Do I have what it takes?

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I am going to be a freshman in the fall at an undergraduate college. My problem is, I am not really sure what I would be best at, or what I want to do. I am completely sure that I have/want to go to school for at least 6 years and major in mathematics, a chemistry, or a biological science.
My strengths in high school were my hard work and dedication (I will do whatever it takes to achieve), my knowing of what to do and what not to do (I always seem to know how to take good shortcuts, I seem to work smart and efficiently, keeping me ahead of others in tasks), my ability to schedule and prioritize, my ability to quickly grasp concepts, and my memory (I can remember things, especially numbers, very well).
My strong subjects (in order) were chemistry, calculus, trig, physics, biology, geometry, writing (I am a pretty solid writer, but I do not enjoy it as much as some of the other subjects)
My weaknesses (when I say weaknesses, I mean I was average) in high school were reading, public speaking (probably my worst attribute), computer skills (I can operate a computer decently, like most, but can't operate it that well) and my mechanical skills (working with tools/parts)
Math has always came easy to me, and I have always really enjoyed it. Then, when I took chemistry my junior year I absolutely loved it. And, I have always been intrigued by the human body. When I understood that these areas are closely related, I knew that that I wanted to study these someday.
Things I love, could possibly want to do, and could possibly want are: study math or chemistry, study the human body, help people, give people meaningful advice, have a 40 hour or less per week job, and have a job with a good career outlook, be able to work when/where I want, school/residency for no more than 8 years
So, as of right now, I plan to major in chemistry and align my schedule to get into dental school. I do have qualms about this plan, though. For one, I love chemistry, but it might not be what I want. I was great at quickly grasping concepts and understanding what's going on, but I was average at labs. I am a little slow to get labs going because I cannot visualize the lab directions when when read them. However, once I get situated I completely understand what is going on (I was still one of the best at labs in high school, though. I'm just better at chemistry on tests than I am in labs, I was by far the best chemistry student on tests). As for dentistry I have qualms as well. I am curious about how much speaking skills and hand skills I need to be a dentist. I am pretty easy to get along with and have a great sense of humor but I do struggle with public speaking. As for hand skills, I am not a great artist (as I stated above, I have a problem visualizing things), I have average handwriting, and do not play any instruments. However, I am a pretty good athlete and can play almost any sport pretty well, I am pretty good at video games (this might not be the best strength haha), and I have good hand-eye coordination so I don't know if I would have good hand skills or not. The reason I am picking dentistry right now is because it is a perfect amount of schooling, I get to use chemistry, it is not as stressful as some of the other high paying jobs I am looking at (I am not planning to start my own practice, I am hoping to partner with a family member that is in dental school who is starting their own practice, so I hopefully won't have the stress of starting my own business), it has a great career outlook, I get to have good hours, I get to help people, I get to meet people, and I get great pay.
Other majors I am considering (in order of possibility): biochemistry (there is almost too many classes required for this major), microbiology, mathematics, biological sciences
Other careers I am considering (in order of possibility): Chemistry professor (cons- difficulty of getting position,public speaking, pay), biochemist (cons- pay, difficulty of getting position, high stress), biophysicist (cons- pay, difficulty of getting position, high stress), pharmacist (cons- pay, career outlook), optometrist (cons- pay, career outlook), general physician (cons- a lot of schooling, high stress), physical assistant (cons- don't get to be my own boss, pay), math professor (cons- pay, difficulty of getting position, public speaking), mathematician (cons- pay, high stress, difficulty of getting position), statistician (cons- pay, high stress, difficulty of getting position)
So, are there any suggestions on what a good plan of action would be for me?
What major/career would best fit me?
What can I do to strengthen my weaknesses?
What can I do to help my chances of getting a dental assistant or internship position?
I plan on observing a dentist, and possibly becoming a dental assistant (I think there could be great difficulty in finding a dental assistant job for just the summer, or dental internship that pays), in the next year or two to gain experience and knowledge about dentistry. Plus, I will soon see what I am best at in college. But, any suggestions or help with my situation would be so great at this point in my life. Thank you.
 
