How often do medical students get intimate?

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Optimist100 said:
Hmmm i don't mind studying in the library, but I mind hearing someone moaning when I'm trying to sleep, and I'm such a light sleeper. Anyways, I will just straigthen things up with whoever I live with, we will sign a NO SEX IN THE APARTMENT CONTRACT 😀
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If you're asexual, that's a perfectly legitimate (I knew someone in college who considered herself such), but you may want to try to seek a roommate who also identifies as such. That way, you are guaranteed not to have to deal with it. I have to say though, I get that you might be asexual, but I don't get your hatred of sex. To each his own, right? It's also a natural biological process that brought all of us into being. If it isn't in your face and you can't hear it, there's no reason to be so absolute.

You should probably get a studio and live alone. Odds are you are never going to find a roommate who is willing to agree to never have sex ever in the apartment even if it's in their own room because the very idea of sex happening somewhere (anywhere) nearby makes you squeamish. Get. A. Studio.
 
journalistdoingscience said:
Also, sorry, this is so ridiculous. You can't start off a roommate relationship with "Hey dude, I'm super pumped to be living with you but I want you to sign this contract stating that you won't get a girlfriend during the time we cohabit the same apartment and if you do that's cool but you can't have sex with her. Like at all. At least not in the house. You can go to a hotel or something. Yea like go out and rent a room at a hotel so you can have sex with your girlfriend. Why? Because I don't like it. I like to cook, and eat. But no sex. So you can't either. We cool?"
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I would sign it. : )
 
OP if you're being completely serious, you have got to be the only single male on this planet that would turn down sex on a weekly basis. Points for originality I guess.
 
Wannabe MD said:
OP if you're being completely serious, you have got to be the only single male on this planet that would turn down sex on a weekly basis. Points for originality I guess.
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I am one of those males, and it seems I am a minority. Of course, I come from a more traditional background where sex is not simply for pleasure or boredom. It's special.
It may be hard for many of you to understand putting off sex for 4+ years because you rely on it so much to get off.
 
Holmwood said:
I am one of those males, and it seems I am a minority. Of course, I come from a more traditional background where sex is not simply for pleasure or boredom. It's special.
It may be hard for many of you to understand putting off sex for 4+ years because you rely on it so much to get off.
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Are you Asian?
 
DermViser said:
Are you Asian?
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That is a very creepy observation. Yes I am. And you can probably guess what type of Asian as I found you have excellent detective skills in past posts. : )

I assure you that Asians can be very promiscuous if that comment was intended to be racially discriminatory.


Anyway, I sympathize with the OP primarily because I lived with a disruptive roommate for 5 years (he was a gamer, which is worse than sex because it is HOURS of disruption). It has impacted my sleep schedule (and health), my ability to study late nights, and my overall stress level.
 
Holmwood said:
That is a very creepy observation. Yes I am. And you can probably guess what type of Asian as I found you have excellent detective skills in past posts. : )

I assure you that Asians can be very promiscuous if that comment was intended to be racially discriminatory.

Anyway, I sympathize with the OP primarily because I lived with a disruptive roommate for 5 years (he was a gamer, which is worse than sex because it is HOURS of disruption). It has impacted my sleep schedule (and health), my ability to study late nights, and my overall stress level.
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No, not at all. You said, "traditional background where sex is not simply for pleasure or boredom." that sounds a lot of like what Ark has said re: family expectations. When people say "traditional" family on SDN it's almost always Asian families (not that there is anything wrong with that).
 
Holmwood said:
I am one of those males, and it seems I am a minority. Of course, I come from a more traditional background where sex is not simply for pleasure or boredom. It's special.
It may be hard for many of you to understand putting off sex for 4+ years because you rely on it so much to get off.
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You overestimate our patience. I got tired of relying on "other methods" to reach that end way back in high school...

Imitation crab isn't too terrible until you've tried the real thing. Once that happens, the fake stuff just doesn't quite do it for you anymore. Apply that metaphor however you like.
 
I once was getting intimate with my gf... and her friend came over for no reason.... and we convinced her to join us to spice things up..
 
altblue said:
I'm just an undergrad, but I guess I've won the roommate lottery. Both of my roommates have girlfriends and bring them over all of the time, but I don't hear anything.

