I Asked My Interviewer Out on a Date, HELP

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If I were the interviewer I woulda found it hilarious. Screw professionalism. A student interviewer is NOT a "professional" anyway. =P
 
GAME OVER. f*ck off man.
-mota
 
if you masturbate in the admissions bathroom before your next interview then you might not run into this problem, at least your unprofessional behavior will be in private. make sure to clean up afterwords! Or try getting a girlfriend, or a blowup doll.
 
I don't know guys... here's how I feel about it. All of us are interested in going into the health profession in order to help other people. Well here I am asking an honest's man's question about how to deal with a situation. A lof of you, so far, have been very helpful and candid, and I appreciate it. Some of you have dismissed my inquiry as a prank or joke or something. not true. I'm secure w/who I am. I said that my pic was when I was sort of drunk, but you shouldn't judge me for that. The pic just represents my gleeful spark. Just because I was drunk and wanted to score, doesn't mean a suck as a person. If I wre a patient you treat me like this. I'm going to be a doctor though and I wouldn't, OBVIOUSLY, take off my shirt like in my pic for a patient.
 
Pewl said:
If I were the interviewer I woulda found it hilarious. Screw professionalism. A student interviewer is NOT a "professional" anyway. =P

hell yeah. i can only hope i'd have the nerve to do it myself in the same situation.
 
This is by far the funniest post I have ever read on SDN. This gimmick is golden. I vote for more pictures.
 
:laugh: :laugh: oh my god this is the funniest post i've seen in a long time! (not in a bad way)
 
howardhi said:
I don't know guys... here's how I feel about it. All of us are interested in going into the health profession in order to help other people. Well here I am asking an honest's man's question about how to deal with a situation. A lof of you, so far, have been very helpful and candid, and I appreciate it. Some of you have dismissed my inquiry as a prank or joke or something. not true. I'm secure w/who I am. I said that my pic was when I was sort of drunk, but you shouldn't judge me for that. The pic just represents my gleeful spark. Just because I was drunk and wanted to score, doesn't mean a suck as a person. If I wre a patient you treat me like this. I'm going to be a doctor though and I wouldn't, OBVIOUSLY, take off my shirt like in my pic for a patient.

you're absolutely right, howard. here's what I gather overall from your situation:

1. on a plainly sexual level, you clearly misread the rapport between the two of you. some call this "game" - and she faked you out. this happens, but with time and plenty of practice, you will be able to see it coming miles away, and either abort, or deploy the appropriate countermeasures. On this note, good hunting.

2. In terms of the damage you may or may not have done to her report to the admissions committee, it is largely out of your hands. I would not contact her except an email perhaps, just saying thank for you the interview opportunity, and nothing more. She will probably write a report to go into your file. My guess is that unless you were overbearing, pushy, or very serious, the faux pas will not affect your application if it was otherwise strong. If you handled it in a gregarious and whimsical nature, there is a good chance that she just wrote it off and was flatter. It is difficult to tell from the info you've given, but it's not worth getting hung up on.

3. by "drunk and wanting to score" i'm assuming you mean in the pic, and not the interview.

4. again, you had balls, and if i were in the same situation, and i clearly sensed flirty vibes, i would have done the same if i were not so desperate to get into med school. so on this angle, good for you.

5. good luck getting in! we both need it.
 
femmedargent said:
you're absolutely right, howard. here's what I gather overall from your situation:

1. on a plainly sexual level, you clearly misread the rapport between the two of you. some call this "game" - and she faked you out. this happens, but with time and plenty of practice, you will be able to see it coming miles away, and either abort, or deploy the appropriate countermeasures. On this note, good hunting.

2. In terms of the damage you may or may not have done to her report to the admissions committee, it is largely out of your hands. I would not contact her except an email perhaps, just saying thank for you the interview opportunity, and nothing more. She will probably write a report to go into your file. My guess is that unless you were overbearing, pushy, or very serious, the faux pas will not affect your application if it was otherwise strong. If you handled it in a gregarious and whimsical nature, there is a good chance that she just wrote it off and was flatter. It is difficult to tell from the info you've given, but it's not worth getting hung up on.

3. by "drunk and wanting to score" i'm assuming you mean in the pic, and not the interview.

4. again, you had balls, and if i were in the same situation, and i clearly sensed flirty vibes, i would have done the same if i were not so desperate to get into med school. so on this angle, good for you.

