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but you should have no control over her birth control.
She should be worried about the BC I use, in the same way I should worry about what she uses.
On what planet is nexplanon 600-1300 dollars and not covered by insurance?
I don't even think she's on a major medical insurance plan, which in that case I would doubt it. I could ask sometime and see though.
Because you’d feel more comfortable with her being on some long acting reversible contraception, and also considering it’s her body- you should definitely ask her if it’s something she’s thought about. Then, you know, it’s kind of up to her whether she wants something like that in her body.
There’s pretty much a 99 percent or higher rate of contraception with your current methods of use, but also remember that there’s the morning after pill if something goes wrong with the condom.
I'll think about a way to ask her. In the mean time, I don't want to be too "worrisome" to her. It's a turn off for sure. Being too neurotic to her about this will most likely kill the relationship.
Bottom line, people get pregnant while on hormonal BC and condoms using both perfectly. It’s uncommon but it can happen.
If that's under perfect use, that's got to be around 99.99% effective though (pills, condom, pulling out). If not effectively, it can be way too high. The pre-ejac. or very small amount of semen is 1 in 10,000+ probably. So I'm not worrying about that, as much as I am that she isn't do her part for BC's while condom/pullout fails simultaneously.
Or just, you know, stop going after strange and find a permanent partner.
It's my current permanent partner. It's just early in the relationship.
There’s pretty much a 99 percent or higher rate of contraception with your current methods of use, but also remember that there’s the morning after pill if something goes wrong with the condom.
Yea, things have before and she doesn't care because "she's on the pill. So she may be at ease, but I'm not so much because how do I really know she take it correctly? All I do is nod my head and move on. Not going to have her take plan B if she is adamite she takes the pill, even if I can't be sure.
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