Hi, I am looking for advice. I may be acting very irrationally, and if that is so, that would suffice as an answer. This is my first cycle applying. By April I had had four interviews and four waitlists. Two of these schools are much better for me than the remaining two. For various reasons, I felt that the school which would be best for me had no intention of admitting me off of the waitlist (bad interview day, chilly replies to my queries from the admissions office.) Eventually I sent a letter intent to my second choice and said I would relinquish other acceptances if accepted. I was accepted to that school shortly after, and immediately began to dread moving to its city (the other school is located where I went to undergraduate in a small town and is much cheaper and more convenient, among other things.) I do have real financial and personal (family) reasons for wishing to attend the other school. My question is this: should I call the admissions office at my first choice school, explain that a deposit is due at a school I have been accepted to, and request clarification of whether or not I will be admitted. If admitted, I would explain my situation to the admissions dean at the first school and ask his permission to (essentially) renege on my letter of intent. I have no idea what his level of sympathy would be in that situation. Typing this out the situation seems more clear (that I should clearly just accept the acceptance I have,) but I keep having doubts.