5. good luck getting in! we both need it.




Femmedargent -


Why do you make fun of me? You kind of talk like a European snob, too. Like Deuce Bigaloo, Female Gigalo. The chick at the interviewer probably digged me, but was just partial to my manliness. I am confidant she deemed me attractive. You've seen my pic, what do you think, huh? I was bothered by your condescending remarks and sarcasm toward me (Or as you'd say, "towards", since your a British f***ing European snob). My mission is to just accel at everything I do, including scoring with the dames. I bet moist of you SDNers can't boast of that mission, and of my feats.

Great Balls of Fire!!!
 
geez this thread has turned into a big fat pissing contest.
 
awesome.

can we sticky this thread?

and howard, that doesn't mean what you think it means. put your shirt back on.
 
Howard, in all seriousness,
I have actually heard of this happening before.
Ad adcom member gave one of those lectures on what it takes to get into med school at my school. When he got to the interview portion of his talk, he gave us an example of what not to do is ask you interviewer out on a date. He told us this has happened just last week (October I guess) and it is the best example he's ever seen on how to get a rejection and not an acceptance or waitlist.

Hope you have a backup school if that was your #1 choice
 
howardhi said:
Femmedargent -


Why do you make fun of me? You kind of talk like a European snob, too. Like Deuce Bigaloo, Female Gigalo. The chick at the interviewer probably digged me, but was just partial to my manliness. I am confidant she deemed me attractive. You've seen my pic, what do you think, huh? I was bothered by your condescending remarks and sarcasm toward me (Or as you'd say, "towards", since your a British f***ing European snob). My mission is to just accel at everything I do, including scoring with the dames. I bet moist of you SDNers can't boast of that mission, and of my feats.

Great Balls of Fire!!!

woahhhhhh there dude, you took that totally the wrong way.

first of all, i wasnt making fun of you. at all.

second, if you want European "snobbery", so be it. i am not familiar with this "deuce bigaloo", and last i checked, a female gigolo is called a *****.

"Confidant" is a noun, you may want to check Webster's for an adjective called "confident" and try to work that into your vocabulary; it's quite useful, especially (in its noun form confiDENCE) with the chicks.

My British dual citizenship aside, across the pond we tend to delineate between the possessive "your" and contraction "you're" (you are). As in, "You're a tool."

Although "accel"ling at everything you do might have been clever if you were a virtuoso soloist, something tells me that the only solo-ing you do involves Hand Solo, defender of the galaxy, slayer of sperm.

And finally, as for "moist SDNers", well, hahahahah, i've got nothing.

sorry bro, misunderstanding or not, u asked for it.
 
Well, this thread took a turn for the worst. I was expecting big things from it, but it has failed me.
 
all those years of hard work down the ****hole with a 5 second sentence.... 👎 👎

If you got into the school somehow im sure you could have asked her then. You wouldnt be losing anything. You know, a lot of my freinds say "just go and ask her, the worst thing that can happen is that she says no". LOL in this case you had a lot more at stake!!!

It was a bold move, hopefully it doesnt cost you an acceptance at the school.

best of luck! :luck: :luck:
 
jon stewart said:
all those years of hard work down the ****hole with a 5 second sentence.... 👎 👎

If you got into the school somehow im sure you could have asked her then. You wouldnt be losing anything. You know, a lot of my freinds say "just go and ask her, the worst thing that can happen is that she says no". LOL in this case you had a lot more at stake!!!

It was a bold move, hopefully it doesnt cost you an acceptance at the school.

best of luck! :luck: :luck:

Okay, this is really bothering me. Who the hell is that on you and BrettBatchelors avatar?
 
To the OP:

Sorry, dude, but I'm like 99.99% sure that they're going to reject you. Next time you interview, make sure you don't fall in love with your interviewer.
 
You guys are ******ed, can't you tell that this is obviously a joke? The picture was a dead give-away.
 
:laugh: Holy ****, this is the best troll thread ever. 👍

Why was this guy banned? We all need a little humor.

(The line, "If I were a patient would you treat me like this?" is excellent and so appropriate for pre-med forums. :laugh: )
 
MarzH05 said:
Okay, this is really bothering me. Who the hell is that on you and BrettBatchelors avatar?


That's Tucker Carlson. He was owned by Jon Stewart on his own show (Crossfire) when Jon made fun of him for being 35 and wearing a bowtie.
 