What do you want us to tell you? You haven't even started college yet.

I've known plenty of people who walked through high school and then tanked their first two years of college. Focus on not tanking, then come back in a year or two.
 
If you don't have any confidence In Yourself then the answer is No
 
One step at a time, buddy. You are getting WAY too far ahead of yourself. Worry about your freshman year and focus on that. You have to realize that everyone in college/university is smart and from personal experience, high school abilities mean next to nothing. As @BrazilianRider stated, college is a whole new environment. Check back here after your sophomore year and you will probably get better advice. Just do well in everything as this will open up opportunities in various fields, just in case you change your mind.
 
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I spent my first 2 1/2 years of undergrad constantly asking this question and you know what?? it held me back. Once I fully committed to dentistry and said "ok this is what I'm going to do" my grades increased and everything fell into place.

My advice would be to do more research and some job shadowing and figure out what you love. Once you figure that out commit to it and know you can achieve anything you want once you just commit to it (cliche but so true) don't base what you do off of whether or not you're smart enough or "have what it takes." IMO unless you want to do something like being a professional athlete where you just need God given talent, anything can be achieved through hard work. Good luck!
 
unlike me i knew squat about the basics of bio and chem before college.now i know the depths of those two subjects.why?becuase i was motivated and had confidence in myself.Remember; 'if you want to be a dentist, start acting like a professional dentist" that quote always motivates me😀
 
I am going to be a freshman in the fall at an undergraduate college. My problem is, I am not really sure what I would be best at, or what I want to do. I am completely sure that I have/want to go to school for at least 6 years and major in mathematics, a chemistry, or a biological science.
My strengths in high school were my hard work and dedication (I will do whatever it takes to achieve), my knowing of what to do and what not to do (I always seem to know how to take good shortcuts, I seem to work smart and efficiently, keeping me ahead of others in tasks), my ability to schedule and prioritize, my ability to quickly grasp concepts, and my memory (I can remember things, especially numbers, very well).
My strong subjects (in order) were chemistry, calculus, trig, physics, biology, geometry, writing (I am a pretty solid writer, but I do not enjoy it as much as some of the other subjects)
My weaknesses (when I say weaknesses, I mean I was average) in high school were reading, public speaking (probably my worst attribute), computer skills (I can operate a computer decently, like most, but can't operate it that well) and my mechanical skills (working with tools/parts)
Math has always came easy to me, and I have always really enjoyed it. Then, when I took chemistry my junior year I absolutely loved it. And, I have always been intrigued by the human body. When I understood that these areas are closely related, I knew that that I wanted to study these someday.
Things I love, could possibly want to do, and could possibly want are: study math or chemistry, study the human body, help people, give people meaningful advice, have a 40 hour or less per week job, and have a job with a good career outlook, be able to work when/where I want, school/residency for no more than 8 years
So, as of right now, I plan to major in chemistry and align my schedule to get into dental school. I do have qualms about this plan, though. For one, I love chemistry, but it might not be what I want. I was great at quickly grasping concepts and understanding what's going on, but I was average at labs. I am a little slow to get labs going because I cannot visualize the lab directions when when read them. However, once I get situated I completely understand what is going on (I was still one of the best at labs in high school, though. I'm just better at chemistry on tests than I am in labs, I was by far the best chemistry student on tests). As for dentistry I have qualms as well. I am curious about how much speaking skills and hand skills I need to be a dentist. I am pretty easy to get along with and have a great sense of humor but I do struggle with public speaking. As for hand skills, I am not a great artist (as I stated above, I have a problem visualizing things), I have average handwriting, and do not play any instruments. However, I am a pretty good athlete and can play almost any sport pretty well, I am pretty good at video games (this might not be the best strength haha), and I have good hand-eye coordination so I don't know if I would have good hand skills or not. The reason I am picking dentistry right now is because it is a perfect amount of schooling, I get to use chemistry, it is not as stressful as some of the other high paying jobs I am looking at (I am not planning to start my own practice, I am hoping to partner with a family member that is in dental school who is starting their own practice, so I hopefully won't have the stress of starting my own business), it has a great career outlook, I get to have good hours, I get to help people, I get to meet people, and I get great pay.
Other majors I am considering (in order of possibility): biochemistry (there is almost too many classes required for this major), microbiology, mathematics, biological sciences
Other careers I am considering (in order of possibility): Chemistry professor (cons- difficulty of getting position,public speaking, pay), biochemist (cons- pay, difficulty of getting position, high stress), biophysicist (cons- pay, difficulty of getting position, high stress), pharmacist (cons- pay, career outlook), optometrist (cons- pay, career outlook), general physician (cons- a lot of schooling, high stress), physical assistant (cons- don't get to be my own boss, pay), math professor (cons- pay, difficulty of getting position, public speaking), mathematician (cons- pay, high stress, difficulty of getting position), statistician (cons- pay, high stress, difficulty of getting position)
So, are there any suggestions on what a good plan of action would be for me?
What major/career would best fit me?
What can I do to strengthen my weaknesses?
What can I do to help my chances of getting a dental assistant or internship position?
I plan on observing a dentist, and possibly becoming a dental assistant (I think there could be great difficulty in finding a dental assistant job for just the summer, or dental internship that pays), in the next year or two to gain experience and knowledge about dentistry. Plus, I will soon see what I am best at in college. But, any suggestions or help with my situation would be so great at this point in my life. Thank you.

