That's the problem. You think black and white. While there are some rules to it, the rule is pretty flexible. One person can focus on medical missions, another shadowing, but as long as you have sufficient clinical volunteer hours and stayed there a while and have a meaningful experience for your AMCAS, you can do whatever else you want to do to boost your application. There are other rules to the application process, but I won't disclose them with you because I want you to find the answer yourself through personal growth.
The bolded arguments are self-contradicting. I told you to do your own thing, so how would/could I look down on someone if I encouraged them to do things their way. I also never told you not to pursue medicine. The fact you reacted the way you did seems like I struck a nerve. I always say these blunt statements but never direct them at the person because if they get defensive, it means at least some of what I said applies to them.