NYCOM is a private school and does not give prefernce to New York State residents (although quite few of the students come from New York, New Jersey, or Connecticut). There are also a few students from California. So you might want to try NYCOM.
On the other hand, MSU and UMDNJ are both state schools and have a storng preference for students from their own state. Forgive me for sounding like a broken record, but if you look at the AACOM webpage, it will tell you how many students the different schools accept from outside their state.
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