hopefully you haven't chosen yet cause I can give you a perspective of N YU
I also had a choice of Howard and NY U,...
I'm coming to the end of my D2 year soon so I have some perspective on the joint.
here are some random thoughts about my time here so far.
[edit: god damn, I look at this now and I wrote you a F@#$kin novel. hope you like reading]
Be good at succeeding in a large class:
There are a **** load of people here. I mean a ton of people. forgetting pts for a moment, you will definitely have to learn to grow up here because there is not much hand holding going on. Many of the teachers are extremely knowledgeable in their fields, and if you want to get a wide range of perspectives on the profession, NY attracts people from all over the globe (across all the specialties too). HOWEVER, you have to work for it a little bit. If you are the type that's embarrassed to ask a question in a big class, or will stop paying attention because you want to fit in with your friends, or are scared to email a teacher, it will likely be hard to get to the top of the class. they will now have 300+ in their D1 class next year (they take 100 foreign students that want to get accredited in the US and you will take all your classes with them) and I think it's very easy for a good student to sink to the middle if you are not pro-active about your learning. no matter what they told you on your interview, you are just an ID number to 99% of the faculty. an ID number they want to one day graduate, but an ID number none the less.
I also think there is a culture of complaining in the NYC area (read between the lines) which can get a bit annoying. maybe it's dental school, maybe it's NYC, maybe it's the east coast culture (i'm from the west coast). people sure do get a kick about complaining about s*** though
That said, you need to be comfortable stepping outside your own culture. there are many types of people here from all over. everyone pretty much finds a clique. Many people only want to be around their own kind though and as a result are often annoyed by others. on the plus side though, if you like meeting new people, like I said before you got lots to choose from. Stony Brook has a class of like 40 to put it in perspective.
you need to be comfortable in a big city and not get distracted. the city really never sleeps, and you can get derailed really quickly if you don't stay focused. that said I think there were 6 people out of 240 that didn't make it to the second year in my class. not 25%. maybe they used to do that a long time ago or something, but now a days they only drop a handful of students from each class. several of them I know were failing almost all of their courses and never went to class. others had huge personal issues come up during finals week, etc... but you have to pretty much completely give up on school for them to kick you out.
obviously money is a huge issue. I got a scholarship to go here which made it a little more reasonable, but it's still very very expensive. tuition and daily living. I almost lol'd when the poster above said "expensive was 1300 for a studio". studios in manhattan runs 2K. our rent is ~3700 a month between the 3 of us, but we live in a 2->3 bdrm.
people often try to live in the outer bouroughs or NJ to save money, (my buddies got a place in Astoria Queens for 600, I had another friend payin 500 for a roach infested basement shack in harleem) - however A LOT of them end up paying more and moving closer (including mr. Harleem) because they just spend their lives traveling to/from school and you can't really study effectively in subways. Some, particularly those that are well established in the area seem to be managing commutes fine though.
As 1 D3 told me when I was here for my interview: "it's kind of a work hard play hard student culture". There's a lot to do in NY. A lot. if you ever get a day off (which is pretty hard to find) there's a million bars/clubs to choose from, and everything is here, open 24/7, except maybe nature (well if central park counts). I do feel a little out of place here, as I think I often worry about money more than a lot of students. everybody i know complains about the tuition, but I get the feeling many don't end up spending like a poor grad student. perhaps a bit of mid-town manhattan-ness just subconsciously rubs off on all of us.
kids do study very hard here, as I'm sure they do everywhere. The school does do a lot of work to prepare you for the boards. apparently this school used to be awful in the 90's and only recently got it's act together when we got a new dean. the past few years they had virtually 100% passing the boards (like 1 person in the class failed). they brag that they have a higher passing rate than the national average.
the thing they really brag about here is clinical experience. we started working with a drill very early (~2months in), and we have already started clinic rotations a year and a half in, (which I can't say for sure, but I don't think many offer this).
the counter argument to that is I think that some of the pre-clinical courses are poorly taught simply because there are way too many people (which often leads to disorganization) and the courses particularly the pre-clinical ones can be rushed in my opinion. and again, if you don't ask for help, you often will not receive help.
I don't have numbers but we probably have one of the largest pt pools in the country. in response to the above posts- yes you need to learn how to promote yourself sure, but I also don't think many people graduate dental school and then immediately go into business all by themselves. the vast majority I think work under an established dentist for sometime, and absorb a lot of contacts that way.
If you have this idea that HU is going to teach you the vital skills of selling (amateur) dentistry door to door... whether it's true or not, I don't think it will matter as much in the real world. I think worrying about providing the best dental care possible is enough to handle in itself. don't get it twisted- I used to be a salesmen, I know that "selling your value" is always important to some degree. trust me though, there are plenty of other social/psych skills to master in the dental world as well to.
you don't necessarily have to go to class. NY's podcast system isn't the greatest (temple's seemed awesome), but a lot of people end up watching lectures online. one of my classmates said that it was a big reason why they ended up choosing this school over others. plenty of other schools have it, don't get me wrong, but I would check and make sure Howard had it as it makes life (esp if you get sick), much easier.
Dental school will be way more work then anything you are used to, and from what I'm hearing, many schools (including for sure NYU) really haven't given students a realistic workload to manage. everyone EVERYONE - even the 4.0 Oral surgeon kids - end up skipping class to study / handle personal life on a regular basis.
about me and HU: I had an awful interview experience at HU, which left a really bad taste in my mouth. the tour guide was 20 mins late, the facilities seemed poor (not ancient, but out of the six dental schools I've toured, it was probably tied for last). even the tour guide admitted it wasn't the greatest. my interviewer was pretty rude to me too. I'm pretty confident that isn't the standard experience, but for me that day, that's what I got. Just to be clear I did get accepted, so I'm not bitter or anything...
I almost forgot to mention this, because it's not really an issue, but I haven't heard of anyone not being able to graduate on time. In my clinic at least, students often help one another out to get the requirements done. While it's still extremely stressful - pts cancel on you and it's your grade that's on the line - doesn't sound as stressful as it could be.
at the end of the day, don't make your decision solely on anecdotes from this site. remember that you're individual needs are different from mine. Try to find numbers and real news/reports on the schools however you can. SDN has extremely biased opinions that are often exaggerated. I kinda like where I'm at, but I know many people that chose this as their last option or constantly say they hate it here.