OK, I'll wade into the quagmire.
OP, I don't think you did anything intentionally dishonest, but I
do think you did something shortsighted. A couple things, actually. Before I get into that, though, let me encourage you to de-escalate your verbiage a bit. You've been snippy with people who disagree on what is clearly not a cut-and-dried issue. These are anonymous strangers on an internet forum. Just relax, mate. If you don't like what someone has to say, use the "ignore" function and voilà! Problem solved.
I'm going to disagree with you on this statement:
My job as a student is to do what my attending tells me to do
At least, I'll disagree with the extent to which you're taking it. Suppose the attending said, "Hey, dude, I'm going on vacation for several weeks. Come back on the last day of the rotation and I'll sign your eval form." Would you follow those instructions without batting an eye? I seriously doubt it, because you're an intelligent and high-functioning adult. On the other hand, if he said, "Well, I'm not working the first day of the rotation so just come on Tuesday," do you think your school would make a stink? Probably not. So there's a line somewhere to define where acceptable behavior ends and unacceptable conduct begins. And therein lies the matter at the root of your current predicament: you and your school think that line should be at different places.
Based on what you've said, I think you acted with honest intentions. I don't think you made a
moral error. I do think you made a
procedural error. In the event that an attending had told me to take free time for 25% of a rotation for which I was paying good money, I'd have done as you did and asked if I could work with another attending. Being told I could not, I still would've thought,
Hmm...I still don't want to get burned here. I should probably just touch base with the clerkship director to make sure this is OK. So I would've said to the attending, "The school's pretty particular about our time off. I'd like to see if they have any other ideas for how I should spend the week." And then I would've reached out to the clerkship director in a very neutral way -- one that didn't come off as calling my attending an idiot -- to see what they wanted me to do. Some people in this thread will call me crazy ("You'd actually look a gift horse in the mouth?") but I'd answer that I'm being careful ("I'd rather do extra work than end up on the bad side of my school's administration when I'm in a very vulnerable position."). We can argue all day about whether you
should have had to do that, but I think that's irrelevant to your situation. The fact is that if you had handled it that way, this thread wouldn't exist.
The second shortsighted thing I think you did was to blindside your school with an attorney. I agree that they were probably trying to scare you to soften you up a bit, but I also agree that they were probably going to ask you to just do one more week of FP clerkship and advise them of any schedule irregularities going forward. I think you would have been wise to go to the first meeting and feel out the tone. If they came in there nice and reasonable, this could have been very easy to resolve. If they came playing hardball, you could have simply told them you were seeking legal advice. But that way, at least you could say you tried to resolve things as peaceably as possible. Instead, you went to the meeting and started the discussion by throwing a hand grenade on the table. And here's why I think that was a bad idea: your school has lawyers on retainer who surely know the relevant laws and legal opinions very, very well. If your school decides to fight you, things could get ugly. And it's true -- you might win some damages (though I personally believe that's very unlikely, given the situation). But I doubt a court is going to award you millions of dollars of future salary for a competitive specialty into which you haven't matched. And even if you get a judgment in your favor, you'll be branded as a troublemaker by residency programs. That will end your radiology hopes faster than you can believe. I think your only hope at this point is for the school to give you an out-of-court agreement that includes a total wall of silence on the entire issue. I know your attorney says you're completely blameless and can get whatever you want, but you're also paying him for that opinion. Take it with a grain of salt.
Additionally, your lawyer may say you suffered "damages" by being cheated out of a week of rotation. Your school will counter that you failed to inform them of any irregularities, and that had you done so they would have provided the week of education for which you paid. They didn't "damage" you, you cheated yourself out of a week of education by paying for but not claiming it. In addition, they'll argue that they, as the credit-granting body, retain the right to determine what constitutes satisfactory completion of academic requirements. Yes, they should have a clear-cut policy delineating those requirements, but you also could have taken reasonable steps to protect yourself.
I hope you can get this thing worked out quickly; I think an amicable solution became impossible when you brought in a lawyer without making a prior attempt to solve this. As I said, I don't think you acted maliciously, but I do think you acted foolishly. Defensive driving courses teach you to drive as if every other driver could potentially hit you; this principle has clear applicability to other areas of life. In the future, I hope you do a better job of seeing the hidden lions before traipsing through the tall grass. Whether you're right or wrong here, wouldn't you rather just have avoided the whole ugly affair?