Also, I would like to add this:
I am not trying to be cheeky, but rather optimistic, when I say that: your lost deposit is nothing in the long run. I am about to lose $1,000s (!!!) to a school that I wanted to keep as a safety...the reassurance that the deposit gave me was worth it before I got my PCOM acceptance.
Look at it this way:what if you hadn't got into your choice school, NYCOM, and did not put down your deposit at UNECOM? You'd have to wait another year to apply to medical school, find something to do with yourself in the mean time, maybe take the MCATS again, have to pay all those application costs/MCAT exam again, have to start to pay your school loans, and relive the nightmare that is known as 'applying to medical school'. That's what happened to me last year, and although things turned out ok (I got to live with my girlfriend, get engaged, make money (thank god) etc), I would not reccomend it to anyone else
Honestly, the security that the $1,000s give is worth it if you think about it from this perspective. Trust me you DON'T want to do this ****e again. You did the right thing.
Be happy with your acceptances and move on!! 👍🙂