Fun thread...any swingers out there?

[Dave CX]

Trying to think of a new way to amuse myself. I am single/divorced. I make good money and have free time. And I have a sexy GF. But time is getting short.

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[whyisitnotmarchyet]

lol wtf

 

[Pathbusiness]

Trying to think of a new way to amuse myself. I am single/divorced. I make good money and have free time. And I have a sexy GF. But time is getting short.

Pics of the gf? J-peg!!

 

[jupiterianvibe]

Lolwut

 

[LADoc00]

I smell a troll...a funny troll tho...let's play along.

Dave what exactly do you mean by swinger? If you are really single, by definition you cant be a traditional swinger. Do you mean to say "are there any epic ****** out there"? Also Im not sure what you are looking for per se, like Pathologywise.

Like "are there any epic ****** out there" AND "what is the staining SOP to self exam strange penile cheese you find after a long weekend in west LA" would be a SDN Pathology ? for us.

Right?

 

[Dave CX]

I smell a troll...a funny troll tho...let's play along.

Dave what exactly do you mean by swinger? If you are really single, by definition you cant be a traditional swinger. Do you mean to say "are there any epic ****** out there"? Also Im not sure what you are looking for per se, like Pathologywise.

Like "are there any epic ****** out there" AND "what is the staining SOP to self exam strange penile cheese you find after a long weekend in west LA" would be a SDN Pathology ? for us.

Right?

its called "consensual non-monogamy". And I do have a significant other, so hopefully I qualify.

 

[jupiterianvibe]

If youre looking for an attractive side piece youre not gonna find her by looking in pathology.
have you seen pathologists? i think in my entire career i have met four, maybe five attractive female pathologists, and most were married to bigshots and just doing path because its a job that lets you stay home and child rear.
of the alpha dogs in pathology, of which i met maybe two, maybe they swing, who knows? but youd be better off going to something like that arrangement site and getting an escort.

or go to the derm board. have you seen derm residents and dermatologists. theyre super high maintenance and probably really bad in bed but theyre pretty to look at.

 

[LADoc00]

its called "consensual non-monogamy". And I do have a significant other, so hopefully I qualify.

I would argue that "consensual non-monogamy" isnt really a lifestyle that is at all edgy anymore and certainly outside of marriage isnt even interesting enough to warrant a social science term now. If you are only recently engaging the singles scene after a long term relationship, then maybe this is shock: but the ENTIRE modern dating scene is consensually non-monogamous as a result of 3rd wave feminism.

Basically if I understand what you are saying: you have a girlfriend who you have regular consensual sex with, but would also like to have sex with other people as well. Correct? In essence, you are just talking about dating multiple people. That is the norm where I am. I am good friends with lots of docs who have gotten divorces and either them or their ex-wives did or are currently engaging in multiple people in a sexual context at the same time.

Call it dating around or hook up culture, its basically status quo in California at least.

Or are you talking about true polyamory?

 

[WEBB PINKERTON]

Get the HPV vaccine first to be safe

 

[deleted314957]

And the gonorrhea, syphyllis and chlamydia “vaccine”.

 

[SEpathguy]

Trying to think of a new way to amuse myself. I am single/divorced. I make good money and have free time. And I have a sexy GF. But time is getting short.

You're right. Time is short. But you will never find what you're looking for in another sex partner

 

[coroner]

This screams small-town pathologist with a GF who is getting bored watching daytime talk shows and hanging out at the local Wal-Mart. Dunno, maybe you could round up some other docs who are into this kinda thing...

And the gonorrhea, syphyllis and chlamydia “vaccine”.

Might as well get the HIV and HSV ones too while you're at it...

 

[Dave CX]

If youre looking for an attractive side piece youre not gonna find her by looking in pathology.
have you seen pathologists? i think in my entire career i have met four, maybe five attractive female pathologists, and most were married to bigshots and just doing path because its a job that lets you stay home and child rear.
of the alpha dogs in pathology, of which i met maybe two, maybe they swing, who knows? but youd be better off going to something like that arrangement site and getting an escort.

or go to the derm board. have you seen derm residents and dermatologists. theyre super high maintenance and probably really bad in bed but theyre pretty to look at.

Are you kidding me? I am definitely not looking for that in this superfreak preofession.

 

[Dave CX]

This screams small-town pathologist with a GF who is getting bored watching daytime talk shows and hanging out at the local Wal-Mart. Dunno, maybe you could round up some other docs who are into this kinda thing...



Might as well get the HIV and HSV ones too while you're at it...

That's funny too. No I am not small town. And I don't socialize with other doctors so much.

 

[Mad Jack]

Just when I thought the path forum was dead

 

[LADoc00]

Dave how do you self rate? Be totally honest, are you a 6/10 or 8/10 or a 4/10? Put the 10/10 like at like Zac Effron from Baywatch level, Chris H. in Thor or Reeves in John Wick as the benchmark. And how old?

Might be interesting from ethnographic anthology perspective if you use this thread as a journal of your adventures.

 

[icpshootyz]

Is "swinging" a thing any more? Don't people just go on Tinder and bang indiscriminately now?

