melts me when my husband offers to take me to the farmer's market or the garden store.
Smilemaker100 said:Good ideas in that latter paragraph,but I must say, Alison, I don't think there are many women who would be flattered to see a fellow with motor neuron disease discuss the beginning and end of the universe, black holes etc. via his speech synthesizer. I think one of the few people in my entourage who would be fascinated would be my dad and one of my brothers. I personally find it interesting but am not as big a fan as my bro and dad. Not many women I know are physics/astronomy/mathematics majors LOL!
alison_in_oh said:WTF?
I can't believe I'd missed this. You define the contribution of Stephen Hawking by his DISEASE? You criticize the concept of taking someone you fancy to such a once in a lifetime event, someone you KNOW enjoys the subject matter and admires the speaker, because YOU wouldn't be enthralled by brane theory?
I suppose you'd consider Kurt Vonnegut a snore too, after all he's older and white-haired!
And God forbid one make the time to join a sweetheart at Nobel laureate Richard Smalley's discussion of the energy problem! Not nearly ROMANTIC enough!
Augh!
Smilemaker100 said:Good ideas in that latter paragraph,but I must say, Alison, I don't think there are many women who would be flattered to see a fellow with motor neuron disease discuss the beginning and end of the universe, black holes etc. via his speech synthesizer. I think one of the few people in my entourage who would be fascinated would be my dad and one of my brothers. I personally find it interesting but am not as big a fan as my bro and dad. Not many women I know are physics/astronomy/mathematics majors LOL!