Well, I just got accepted, so I'll try to explain what happened.
I called at 7:20 this morning (the school is in the next time zone) figuring that 20 minutes was enough for them to get their coffee and be at their desks. The woman put me on hold two times, and the second time really put me off. I was sure I was rejected, and when she said the committee had not taken action on my file, I could have cried. (no action taken is code for "rejection" at Kentucky when an applicant calls)
I tried to eat breakfast, but I was really too sad. I was so let down, but I was starting to come to grips with the fact that I didn't get into my top choice school, and starting to really wonder if I'd get into ANY school.
Then, 30 minutes later, my phone rings. It was the admissions office with the good news. It seems that the receptionist didn't have access yet to the decisions because today is Oct 15, and they were late letting her know that she could tell us.
I was so ecstatic, and I still am. I don't think I'll ever forget the feeling.
Now that it's over, I think my first call has taught me what it feels like to not make it. I'll definitely be careful of others' feelings who didn't get in.