Thick walls maybe.
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or your roommates dont know how to bring the heat so to speak
 
I heard those sounds a couple of times in undergra
TriNurse said:
So wait have you ever had a roommate that brought over somebody? You seem to contradict yourself.

I'm also really confused how you are waving your abstinence around and getting weekly offers to have sex. Sounds like you are either a tease or just lying.
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Well I experienced it once summer and it was horrible. My formal roommate had an internship and decided to sublet his room for the entire summer (Worst thing he ever did to our friendship) That person he sublet to drove me nuts that entire summer, I was just trying to find ways to kick him out. I'm not asexual, sex just doesn't fall in one of my interests/hobbies. The weekly offers are not clearly expressed as sexual... you know them, come over for dinner, can I come over to get help with homework at 11PM??? huuuuhhh and naked pictures bothering my phone on a regular basis... They don't get it, I'm just NOT THE ONE.
 
Wannabe MD said:
OP if you're being completely serious, you have got to be the only single male on this planet that would turn down sex on a weekly basis. Points for originality I guess.
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Hmmmm you will be surprised... Not all males are crazy about sex, I'm crazy about other things, obviously medicine(neurosurgery), sports (I'm on a football team), delicious fine cuisine (many girls try to catch me with that but none has been successful yet), leadership and many other activities.
 
TheWeeIceMan said:
Does anyone under the age of 40 use the phrase "getting intimate?"




So women throw themselves at you on a daily basis? Do they just come up to you on the street and say "let's get intimate and have sexual orgasms."
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Hahahaha I'm a very involved person so I meet women almost every day, and obviously it never starts like "let's get intimate and have sexual orgasms". it starts like, can we exchange numbers, then do you want to get a drink or come over. I'm obviously a very polite gentleman, I wouldn't say no to exchanging phone numbers, but unless I'm absolutely sure she isn't interested in sex, a relationship or the like, I usually wouldn't go for the drink. I have had women that were so crazy about me they found ways to get in my apartment and literally took their clothes off when I was studying pretending to be drunk huuuh. I stay away as much as I can, but given my involvement in so many activities it is difficult sometimes not to be invited over by a female.
 
Optimist100 said:
I heard those sounds a couple of times in undergra

you know them, come over for dinner, can I come over to get help with homework at 11PM??? huuuuhhh and naked pictures bothering my phone on a regular basis... They don't get it, I'm just NOT THE ONE.
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Well good luck finding a roommate that works for you. It's probably going to be next to impossible to find somebody else that isn't going to have sex while in school. I moved out of my last living situation because my roommate couldn't respect that I didn't like getting woken up (with earplugs and white noise) by her. I work at least three nights a week...so she had the house to herself almost half the week! There are aspects about having roommates that are great but I suggest looking into living on your own. Some areas have a ton of garage apartments or little mother-in-law suites. Living on my own has been great and hasn't been super expensive.

As for women hitting on you, why give out your phone number to people who only want sex from you when you don't want sex as well? If you like that attention that's one thing but that's in your control.
 
Optimist100 said:
Hmmmm you will be surprised... Not all males are crazy about sex, I'm crazy about other things, obviously medicine(neurosurgery), sports (I'm on a football team), delicious fine cuisine (many girls try to catch me with that but none has been successful yet), leadership and many other activities.
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Oh man, those icky girls try to catch you but you're way to sharp for them. Way to show em.
 
OP, find a Mormon who practices his religion and you are set.
 
LA1004 said:
OP, find a Mormon who practices his religion and you are set.
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I thought mormons got multiple wifes? Not sure how that would help the OP with his problem. You know what they say MO' women MO' noise
 
HandsomeRob said:
I thought mormons got multiple wifes? Not sure how that would help the OP with his problem. You know what they say MO' women MO' noise
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Nope, you are confusing Mormons with the Waren Jeffs sect. Look up LDS and FLDS, they are different religions with different beliefs, but had a common root in the restoration movement of the 19th century.

