@Axes - thank you
🙂 I have had a lot of varied experiences. Mostly good.
Social reform doesn't start with people pointing fingers at the people. Newton's 3rd. And sadly, injustice will ALWAYS be a part of life.
Social reform, to me, comes from being an example to the rest of the world, and continuing to push forward while not blaming, or complaining. It doesn't come from questioning minor things, or running to HR or to the EEOC. It doesn't come from beating the fist on the counter and demanding because EVERYONE shuts down.
IF something is bad enough (rape, injury, blah blah blah) then yes, obviously HR and the EEOC are the appropriate avenues. In this particular case, the one that started this entire thread, it was none of that.
Take a look at Nelson Mandela, Gandhi, Carter (I did not like him as PoTUS but my gosh, what a great man!). Those great men did not point fingers at people and say, "You did this to me therefore you must and your entire gender/race/society must pay for that wrong" - they simply worked to make things better.
What can we do as women?
Not work for a place that does not pay us equally. IF enough qualified and exceptional women simply worked for the better places, change would happen. BELIEVE in your self value!
Get involved in politics - support candidates, see their agendas, talk to them. It's easy. Most candidates are willing to accept volunteer help.
Stop looking at yourselves like victims. We're not victims. Advocate for yourself. Advocate for other women. Advocate for men. You're stronger that way.
When I hired women, I paid them exactly what I paid the men in the department IF they were as well qualified. In one case, I paid a woman more
🙂 because she was better qualified.
I also helped found an organization of women's leadership in my city so that female leaders from very large companies and very large firms to the small companies could get guidance, advice and help from those who have been there before. That organization was supported 100% by everyone at the firm and funded by the firms. At one local meeting, we had a MAN speak
😀 about how empowering women was making the lives of the staff better.
In answering your question about having the younger women follow in my footsteps to a brighter tomorrow for women, yes. Of course I would like a better tomorrow for EVERYONE not just women. As a mother to my adult son, I also see reverse discrimination against him.
White male, 23, good looking (
😉 ), single, no kids, no drugs, no booze, no illegal activities, solid life vs. 23 female with similar credentials.
Who do you think gets the nod?