nuggetatheart
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This post is just to vent and see if anyone relates or if I am just being dramatic. Overall I feel lucky to have the opportunity to explore this path a little later than most. However I wasn’t expecting this level of inflexibility and hoop jumping that is even more of a challenge for nontrad students. Having a 9-5 job to financially sustain myself throughout this transition closes a lot of doors in terms of premed opportunities. it just doesn’t make sense to me to quit a 9-5 job with good pay and benefits that I won’t realistically find in a short term premed gig (scribe, MA).
I am feeling super overwhelmed sometimes. I work full time which spills into evenings. I’ve started to dip my toes in coursework (Orgo) which takes a day of the week. Now I’ve committed to an additional 20h/week clinical certification course. Not to mention research, volunteering, MCAT …
I don’t want just check boxes and lose myself, but I am quietly unsettled that nothing I ever do will quite be enough, even though I have a unique background and lived experience I am really proud of. It makes me feel like I might be a bad physician or poorly suited for this path. Despite all of the things pulling me towards it, there are always people and forces that try to dissuade me or make me question my motives and reasoning.
Am I approaching this the wrong way? Is there even a right way to be non traditional or premed?
Anyone feel similar?
Anyone feel differently, or have advice to reframe my mindset and expectations?
I am feeling super overwhelmed sometimes. I work full time which spills into evenings. I’ve started to dip my toes in coursework (Orgo) which takes a day of the week. Now I’ve committed to an additional 20h/week clinical certification course. Not to mention research, volunteering, MCAT …
I don’t want just check boxes and lose myself, but I am quietly unsettled that nothing I ever do will quite be enough, even though I have a unique background and lived experience I am really proud of. It makes me feel like I might be a bad physician or poorly suited for this path. Despite all of the things pulling me towards it, there are always people and forces that try to dissuade me or make me question my motives and reasoning.
Am I approaching this the wrong way? Is there even a right way to be non traditional or premed?
Anyone feel similar?
Anyone feel differently, or have advice to reframe my mindset and expectations?