A practicing Mormon who isn't married will fit the requirements of the OP.
 
chillaxbro said:
tfw no gf
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That feel when I'm single, look okay and have decent social skills, but will never have the joy of roommates complaining about loud sex from my room

Oh well, gotta keep up my grades. <3
 
I have found the solution guys, as weird as it might seem, we will just agree to sign a NO SEX in the apartment agreement, I'm sure many would sign it, common, I'm a fine dude, so cool, I have much to give, i'm sure many would rather be my friend than bang on a few occasions 😀.
 
Optimist100 said:
I have found the solution guys, as weird as it might seem, we will just agree to sign a NO SEX in the apartment agreement, I'm sure many would sign it, common, I'm a fine dude, so cool, I have much to give, i'm sure many would rather be my friend than bang on a few occasions 😀.
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Wonderful trolling performance.
 
If you look at my previous messages you will find that I applied to Loma Linda and it is truly my first choice because I respect their lifestyle. I'm confident I wouldn't have any problem there finding such a roommate.
 
Optimist100 said:
If you look at my previous messages you will find that I applied to Loma Linda and it is truly my first choice because I respect their lifestyle. I'm confident I wouldn't have any problem there finding such a roommate.
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I didn't know not drinking coffee meant not having sex.
 
That's an interesting avatar choice.
 
Holmwood said:
I am one of those males, and it seems I am a minority. Of course, I come from a more traditional background where sex is not simply for pleasure or boredom. It's special.
It may be hard for many of you to understand putting off sex for 4+ years because you rely on it so much to get off.
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Dude you're not turning down sex from anyone unless you're a 9/10 chilling in gay bars on a daily basis.


Anyway, how is it that a forum where the average intelligence is above-average has such a large number of people who can't tell that OP is just a troll?
 
studentp0x said:
Dude you're not turning down sex from anyone unless you're a 9/10 chilling in gay bars on a daily basis.


Anyway, how is it that a forum where the average intelligence is above-average has such a large number of people who can't tell that OP is just a troll?
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Maybe because I'm not a troll, has that occurred to you? why is the world so narrow-minded? really I'm shocked to see people who think abstinence is impossible. Well guys it is possible, though I am abstinent for non religious reasons, am sure there are SDN Christians who can post here to confirm that abstinence is indeed possible. There are people out there males and females who do have their first intercourse after MARRIAGE.
 
Optimist100 said:
Maybe because I'm not a troll, has that occurred to you? why is the world so narrow-minded? really I'm shocked to see people who think abstinence is impossible. Well guys it is possible, though I am abstinent for non religious reasons, am sure there are SDN Christians who can post here to confirm that abstinence is indeed possible. There are people out there males and females who do have their first intercourse after MARRIAGE.
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Maybe you like men? I mean that avatar and all.
 
Optimist100 said:
Maybe because I'm not a troll, has that occurred to you? why is the world so narrow-minded? really I'm shocked to see people who think abstinence is impossible. Well guys it is possible, though I am abstinent for non religious reasons, am sure there are SDN Christians who can post here to confirm that abstinence is indeed possible. There are people out there males and females who do have their first intercourse after MARRIAGE.
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Yeah, abstinence bc you have no choice, in your case.
 
I heard 50 Shades of Grey is coming out on Feb 14, 2015, OP.
 
DermViser said:
Yeah, abstinence bc you have no choice, in your case.
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Hahahaha even the "ugliest" person on earth has a choice, you absolutely make no sense, but I understand where you are coming from. You have never encountered smoking hot abstinent people., but I challenge you that they exist, I am currently testifying to it. And many Christians and Jews that are serious about their faith will give you a similar testimony.
 
Optimist100 said:
Hahahaha even the "ugliest" person on earth has a choice, you absolutely make no sense, but I understand where you are coming from. You have never encountered smoking hot abstinent people., but I challenge you that they exist, I am currently testifying to it. And many Christians and Jews that are serious about their faith will give you a similar testimony.
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So if Christians and Jews have sex they are not serious about their faith?
 
circulus vitios said:
Maybe you like men? I mean that avatar and all.
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No I don't, I'm in love with a christian girl and she is making me wait for marriage; but since she lives in Italy many times I consider myself single, and I will never cheat on her.
 
DermViser said:
So if Christians and Jews have sex they are not serious about their faith?
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Not at all, you can be serious about anything and still fail at it, but just because other people fail doesn't mean that no one succeeded.
 
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