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doc444ever said:
You are absolutely right about the girlfriend part. I guess he wants to dedicate time to her instead of me. I wasn't coming in the way of him and his girlfriend. I just wanted some personal time with him. Is that too much to ask nowadays? and all of this for some girl?? I just wish he will soon realize that the girl wouldn't think twice before leaving him behind but I wouldn't even think of such a thing, far from actually moving on. I guess the first sweethearts are the ones we learn our most valuable lessons from.
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Your "friend" is lucky to have two females fighting over him. :naughty:
 
Also, one more thing-- at one interview the dean told us that if a member of the adcom knows a candidate, they must excuse themselves from the room when voting occurs.

Lol at the Taylor Swift jokes.
 
yehhhboiii said:
i mean it's pretty obvious. guys don't usually talk about feelings and commitment. also the obsession with lying and true friendship. i'm just surprised that her username isn't doc5ever
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Hahaha, true

OP I will write you a longer post sometime today if I can. I wanna give you my thoughts. I may just PM you.
 
yehhhboiii said:
i mean it's pretty obvious. guys don't usually talk about feelings and commitment. also the obsession with lying and true friendship. i'm just surprised that her username isn't doc5ever
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I don't know... some guys are pretty touchy and sensitive these days. :whistle::whistle::whistle:

Hey don't look at me! I'm just a casual messenger reporting this. I'm certain OP is a girl, but she could be a guy.
 
yehhhboiii said:
i mean it's pretty obvious. guys don't usually talk about feelings and commitment. also the obsession with lying and true friendship. i'm just surprised that her username isn't doc5ever
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Why would it be doc5ever? I don't see how this makes any sense. So here is the update. I called him this morning and asked if he wanted to go on a 2 day trip to florida which we both talked about doing but never had the time. He refused without even giving it a second thought. I still haven't confronted him about the lying because i didn't want to give him a reason to argue. I texted him in a sarcastic way saying i was going to be sick today when he wanted to grab some food and he got passive agreesive and replied "i don't care if you believe me or not, i was sick." This statement made me laugh but i don't want to dimmish the only thing he has- his ego.
 
doc444ever said:
Why would it be doc5ever? I don't see how this makes any sense. So here is the update. I called him this morning and asked if he wanted to go on a 2 day trip to florida which we both talked about doing but never had the time. He refused without even giving it a second thought. I still haven't confronted him about the lying because i didn't want to give him a reason to argue. I texted him in a sarcastic way saying i was going to be sick today when he wanted to grab some food and he got passive agreesive and replied "i don't care if you believe me or not, i was sick." This statement made me laugh but i don't want to dimmish the only thing he has- his ego.
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What is your gender? If you were a girl who wanted to go on a 2 day trip to Florida with a guy who had a girlfriend then... Well..
 
doc444ever said:
Why would it be doc5ever? I don't see how this makes any sense. So here is the update. I called him this morning and asked if he wanted to go on a 2 day trip to florida which we both talked about doing but never had the time. He refused without even giving it a second thought. I still haven't confronted him about the lying because i didn't want to give him a reason to argue. I texted him in a sarcastic way saying i was going to be sick today when he wanted to grab some food and he got passive agreesive and replied "i don't care if you believe me or not, i was sick." This statement made me laugh but i don't want to dimmish the only thing he has- his ego.
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Also strong wtf.... I think you are caring too much.
 
I'd have to guess that this dude is shutting you out because his new girlfriend probably doesn't want him hanging out one on one with another girl. This is assuming you are, in fact, female. If not, then I don't really know what to make of the situation.
 
doc444ever said:
Why would it be doc5ever? I don't see how this makes any sense. So here is the update. I called him this morning and asked if he wanted to go on a 2 day trip to florida which we both talked about doing but never had the time. He refused without even giving it a second thought. I still haven't confronted him about the lying because i didn't want to give him a reason to argue. I texted him in a sarcastic way saying i was going to be sick today when he wanted to grab some food and he got passive agreesive and replied "i don't care if you believe me or not, i was sick." This statement made me laugh but i don't want to dimmish the only thing he has- his ego.
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Just don't be friends with him then if it gets you this worked up. Or, hang out with other people and leave him alone for a bit. It doesn't sound like he is your best friend haha
 
I have a tough time believing this person is in college--middle or high school, maybe.