 

[Dave CX]

Dave how do you self rate? Be totally honest, are you a 6/10 or 8/10 or a 4/10? Put the 10/10 like at like Zac Effron from Baywatch level, Chris H. in Thor or Reeves in John Wick as the benchmark. And how old?

Might be interesting from ethnographic anthology perspective if you use this thread as a journal of your adventures.

I am a solid 8, maybe higher. 50 yrs young. More like Russel Crowe Gladiator era but darker.

 

[Dave CX]

Is "swinging" a thing any more? Don't people just go on Tinder and bang indiscriminately now?

Yes but I am in a relationship that I don't wish to jeopardize

 

[LADoc00]

I am a solid 8, maybe higher. 50 yrs young. More like Russel Crowe Gladiator era but darker.

okay. good. Chronicle your adventures for us. I would start with Tinder and Bumble on phone while doing PoF and Match on the PC. Would hit the 30-45 post divorce population range.

Are you in the deep south? Midwest? The coasts? What is your predatory terrain boundaries?
You should do some podcasts with a faux Australian accent Croc Hunter style.

 

[Dave CX]

okay. good. Chronicle your adventures for us. I would start with Tinder and Bumble on phone while doing PoF and Match on the PC. Would hit the 30-45 post divorce population range.

Are you in the deep south? Midwest? The coasts? What is your predatory terrain boundaries?
You should do some podcasts with a faux Australian accent Croc Hunter style.

Mid Atlantic.
And those sites are just routine dating/hookup sites. The lifestyle is evidently a specialty. I thought you were a cool West Hollywood dude who would know this, but I guess your Viper Room days are behind you But I can do Steve Irwin..." Look at this one..Isn't she a Beauuuuty")

 

[MSTP18]

W
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[LADoc00]

Mid Atlantic.
And those sites are just routine dating/hookup sites. The lifestyle is evidently a specialty. I thought you were a cool West Hollywood dude who would know this, but I guess your Viper Room days are behind you But I can do Steve Irwin..." Look at this one..Isn't she a Beauuuuty")

Hmm, I didnt really dabble in much aside from semi-random casual LA sex. Dont get me wrong I was HAPPY as a pig in cozy crap ridden mud to get that, I just wasnt operating at a level to get even more kinky like lifestyle stuff. I remember hooking up with a model from West LA and then going to church for the first time in years because I was so thankful for that.

The lifestyle stuff always seemed like a multi-millionaire sort of realm for me, dunno. Tell us how it is though so we can live through you.

 

[Nilf]

Trying to think of a new way to amuse myself. I am single/divorced. I make good money and have free time. And I have a sexy GF. But time is getting short.

I checked this blog after a long hiatus, expecting to find the usual job market wailing wall.

Instead I find a thread about a 50 year old pathologist who wants to be a swinger.

I guess that's an improvement.

 

[coroner]

Welcome back Nilf!

 

[y2k_free_radical]

Don't listen to all the uninformed naysayers who are posting emotionally.Although SWINGING can be fraught with relational land mines,for some couples it has been a positive, spicy and bonding
experience.Read online articles and a few good books on the subject before you plunge.Informed preparation enables one to venture into this new adventure EYES WIDE OPEN.

 

[Dave CX]

Have you done this?

Don't listen to all the uninformed naysayers who are posting emotionally.Although SWINGING can be fraught with relational land mines,for some couples it has been a positive, spicy and bonding
experience.Read online articles and a few good books on the subject before you plunge.Informed preparation enables one to venture into this new adventure EYES WIDE OPEN.

 

[y2k_free_radical]

Have you done this?[/QUO---------- I plead the fifth--check out website Swingerlifestyle.com and similar swinger match maker sites,consider CLUB HEDO or swinger cruises---if we can talk privately i'd be happy to discuss the interesting provocative subject known better as THE LIFESTYLE-there is massive misinformation and misperceptions regarding the participants who tend to be better educated,financially successful and more conservative than the average AMERICAN

 

[LADoc00]

give us a status update Dave. We talking 3 somes, swinging type pool parties, offers from infertile couples looking for mad genius Pathology sperm or what?

 

[Pathbusiness]

If your GF is as hot a you describe, I would definitely bring a hooker along, then we can swing!

 

[LADoc00]

I had heard an internet rumor of these guys who literally just troll the scene looking for dudes who want to be "****ed". I had no idea this was not just urban legend until I interacted with a guy at a conference furiously setting up "dates" with women who husbands had signed off on the extra martial encounter.

I ended up following him around for a day, taking notes for a possible book. It was fascinating as hell. I want to write THE great American novel after some more research. My working theory is that in the really liberal progressive urban areas, males have lost so much agency to 3rd wave feminism that they dont even have sex with their own spouses.

Dave come to California and I will wingman you!

 

[stickyshift]

I had heard an internet rumor of these guys who literally just troll the scene looking for dudes who want to be "****ed". I had no idea this was not just urban legend until I interacted with a guy at a conference furiously setting up "dates" with women who husbands had signed off on the extra martial encounter.

