Guy troubles

[Bellaburgundy]

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Okay so hopefully someone can help me out. There's this guy and I think he likes me but he keeps avoiding me? In class I feel like he's always looking at me but during passing periods one day we kinda bumped into each other and after that I noticed that he started taking a different way to class- a much longer way, I feel like to avoid me? Also, he looks uncomfortable any time I walk by him in class or look at the clock. I don't know what's wrong! I can't tell if I'm overthinking this and he actually is indifferent to me or if he hates me or if he likes me.

 

[experi_mental]

I feel like this would be best suited to Yahoo Answers

 

[deleted656923]

I don't think this is the type of forum to discuss an issue like this; people here typically discuss topics relating to university academia and careers.

That said, I feel you're overthinking your situation. Just act normally and go about your routine. It doesn't seem like this guy is trying to bother you -- if you'd like, you can even try starting a conversation with him if you see him around. A good icebreaker could involve you introducing yourself and say that you recognize him in a class you have together. From there, you could ask about an assignment you have in class together or perhaps his hobbies & interests.

 

[empathiosis]

Agree with prior posters that this just isn't the right place for your post. Try http://www.7cups.com/1101101. There's lots of folks there who would be happy to discuss the situation with you. Good luck!

 

[smalltownpsych]

Is this the guy by any chance?

 

[WisNeuro]

What fresh hell is this thread?

 

[CheetahGirl]

Okay so hopefully someone can help me out. There's this guy and I think he likes me but he keeps avoiding me? In class I feel like he's always looking at me but during passing periods one day we kinda bumped into each other and after that I noticed that he started taking a different way to class- a much longer way, I feel like to avoid me? Also, he looks uncomfortable any time I walk by him in class or look at the clock. I don't know what's wrong! I can't tell if I'm overthinking this and he actually is indifferent to me or if he hates me or if he likes me.

Moderators may post that this website is for collegial (and sometimes not so much) discussions about psychology and the related fields, but is not used for the purposes of personal problem-solving. You may want to reach out to your university counseling center (if you are in college?), if you do not have anyone with whom you can bounce around your ideas and questions.

Is this the guy by any chance?

Bellaburgundy, smalltownpsych is asking a rhetorical question. Do not feel you have to acknowledged nor deny a response.

 

[smalltownpsych]

I just figured with a name like Bella, that she would appreciate the humor. 🙂

 

[Justanothergrad]

What fresh hell is this thread?

Everything I hoped when I opened it

 

[CheetahGirl]

Nm.

 

[AcronymAllergy]

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