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👍. Anyone ever realize this is the the trend for most things? Your elders tell you something, but you never believe them until you experience it yourself. However, by then, it's too late to go back and you live with the consequences. Then, you'll say that in the future, you will make sure your kids do the right thing. Then the cycle continues. I'm guilty of it too 😎.
cool story to mention about this: my old boss was studying hardcore for a state licensed exam (kinda like the boards) he noticed a college buddy (aka hot girl) sunbathing on campus, she invited him to do the same while listening to the radio and relaxing. The test was in a few days and he opted to focus on the future (aka that exam,) she opted to sunbathe and listen to the radio. Fast forward to a month, my boss finds out he passed the test and the girl obviously failed. My boss says "She sure got to find out what was on the radio that day, but now I can sunbathe and listen to the radio knowing that I passed my test."
Moral of the story: putting off short term gratification for long term gratification is almost always a winning situation. Impulse control is one of the most important predictors of success, addiction, etc. (google it if you dont believe me.)
I gave up everything in my life for the last 2 years and now I got multiple d-school acceptances. If I was focused on hanging out with friends and "living in the moment" i might not be here on this forum. Sometimes you gotta work hard, before you can play hard.
And thats the type of message I'll hardly stop preaching.