You get all of the stress and pressure and then all of the glory.
Definitely true! My dad things I'm going to college right now (in Canada) but I'm switching my high school courses to a higher level. I'm not even sure if he can afford it
My brother will be going to college (next years hes in grade 12). Pharmacy school is also expensive, and I might not make it. My dad will probably try and stop me
I'll have a lot of problems, and after I finish Pharmacy school (at least I hope so) I'll try and pay my dad back asap.
Here's a con that I think people don't take into account: if they do become the highest earner in the family, then they will probably feel compelled to take care of their parents if things take a turn for the worst. For example, if my mother is laid off from her job, which is quite possible if there are any more layoffs within her company, then I feel like I will have to take care of her for a year or two until she can find something else, which would amount to $2,500 a month- her current "take home'' pay. This could happen as early as next March!