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femmedargent said:ok, i can defend a man until he posts a shirtless pic---- you're on your own man. game over.


You must mean that the "race" is over!
femmedargent said:ok, i can defend a man until he posts a shirtless pic---- you're on your own man. game over.
Pewl said:If I were the interviewer I woulda found it hilarious. Screw professionalism. A student interviewer is NOT a "professional" anyway. =P
howardhi said:I don't know guys... here's how I feel about it. All of us are interested in going into the health profession in order to help other people. Well here I am asking an honest's man's question about how to deal with a situation. A lof of you, so far, have been very helpful and candid, and I appreciate it. Some of you have dismissed my inquiry as a prank or joke or something. not true. I'm secure w/who I am. I said that my pic was when I was sort of drunk, but you shouldn't judge me for that. The pic just represents my gleeful spark. Just because I was drunk and wanted to score, doesn't mean a suck as a person. If I wre a patient you treat me like this. I'm going to be a doctor though and I wouldn't, OBVIOUSLY, take off my shirt like in my pic for a patient.
femmedargent said:you're absolutely right, howard. here's what I gather overall from your situation:
1. on a plainly sexual level, you clearly misread the rapport between the two of you. some call this "game" - and she faked you out. this happens, but with time and plenty of practice, you will be able to see it coming miles away, and either abort, or deploy the appropriate countermeasures. On this note, good hunting.
2. In terms of the damage you may or may not have done to her report to the admissions committee, it is largely out of your hands. I would not contact her except an email perhaps, just saying thank for you the interview opportunity, and nothing more. She will probably write a report to go into your file. My guess is that unless you were overbearing, pushy, or very serious, the faux pas will not affect your application if it was otherwise strong. If you handled it in a gregarious and whimsical nature, there is a good chance that she just wrote it off and was flatter. It is difficult to tell from the info you've given, but it's not worth getting hung up on.
3. by "drunk and wanting to score" i'm assuming you mean in the pic, and not the interview.
4. again, you had balls, and if i were in the same situation, and i clearly sensed flirty vibes, i would have done the same if i were not so desperate to get into med school. so on this angle, good for you.
5. good luck getting in! we both need it.
howardhi said:Femmedargent -
Why do you make fun of me? You kind of talk like a European snob, too. Like Deuce Bigaloo, Female Gigalo. The chick at the interviewer probably digged me, but was just partial to my manliness. I am confidant she deemed me attractive. You've seen my pic, what do you think, huh? I was bothered by your condescending remarks and sarcasm toward me (Or as you'd say, "towards", since your a British f***ing European snob). My mission is to just accel at everything I do, including scoring with the dames. I bet moist of you SDNers can't boast of that mission, and of my feats.
Great Balls of Fire!!!
jon stewart said:all those years of hard work down the ****hole with a 5 second sentence.... 👎 👎
If you got into the school somehow im sure you could have asked her then. You wouldnt be losing anything. You know, a lot of my freinds say "just go and ask her, the worst thing that can happen is that she says no". LOL in this case you had a lot more at stake!!!
It was a bold move, hopefully it doesnt cost you an acceptance at the school.
best of luck!![]()
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MarzH05 said:Okay, this is really bothering me. Who the hell is that on you and BrettBatchelors avatar?
I was right. Dude, you are the mack-daddy.howardhi said:Attached is a pic of me, it shows my glee and charm
howardhi said:Dude guys, I'm serious here, this isn't an f***ing joke. I don't know, maybe there's a disconnect in my brain, but I don't see how my actions were inappropriate, as you all have been saying. Aren't girls always looking out for Mr. Right. Why would I want to send a pic. of my shirt off?? Dude, that's f***in' stupid-as*.
howardhi said:Dude guys, I'm serious here, this isn't an f***ing joke. I don't know, maybe there's a disconnect in my brain, but I don't see how my actions were inappropriate, as you all have been saying. Aren't girls always looking out for Mr. Right. Why would I want to send a pic. of my shirt off?? Dude, that's f***in' stupid-as*.
Zoom-Zoom said:You guys are ******ed, can't you tell that this is obviously a joke? The picture was a dead give-away.
TerdFerguson said:That's Tucker Carlson. He was owned by Jon Stewart on his own show (Crossfire) when Jon made fun of him for being 35 and wearing a bowtie.
femmedargent said:woahhhhhh there dude, you took that totally the wrong way.
first of all, i wasnt making fun of you. at all.
second, if you want European "snobbery", so be it. i am not familiar with this "deuce bigaloo", and last i checked, a female gigolo is called a *****.
