why is it considered that headache patients are difficult to deal with? ...and if all they have is something like migraine or muscle headache, why would they be needy considering they're not all that sick?
Ah, youth.
I remember when I was thrilled about headache (I'm a migraineur myself). Rotate through a headache clinic and I absolutely promise you'll understand the answer to both questions.
A few points:
1) You have plenty of anxious/stressed/depressed patients who cannot be easily "fixed."
2) You have drug addicts who want their narcotic medications, benzos, muscle relaxants etc and nevermind that these might be completely inappropriate medications for their specific type of headache.
3) You have people who are suffering from medication overuse headaches from mismanagement in the community and will suffer even more when you taper them off said medications and who are very dubious about coming off of their MOH-inducing medications.
4) You have some tremendous psychiatric overlap in many, many people in this patient population that compounds the difficulty of seeing them in a timely fashion in the office or managing their complaints and medications outside the clinic (refer back to point #1).
5) Headache is potentially a life-threatening emergency when you consider the differential could include SAH, ischemic stroke, brain tumors, vascular malformations, etc. And these issues can prove impossible to differentiate by history without scanning.
6) Headache patients can be exceptionally demanding as outpatients because the keep calling, and calling, and calling, and calling because they STILL have headaches day after day after day after day. And it's always 12/10 in intensity and such. And this refers back to point #5 which only enriches the pain. Your pain, I mean.
And at that point I got tired typing so I'll reiterate what I've now said twice in the same thread:
Please check out a headache clinic for yourself if you are interested in this branch of medicine. There are some fine fellowship (1 year duration, non-ACGME accredited) opportunities out there and this truly can be an interesting topic provided you have the mettle and personality fit to do this properly.