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Or, you could save a whole student's tuition and just stop being a baby.
Your learning experience sucks because you're not participating. How shocking. I didn't go to path lab because the specimens look gross! Somehow I didn't learn what they look like! What the hell!
How is feeling uncomfortable about something make me "a baby"? I never said I refused to participate, threw tantrums in class about it, or that I ever raised any objections outside of my own head (and this thread). It's rather closed-minded to say that being uncomfortable stripping down and touching your classmates is "being a baby". I would say it's rather normal, and would venture a guess that the majority of your patients will be uncomfortable when they're sitting in your office in their underwear getting ready to be examined by you. Will they also be acting like babies?
And I'm not entirely sure why my school needs to go to efforts to "save a whole student's tuition", when that tuition would be going towards educational matters--isn't that why I'm paying it? My school is not expanding (even if they were, we have donors for that), our lecturers are MDs or PhDs who do not get paid a single additional cent to teach us. I guess I'd rather they use that tuition for an educational tool like standardized patients as opposed to doing something as invaluable as paying for the 20th employee of the Testing Office to run scantrons and pick up attendance sheets.
How are standardized patients any more "patients" than your classmates? Mind going through your reasoning there?
1) They are strangers. My classmates are peers who I see every day, 5 days per week for the last 14 months, and for the next three years. I study with them, have small-group with them, sit next to them in lecture. You treat them differently, approach them differently, and look at them differently than you do someone you've never met (e.g., a patient)
2) They at least try to mimic a clinical scenario, presenting with a problem, and are equipped with the ability to give you feedback. While it's far from an actual clinical encounter, it's a hell of a lot closer than doing this all on my classmate.
I'm with you dude. People are so quick to say "Get over it" and "Everyone is doing it and in the same position" but it really is different strokes for different folks. I used to be about 75 pounds overweight for the majority of my life and even though I'm at a "normal" weight now, I'm unhappy with my body image and worry about things like this. I know I'm going to have to get over it at SOME point and not worry what other people think, but I don't think I should be forced to get over it in a medical school classroom.
It's a huge psychological barrier to lose 75 pounds, yet still have pseudogynecomastia, excess skin and stretch marks from a time when I didn't really grasp proper nutrition. I lift weights, I exercise daily, I eat right now, but my body won't let me forget how I used to treat it. I'm a pretty outgoing guy too and am not embarrassed by much, but when it comes to taking my shirt off in front of peers, it's a huge deal for me.
So before anyone really wants to say suck it up, I say think twice. I may have to get over my body image issues, but it won't be easy. Just think if you had to face one of your biggest fears in front of a group of people.
inb4 cut, not bulk
Yeah, same here. I was an overweight kid, "normal" weight now. Unfortunately, when you grow up or spend a good chunk of time being self-conscious about your body, that stuff makes a mark, it sticks with you and does not just magically disappear if you've changed physically. I don't think people realize that it's fairly insensitive to say **** like "get over it" when it's something that makes people uncomfortable, especially in modern Western society, when weight and body image is a tremendous issue for the majority of the population, and asking them to strip down can potentially be a significant struggle for anyone.
Aside from any personal body image issues, those of us who just aren't "touchy" people experience discomfort with so much touching of someone you know personally. Okay, that's fine, this is something I might just have to get used to. I get it. But the fact remains that, if standardized patients were used to resolve other issues, this would not have to be something anyone would have to deal with in the first place.
But, like I said, even those of my classmates who are extreme extroverts, gym rats, and have seemingly endless amounts of self-confidence talk about how much they dread and dislike these sessions. It seems like a fairly universal thing to me.
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