Definitely. I love the "it shows my glee and charm" and "I wouldn't take my shirt off like that in front of a patient"..classic.

Pretty funny how much time people put into some of these responses too...
 
howardhi said:
Attached is a pic of me, it shows my glee and charm
I was right. Dude, you are the mack-daddy.
Probably beatin the ladies off with a stick. 👍 What's your secret?
 
howardhi said:
Dude guys, I'm serious here, this isn't an f***ing joke. I don't know, maybe there's a disconnect in my brain, but I don't see how my actions were inappropriate, as you all have been saying. Aren't girls always looking out for Mr. Right. Why would I want to send a pic. of my shirt off?? Dude, that's f***in' stupid-as*.

bro, like i said, you'r either fu..cked, or your fu...cke AND she'll be thinking about you for the next year or so......

really though, IF (i stress IF) you're instincts are correct, you totally caught her off guard. nevertheless, IF (did I say IF????) she was really into you, she simply wouldn't have expected that to happen. lol

but if you're a decent looking dude with confidence and some charisma, it's totally possible. so, who knows? maybe you just caught her off guard???

then again, you may be on cloud 9, and she was like "WTF was he thinking???" lol
 
howardhi said:
Dude guys, I'm serious here, this isn't an f***ing joke. I don't know, maybe there's a disconnect in my brain, but I don't see how my actions were inappropriate, as you all have been saying. Aren't girls always looking out for Mr. Right. Why would I want to send a pic. of my shirt off?? Dude, that's f***in' stupid-as*.

bro, like i said, you'r either fu..cked, or your fu...cke AND she'll be thinking about you for the next year or so......

really though, IF (i stress IF) you're instincts are correct, you totally caught her off guard. nevertheless, IF (did I say IF????) she was really into you, she simply wouldn't have expected that to happen. lol

but if you're a decent looking dude with confidence and some charisma, it's totally possible. so, who knows? maybe you just caught her off guard???

then again, you may be on cloud 9, and she was like "WTF was he thinking???" lol
 
Zoom-Zoom said:
You guys are ******ed, can't you tell that this is obviously a joke? The picture was a dead give-away.

yeah, we know (i just saw it actually.. lol). but, it's still funny as hell.
 
LMAOFOTF !!! Don't worry about it, there's nothing you can do now. Next time, don't hit on your interviewer! By the way, female med students are never impressed by younger males. You might as well be a high school student. The same goes for female residents and attendings. Anyway, if your behavior hurt you, it should have. Your behavior was socially inappropriate. Live and learn...
 
TerdFerguson said:
That's Tucker Carlson. He was owned by Jon Stewart on his own show (Crossfire) when Jon made fun of him for being 35 and wearing a bowtie.

What's wrong with wearing a bowtie? my father has always worn a bowtie (every single day to work, and everywhere...he doesn't have any other kind)...and he's over 60 now. I think it's maybe just a Southern thing? I guess you have to be able to pull it off. My father is cool.

Jon Stewart sort of isn't funny sometimes though. Sometimes he is. I think he tries too hard.
 
femmedargent said:
woahhhhhh there dude, you took that totally the wrong way.

first of all, i wasnt making fun of you. at all.

second, if you want European "snobbery", so be it. i am not familiar with this "deuce bigaloo", and last i checked, a female gigolo is called a *****.

"Confidant" is a noun, you may want to check Webster's for an adjective called "confident" and try to work that into your vocabulary; it's quite useful, especially (in its noun form confiDENCE) with the chicks.

My British dual citizenship aside, across the pond we tend to delineate between the possessive "your" and contraction "you're" (you are). As in, "You're a tool."

Although "accel"ling at everything you do might have been clever if you were a virtuoso soloist, something tells me that the only solo-ing you do involves Hand Solo, defender of the galaxy, slayer of sperm.

And finally, as for "moist SDNers", well, hahahahah, i've got nothing.

sorry bro, misunderstanding or not, u asked for it.


Wow, what a dork :laugh:
 
Tryin2makeit1 said:
Wow, what a dork :laugh:

Well, since the thread long ago devolved into personal attacks, BRING IT BITCH.

Are you in the NY Metro Area, cuz I can arrange to have you say that to my face.
 
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
femmedargent said:
Well, since the thread long ago devolved into personal attacks, BRING IT BITCH.