Either that or Taylor Swift has an sdn account.
 
doc444ever said:
Why would it be doc5ever? I don't see how this makes any sense. So here is the update. I called him this morning and asked if he wanted to go on a 2 day trip to florida which we both talked about doing but never had the time. He refused without even giving it a second thought. I still haven't confronted him about the lying because i didn't want to give him a reason to argue. I texted him in a sarcastic way saying i was going to be sick today when he wanted to grab some food and he got passive agreesive and replied "i don't care if you believe me or not, i was sick." This statement made me laugh but i don't want to dimmish the only thing he has- his ego.
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Maybe you can offer a 2-day trip with me or the other guys? :naughty:




On the second thought, i'm happy for your friend to stay as far away from an overpossessive ex-girlfriend (i.e. You).

U Wot M8 said:
What is your gender? If you were a girl who wanted to go on a 2 day trip to Florida with a guy who had a girlfriend then... Well..
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Maybe his girlfriend is still thinking about it? You know what I mean by that 😉
 
TheWeeIceMan said:
I'd have to guess that this dude is shutting you out because his new girlfriend probably doesn't want him hanging out one on one with another girl. This is assuming you are, in fact, female. If not, then I don't really know what to make of the situation.
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If OP is a guy, the girlfriend is doing the right thing of shutting him out. Same goes for if OP has a gender confusion problem.
 
Agent B said:
If OP is a guy, the girlfriend is doing the right thing of shutting him out. Same goes for if OP has a gender confusion problem.
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Thats some harsh comments. I friended his girlfriend on facebook and within 2 minutes, she refused it because it shows the add friend once again. When i told my friend about this, he asked her why she refused it and she had the nerve to say she never even got a friend request and that i am purposely trying to make her look bad. Now my friend is mad at me for making such accusations. Great! Now i have another problem to deal with
 
This just keeps getting better and better. :laugh:

Go on, OP. I want to hear how this episode of Premed Gossip Girls will end.
 
doc444ever said:
Thats some harsh comments. I friended his girlfriend on facebook and within 2 minutes, she refused it because it shows the add friend once again. When i told my friend about this, he asked her why she refused it and she had the nerve to say she never even got a friend request and that i am purposely trying to make her look bad. Now my friend is mad at me for making such accusations. Great! Now i have another problem to deal with
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I think the question that more people are interested in is: are you a guy or a girl?
 
doc444ever said:
Thats some harsh comments. I friended his girlfriend on facebook and within 2 minutes, she refused it because it shows the add friend once again. When i told my friend about this, he asked her why she refused it and she had the nerve to say she never even got a friend request and that i am purposely trying to make her look bad. Now my friend is mad at me for making such accusations. Great! Now i have another problem to deal with
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Can you meet with her in person to work out your problems?
 
doc444ever said:
Thats some harsh comments. I friended his girlfriend on facebook and within 2 minutes, she refused it because it shows the add friend once again. When i told my friend about this, he asked her why she refused it and she had the nerve to say she never even got a friend request and that i am purposely trying to make her look bad. Now my friend is mad at me for making such accusations. Great! Now i have another problem to deal with
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Lol that has nothing to do with what you quoted. But I could see why your friend's girlfriend would "avoid" you on Facebook. It's probably technical difficulties. 😉
 
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Seriously, though, I couldn't read your start post without thinking of a over dramatic Degrassi episode or something.

If you're being serious, you need to move on. Groveling and being desperate isn't going to help you.
 
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