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Hello,
My wife and I are getting ready to apply in the 2019-2020 cycle. Both of our LizzyM scores are around ~66, and we will be applying to DO schools as well. This isn't really a WAMC post, but rather some technical questions because of a unique situation.
The big thing for us is that we are set on attending the same school. That's our top priority. We've been together for the better part of a decade, and after having done the long-distance thing for a long time, we are determined to now stay together for medical school. Again, this is our #1 priority, and while we do have preferences for what schools/locations/etc, we are ready to go anywhere as long as we can go together. To make this point clear, we would be totally fine going to a new DO school in a rural location and ending up in family medicine. Also, if we both don't get into the same place this year, we are fine with waiting a year and trying again.
Our main concern is the risk of getting into different places, or one of us getting in and the other not getting in. Again, we have no problem waiting, improving our application, and trying again the next year. The big cloud over our heads, however, is the fact that turning down an acceptance seems to blacklist one from ANY medical school. Or at least severely harm our chances of ever becoming a doctor.
Therefore I would greatly appreciate advice on the "safest" way to avoid this. Ideally, we will both get into the same school, but we want to be prepared for the worst case scenario.
1) I completely understand that turning down an acceptance for a reason like trying to get into a more prestigious school is a HUGE mistake. In our situation, would schools be more willing to overlook turning down an acceptance?
2) How harmful is turning down an interview invite? Is it as bad as turning down an acceptance? I ask because one idea was that we can only attend interviews from schools that have extended invitations to both of us. That way, we can avoid the situation of one of us having an acceptance and the other being rejected. If we re-apply the next year, would schools be willing to send an interview invite again? Or would one be blacklisted from a school after declining an interview invite too?
3) Related to the last question, if one of us receives an interview invite from a school while the other's application is still under review, would it be fine to email them and ask if they can kindly let us know if our spouse is going to be invited to interview as well before we accept the interview invite? Or would this be seen negatively?
4) We'd greatly appreciate any other advice or guidance for our situation. We've mentioned each other in our personal statements, and are definitely going to apply broadly. Thank you so much!
@Goro @gonnif @LizzyM @DrFortiusNatando @gyngyn @Catalystik
My wife and I are getting ready to apply in the 2019-2020 cycle. Both of our LizzyM scores are around ~66, and we will be applying to DO schools as well. This isn't really a WAMC post, but rather some technical questions because of a unique situation.
The big thing for us is that we are set on attending the same school. That's our top priority. We've been together for the better part of a decade, and after having done the long-distance thing for a long time, we are determined to now stay together for medical school. Again, this is our #1 priority, and while we do have preferences for what schools/locations/etc, we are ready to go anywhere as long as we can go together. To make this point clear, we would be totally fine going to a new DO school in a rural location and ending up in family medicine. Also, if we both don't get into the same place this year, we are fine with waiting a year and trying again.
Our main concern is the risk of getting into different places, or one of us getting in and the other not getting in. Again, we have no problem waiting, improving our application, and trying again the next year. The big cloud over our heads, however, is the fact that turning down an acceptance seems to blacklist one from ANY medical school. Or at least severely harm our chances of ever becoming a doctor.
Therefore I would greatly appreciate advice on the "safest" way to avoid this. Ideally, we will both get into the same school, but we want to be prepared for the worst case scenario.
1) I completely understand that turning down an acceptance for a reason like trying to get into a more prestigious school is a HUGE mistake. In our situation, would schools be more willing to overlook turning down an acceptance?
2) How harmful is turning down an interview invite? Is it as bad as turning down an acceptance? I ask because one idea was that we can only attend interviews from schools that have extended invitations to both of us. That way, we can avoid the situation of one of us having an acceptance and the other being rejected. If we re-apply the next year, would schools be willing to send an interview invite again? Or would one be blacklisted from a school after declining an interview invite too?
3) Related to the last question, if one of us receives an interview invite from a school while the other's application is still under review, would it be fine to email them and ask if they can kindly let us know if our spouse is going to be invited to interview as well before we accept the interview invite? Or would this be seen negatively?
4) We'd greatly appreciate any other advice or guidance for our situation. We've mentioned each other in our personal statements, and are definitely going to apply broadly. Thank you so much!
@Goro @gonnif @LizzyM @DrFortiusNatando @gyngyn @Catalystik