Are you in the NY Metro Area, cuz I can arrange to have you say that to my face.
 
howardhi said:
Hey guys I need some help, or some advice, seriously. At ##### med. school (I don't want to say the name), my interviewer was a student interviewer who was in her mid-twenties and breathtakingly beautiful! She was so gorgeous. I thought we had a good rapport, and I thought she like, really liked me, more than just in a business way. So as I was getting up from the chair to head out the door of the room where she was doing the interviews, I casually said, "Hey [name of person], maybe if I get accepted we could have dinner." She didn't say anything. She said "What?" I honestly thought she didn't hear me. So I said, "I said would you like to have dinner tonight? I leave tomorrow?" She sort of froze up, then she said, "I have a boyfriend." I wasn't sure if she actually has a boyfriend, or if she was just saying that to seem unavailable. I said, "Oh ok, well pretend I didn't say anything, and just evaluate me fairly. Put in a good word for the admissions committee.
Do you think I'll be negatively affected now, because of what I did? I was just really attracted to her, that's all.

-howard


Uhhhhhh yeah!!!! Dawg...I know you thouhgt you could get your mack on and everything but your interview day should be your time to display your professionalism! Think of that day as an interview for a job...you dont do that!

Well just chalk it up as a lesson learned!
Good luck on future interviews
 
femmedargent said:
Are you in the NY Metro Area, cuz I can arrange to have you say that to my face.

If you're a hot girl I'll make the trek!

To the OP. While I never asked out an interviewer, I did hook up with a couple of student hosts! Does that count? :laugh:
 
howardhi said:
Hey guys I need some help, or some advice, seriously. At ##### med. school (I don't want to say the name), my interviewer was a student interviewer who was in her mid-twenties and breathtakingly beautiful! She was so gorgeous. I thought we had a good rapport, and I thought she like, really liked me, more than just in a business way. So as I was getting up from the chair to head out the door of the room where she was doing the interviews, I casually said, "Hey [name of person], maybe if I get accepted we could have dinner." She didn't say anything. She said "What?" I honestly thought she didn't hear me. So I said, "I said would you like to have dinner tonight? I leave tomorrow?" She sort of froze up, then she said, "I have a boyfriend." I wasn't sure if she actually has a boyfriend, or if she was just saying that to seem unavailable. I said, "Oh ok, well pretend I didn't say anything, and just evaluate me fairly. Put in a good word for the admissions committee.
Do you think I'll be negatively affected now, because of what I did? I was just really attracted to her, that's all.

-howard

LOL... oh crap, i know you howard!!!!

LOLOLOLOL

man, that must be embarassing. you will negatively affect you. but it could positively affect you as well if she was flattered by it.

if she was repulsed by it, then yeah, it will be a negative impact.
 
UCLA2000 said:
If you're a hot girl I'll make the trek!

no, no, if you're a hot girl, I'll make the trek!
 
This thread is like sdn's own Twilight Zone except more hilarious than creepy. Well, it turned a little creepy after howard posted his pic. :scared:
 
femmedargent said:
Well, since the thread long ago devolved into personal attacks, BRING IT BITCH.

Are you in the NY Metro Area, cuz I can arrange to have you say that to my face.
How about you both come to my house and I'll beat you both down. (in a good way and ONLY if your both hot chicks! 😉 )
 
jbone said:
How about you both come to my house and I'll beat you both down. (in a good way and ONLY if your both hot chicks! 😉 )


hahahaha... so much sexual frustration on these boards!!! I think we're all dudes, actually. Don't ruin my fantasy though, i like to pretend you're all hot girls.
 
femmedargent said:
hahahaha... so much sexual frustration on these boards!!! I think we're all dudes, actually. Don't ruin my fantasy though, i like to pretend you're all hot girls.
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: yea, me too. BTW, no frustration here. 😉
 
I get a good laugh every time I read the title to this thread.
 
femmedargent said:
hahahaha... so much sexual frustration on these boards!!! I think we're all dudes, actually. Don't ruin my fantasy though, i like to pretend you're all hot girls.

No wonder Kim's so popular! She's the only woman on these boards! :laugh:
j/k
 
femmedargent said:
if you look anything like your avatar.....
yea, it's hot. Hook me up! 👍 :laugh:
 
you people need to get laid.......BIG time!







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