Go to med school
 
Sorry I couldn't read the wall of text... but I assume that's your personal statement?
 
I'm going to tell you this. If you have to ask a bunch of strangers you are not equipped. Get yourself together and get some self confidence because this journey is not for the faint of hearts.
 
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This is a highly regarded site, I was just trying to get a different insight on my situation. I do have a lot of confidence, I know I will do very well in school in whatever I do, I have never really struggled to learn anything. That being said, even though I have confidence, I understand that I cannot really truly know if dentistry is right for me; I thought it would be in my best interest to ask some highly intelligent people, who have already been through this (or who are farther than I am in my journey), about whether or not dentistry would be my best option. I feel like I would really love these parts of dentistry: the pay, the hours, the atmosphere, the idea of putting a smile on someone's face, and the idea of just helping sustain the health of people. I think/hope I have what it takes, but I don't completely know because I am not the dentist who already knows what it takes.
 
This is a highly regarded site, I was just trying to get a different insight on my situation. I do have a lot of confidence, I know I will do very well in school in whatever I do, I have never really struggled to learn anything. That being said, even though I have confidence, I understand that I cannot really truly know if dentistry is right for me; I thought it would be in my best interest to ask some highly intelligent people, who have already been through this (or who are farther than I am in my journey), about whether or not dentistry would be my best option. I feel like I would really love these parts of dentistry: the pay, the hours, the atmosphere, the idea of putting a smile on someone's face, and the idea of just helping sustain the health of people. I think/hope I have what it takes, but I don't completely know because I am not the dentist who already knows what it takes.
That is something that you need to figure out on your own. We ARE a bunch of stranger who know nothing about you. No matter how smart we are or how "great" this site is, we can not tell you if you have what is takes. What I can tell you as that you are starting this off all wrong. You should know that you have what is takes without a doubt.
 
Here's my advice - go to an inexpensive undergrad, major in something that has career prospects outside of professional school, shadow professionals and ask pertinent questions while doing so, and try to have fun in college without getting arrested or breaking too many rules. Things will fall into place, just take it one step at a time and try to enjoy the process. You're young, facing a huge life change, and trying to answer questions that many, even many adults, haven't yet answered. The fact that your introspective, goal oriented, and driven will all play in your favor - keep it up and you'll eventually figure out what really makes you tick.
 
Complete your first year and get straight A's. Afterwards, if you think the journey is still worth it, dentistry might be for you..
 
You try way to hard, go to college and have fun! Everything else will clearly fall into place for you.
 
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