"Confidant" is a noun, you may want to check Webster's for an adjective called "confident" and try to work that into your vocabulary; it's quite useful, especially (in its noun form confiDENCE) with the chicks.
My British dual citizenship aside, across the pond we tend to delineate between the possessive "your" and contraction "you're" (you are). As in, "You're a tool."
Although "accel"ling at everything you do might have been clever if you were a virtuoso soloist, something tells me that the only solo-ing you do involves Hand Solo, defender of the galaxy, slayer of sperm.
And finally, as for "moist SDNers", well, hahahahah, i've got nothing.
sorry bro, misunderstanding or not, u asked for it.
Tryin2makeit1 said:Wow, what a dork![]()
femmedargent said:Well, since the thread long ago devolved into personal attacks, BRING IT BITCH.
Are you in the NY Metro Area, cuz I can arrange to have you say that to my face.
howardhi said:Hey guys I need some help, or some advice, seriously. At ##### med. school (I don't want to say the name), my interviewer was a student interviewer who was in her mid-twenties and breathtakingly beautiful! She was so gorgeous. I thought we had a good rapport, and I thought she like, really liked me, more than just in a business way. So as I was getting up from the chair to head out the door of the room where she was doing the interviews, I casually said, "Hey [name of person], maybe if I get accepted we could have dinner." She didn't say anything. She said "What?" I honestly thought she didn't hear me. So I said, "I said would you like to have dinner tonight? I leave tomorrow?" She sort of froze up, then she said, "I have a boyfriend." I wasn't sure if she actually has a boyfriend, or if she was just saying that to seem unavailable. I said, "Oh ok, well pretend I didn't say anything, and just evaluate me fairly. Put in a good word for the admissions committee.
Do you think I'll be negatively affected now, because of what I did? I was just really attracted to her, that's all.
-howard
howardhi said:Attached is a pic of me, it shows my glee and charm
femmedargent said:Are you in the NY Metro Area, cuz I can arrange to have you say that to my face.
howardhi said:Hey guys I need some help, or some advice, seriously. At ##### med. school (I don't want to say the name), my interviewer was a student interviewer who was in her mid-twenties and breathtakingly beautiful! She was so gorgeous. I thought we had a good rapport, and I thought she like, really liked me, more than just in a business way. So as I was getting up from the chair to head out the door of the room where she was doing the interviews, I casually said, "Hey [name of person], maybe if I get accepted we could have dinner." She didn't say anything. She said "What?" I honestly thought she didn't hear me. So I said, "I said would you like to have dinner tonight? I leave tomorrow?" She sort of froze up, then she said, "I have a boyfriend." I wasn't sure if she actually has a boyfriend, or if she was just saying that to seem unavailable. I said, "Oh ok, well pretend I didn't say anything, and just evaluate me fairly. Put in a good word for the admissions committee.
Do you think I'll be negatively affected now, because of what I did? I was just really attracted to her, that's all.
-howard
UCLA2000 said:If you're a hot girl I'll make the trek!
How about you both come to my house and I'll beat you both down. (in a good way and ONLY if your both hot chicks! 😉 )femmedargent said:Well, since the thread long ago devolved into personal attacks, BRING IT BITCH.
Are you in the NY Metro Area, cuz I can arrange to have you say that to my face.
jbone said:How about you both come to my house and I'll beat you both down. (in a good way and ONLY if your both hot chicks! 😉 )
femmedargent said:hahahaha... so much sexual frustration on these boards!!! I think we're all dudes, actually. Don't ruin my fantasy though, i like to pretend you're all hot girls.
femmedargent said:hahahaha... so much sexual frustration on these boards!!! I think we're all dudes, actually. Don't ruin my fantasy though, i like to pretend you're all hot girls.
Hey, there! I'm a woman. 😡UCLA2000 said:No wonder Kim's so popular! She's the only woman on these boards!
j/k
QofQuimica said:Hey, there! I'm a woman. 😡![]()
yea, it's hot. Hook me up! 👍femmedargent said:if you look anything like your avatar.....
lmao. 😳jbone said:yea, it's hot. Hook me up! 👍 😉
Chill 😳QofQuimica said:lmao. 😳