I ended up following him around for a day, taking notes for a possible book. It was fascinating as hell. I want to write THE great American novel after some more research. My working theory is that in the really liberal progressive urban areas, males have lost so much agency to 3rd wave feminism that they dont even have sex with their own spouses.

Dave come to California and I will wingman you!

This was at a pathology conference? Was he an obvious stud? Or was he just a "10" compared to most of us pathologists?

 

[LADoc00]

This was at a pathology conference? Was he an obvious stud? Or was he just a "10" compared to most of us pathologists?

He was not associated with the conference I was there for but apparently the conference scene is fertile ground for this **** subculture, like Will Ferell's character in Wedding Crashers trolling the funeral scene.

 

[Dave CX]

give us a status update Dave. We talking 3 somes, swinging type pool parties, offers from infertile couples looking for mad genius Pathology sperm or what?

Hell yes everyday (in my mind). Still working up the nerve. If/when I do, I will join a local organization that a buddy referred me too. To join though, you have to send a pic of yourself and your woman. That's freaking me out a bit although it is an understandable and appreciated requirement.

 

[Dave CX]

This is her BTW

 

[coroner]

Nice pic...good thing her crabs aren't contagious

To join though, you have to send a pic of yourself and your woman. That's freaking me out a bit although it is an understandable and appreciated requirement.

At least you won't have to worry about any of your patients recognizing you...

 

[WEBB PINKERTON]

Is that Callinectes sapidus in that picture?

 

[Dave CX]

Yes. Chesapeake bay monster, 7 inches. 325 cc Mentor silicone for scale. Best 6580 I ever spent.

 

[Dave CX]

At least you won't have to worry about any of your patients recognizing you...

coroner, Yesterday at 5:29 AM
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It would be a no go if I was a pediatrician or shrink.

 

[Zarniwoop]

This guy still signs out 10K surgical/year.

 

[y2k_free_radical]

Hell yes everyday (in my mind). Still working up the nerve. If/when I do, I will join a local organization that a buddy referred me too. To join though, you have to send a pic of yourself and your woman. That's freaking me out a bit although it is an understandable and appreciated requirement.

If you go to SLS website a picture isn't always necessary.Many who do have pictures do not show their face.There are also lists of swinging events throughout your state.Consider going to swinger clubs or vacation sites.BE PREPARED FOR YOUR GIRL FRIEND TO BE A DESIRED COMMODITY BY BOTH MALES AND SOME OF THE FEMALES

 

[Dave CX]

I think you are right about that. In addition to her lovely figure she is very pretty and outgoing. Surprisingly she is concerned about the opposite, me being covered up with women but her being ignored. She is displaying serious ambivalence.

 

[y2k_free_radical]

I think you are right about that. In addition to her lovely figure she is very pretty and outgoing. Surprisingly she is concerned about the opposite, me being covered up with women but her being ignored. She is displaying serious ambivalence.

Research and run off some articles about THE LIFESTYLE.Attractive women are treated like royalty-the belle of the ball.Why not try a local upscale club or a party in an urban sitting.In the lifestyle NO MEANS NO.Most lifestylers are respectful of others wishes and do not force themselves.Single men are often discouraged to attend swinger affairs since they can be too aggressive.SINGLE WOMEN ARE ANOTHER SUBJECT BECAUSE OF RARITY-HIGHLY VALUED.Many swingers are vanilla and do not switch partners but like the ambiance.Her fears are caused by lack of knowledge .IT IS USUAL.However,although it is usually the man who starts the participation,it is not unusual for women to come to enthusiastically embrace it.

 

[dukeresident]

I had heard an internet rumor of these guys who literally just troll the scene looking for dudes who want to be "****ed". I had no idea this was not just urban legend until I interacted with a guy at a conference furiously setting up "dates" with women who husbands had signed off on the extra martial encounter.

I ended up following him around for a day, taking notes for a possible book. It was fascinating as hell. I want to write THE great American novel after some more research. My working theory is that in the really liberal progressive urban areas, males have lost so much agency to 3rd wave feminism that they dont even have sex with their own spouses.

Dave come to California and I will wingman you!

Have your guy check out USCAP 2018, poster #25....there might be a line.

 

[y2k_free_radical]

I had heard an internet rumor of these guys who literally just troll the scene looking for dudes who want to be "****ed". I had no idea this was not just urban legend until I interacted with a guy at a conference furiously setting up "dates" with women who husbands had signed off on the extra martial encounter.

I ended up following him around for a day, taking notes for a possible book. It was fascinating as hell. I want to write THE great American novel after some more research. My working theory is that in the really liberal progressive urban areas, males have lost so much agency to 3rd wave feminism that they dont even have sex with their own spouses.

Dave come to California and I will wingman you!

After MW hits on BACKSTREET , CRAIGS LIST and and porn sites,MWM is second,not WMW as would be commonly expected.We should all befriend SILICON VALLEY VCs or TECHNORATI---read EMILY CHANGS VANITY FAIR article---"OH MY GOD---THIS IS SO F__ED UP"

 

[yaah]

OK I think we've hit our limit on this thread. Starting to degenerate into potential problem terroritory. Find another forum to continue the discussion please.