I Asked My Interviewer Out on a Date, HELP

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QofQuimica said:
ha ha, are you having remorse now that you've sobered up? 😉
Just trying to give you a complement. I'll remember next time. 👎
 
Get a room, you two.
Sorry, I'll go back to trolling on our "anyone freaking out" thread....
 
desiredusername said:
Get a room, you two.
Sorry, I'll go back to trolling on our "anyone freaking out" thread....
alright. 😉 👍
(I know the response already, "lmao")
 
howardhi said:
Hey guys I need some help, or some advice, seriously. At ##### med. school (I don't want to say the name), my interviewer was a student interviewer who was in her mid-twenties and breathtakingly beautiful! She was so gorgeous. I thought we had a good rapport, and I thought she like, really liked me, more than just in a business way. So as I was getting up from the chair to head out the door of the room where she was doing the interviews, I casually said, "Hey [name of person], maybe if I get accepted we could have dinner." She didn't say anything. She said "What?" I honestly thought she didn't hear me. So I said, "I said would you like to have dinner tonight? I leave tomorrow?" She sort of froze up, then she said, "I have a boyfriend." I wasn't sure if she actually has a boyfriend, or if she was just saying that to seem unavailable. I said, "Oh ok, well pretend I didn't say anything, and just evaluate me fairly. Put in a good word for the admissions committee.
Do you think I'll be negatively affected now, because of what I did? I was just really attracted to her, that's all.

-howard
Weird, the same thing happened to me except I was the one who was asked out. We went out and its been wonderful ever since.....
 
howardhi said:
Hey guys I need some help, or some advice, seriously. At ##### med. school (I don't want to say the name), my interviewer was a student interviewer who was in her mid-twenties and breathtakingly beautiful! She was so gorgeous. I thought we had a good rapport, and I thought she like, really liked me, more than just in a business way. So as I was getting up from the chair to head out the door of the room where she was doing the interviews, I casually said, "Hey [name of person], maybe if I get accepted we could have dinner." She didn't say anything. She said "What?" I honestly thought she didn't hear me. So I said, "I said would you like to have dinner tonight? I leave tomorrow?" She sort of froze up, then she said, "I have a boyfriend." I wasn't sure if she actually has a boyfriend, or if she was just saying that to seem unavailable. I said, "Oh ok, well pretend I didn't say anything, and just evaluate me fairly. Put in a good word for the admissions committee.
Do you think I'll be negatively affected now, because of what I did? I was just really attracted to her, that's all.

-howard


Yo Howard,

I think what you did was pretty stupid and inappropriate. But if you asked me I'd go out with you. I like guys who put it out there and take foolish chances. Your actions, and the way you look, remind me of this guy who asked me out at a gas station while I was working. He was a fat slob but good looking, and we had dinner. He said we has a cardiologist but just working part time to pay off his debts. I think he said that to impress me, but whatever, it was sexy.

Melinda
 
howardhi said:
Attached is a pic of me, it shows my glee and charm
:laugh: omg im laughing and going to wake up everybody in my house
 
Hey, let us know if you get accepted. You could change the title to "I hit on my interviewer and got in!"
 
Its_MurDAH said:
you people need to get laid.......BIG time!

Laid isn't the problem...can you make this hangover go away? 🙁

Vague memories of going to a bar last night and coming home with a hot girl. 👍 👍 👍
 
utopia456 said:
Yo Howard,

I think what you did was pretty stupid and inappropriate. But if you asked me I'd go out with you. I like guys who put it out there and take foolish chances. Your actions, and the way you look, remind me of this guy who asked me out at a gas station while I was working. He was a fat slob but good looking, and we had dinner. He said we has a cardiologist but just working part time to pay off his debts. I think he said that to impress me, but whatever, it was sexy.

Melinda

Good one!!!
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
 
deuist said:
We've had students at my school ask out standardized patients after giving a physical.

i asked my nurse out in the hospital once. i was f-ed up on morphine and she goes "sorry, i'm married" and i said "don't worry, i won't tell anyone"... the more embarassing part is that i didn't remember any of this and the nurse told my mother who was in the waiting room. shady.
-mota
 
tigress said:
What's wrong with wearing a bowtie? my father has always worn a bowtie (every single day to work, and everywhere...he doesn't have any other kind)...and he's over 60 now. I think it's maybe just a Southern thing? I guess you have to be able to pull it off. My father is cool.

Jon Stewart sort of isn't funny sometimes though. Sometimes he is. I think he tries too hard.

Bowties are fine if he can pull them off, so to speak. Not the clipons though (LOL)!! Just that many people can't pull it off, but wear 'em anyway...
 
howardhi said:
Hey guys I need some help, or some advice, seriously. At ##### med. school (I don't want to say the name), my interviewer was a student interviewer who was in her mid-twenties and breathtakingly beautiful! She was so gorgeous. I thought we had a good rapport, and I thought she like, really liked me, more than just in a business way. So as I was getting up from the chair to head out the door of the room where she was doing the interviews, I casually said, "Hey [name of person], maybe if I get accepted we could have dinner." She didn't say anything. She said "What?" I honestly thought she didn't hear me. So I said, "I said would you like to have dinner tonight? I leave tomorrow?" She sort of froze up, then she said, "I have a boyfriend." I wasn't sure if she actually has a boyfriend, or if she was just saying that to seem unavailable. I said, "Oh ok, well pretend I didn't say anything, and just evaluate me fairly. Put in a good word for the admissions committee.
Do you think I'll be negatively affected now, because of what I did? I was just really attracted to her, that's all.

-howard

Interesting!! I like the spontaneity of it. But that is for the movies.

I dont care how beautiful she is (even if she was butt naked) until I get that acceptance nothing else matters. You took a very huge risk doing that. I'm sure she gets a lot of come ons so she wasn't surprised at that. WHat she was surprised at was your audacity to even try knowing that her feedback to adcom could determine whether you get accepted or rejected.

The thing with beautiful girls is that when they smile you think they want you.
Dont confuse a courteous smile with a naughty smile. I'd be interested to know the outcome of your ordeal.

Good luck anyways
 
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